In this episode, I talk about changing as you get older. The challenges, outgrowing things and the incredible growth you experience too. If you're interested in my private 1:1 sessions, check out my Unfolding sessions: https://unfoldingsession.lovable.app/ Thank you so much for listening! ⚡️If this episode landed for you, please hit the subscribe button! ⚡️You can also connect with me on Instagram: @whatsnextforme111 ⚡️And if you’d like to support the podcast, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee - Thank you so much We've got this! Gem xx
It's expensive being single!
03/03/2026 | 31 mins.
In this episode I talk about how expensive it is being the single one! Don't get me wrong, some will argue the peace is priceless, but being single comes at a higher cost. I'd love to know your thoughts on this episode - drop me a DM on Insta @whatsnextforme111
Thank you so much for listening! ⚡️If this episode landed for you, please hit the subscribe button! ⚡️You can also connect with me on Instagram: @whatsnextforme111 ⚡️And if you’d like to support the podcast, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee - Thank you so much We've got this! Gem xx
41, dating & some big news!
24/02/2026 | 15 mins.
I'm back!! In this episode I bring you up to speed on where I've been, my plans for this year (including dating!) and I have some big news to share with you! Thank you so much for listening! ⚡️If this episode landed for you, please hit the subscribe button! ⚡️You can also connect with me on Instagram: @whatsnextforme111 ⚡️And if you’d like to support the podcast, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee - Thank you so much We've got this! Gem xx
Reflections, 40+1 & Trusting My Gut
11/12/2025 | 18 mins.
Closing out my 40th year with some honest reflections on 2025 - not how I imagined it, but full of experiences I’m very grateful for. Thank you so much for listening! ⚡️If this episode landed for you, please hit the subscribe button! ⚡️You can also connect with me on Instagram: @whatsnextforme111 ⚡️And if you’d like to support the podcast, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee - Thank you so much We've got this! Gem xx
Mindset Non-Negotiables for This Time of Year
26/11/2025 | 16 mins.
This week, I’m talking about the little things that keep me steady when everything around me feels loud, busy, or a bit overwhelming. As we head into the festive season where pressure ramps up - plans, expectations, emotions, all of it - I’m leaning into the habits that actually help keep my mindset on track.
Thank you so much for listening! ⚡️If this episode landed for you, please hit the subscribe button! ⚡️You can also connect with me on Instagram: @whatsnextforme111 ⚡️And if you’d like to support the podcast, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee - Thank you so much We've got this! Gem xx
About Figuring it out at 40: Life beyond the timeline
Figuring It Out at 40 is for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought, “Hang on - wasn’t life meant to look different by now?”I’m Gem - 41, single, no kids, never been married (not even close), and learning to carve out my own path. After leaving a job that was burning me out, I’ve since been creating a different life I never expected. I've started working online, want to move to Ibiza, solo travel and create a future that feels aligned - even if it doesn’t look anywhere near how I thought growing up. I’ll share the highs, the lows, the self-doubt, the messy bits and the breakthroughs - all the things that don’t usually get celebrated but deserve to be. It’s about laughing at the awkward bits, grieving the hard bits, and reminding yourself you’re not on your own. So, whether you’re 30s, 40s or beyond, single, divorced, child-free, or simply rethinking the path you’re on - you’ll find honesty, humour, and high vibes here. Think of this as a reminder that your story isn’t on the wrong track - it’s just a different one.
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