Doug shares why you should have children before you are ready, how to raise emotionally intelligent children, and how to help your sons overcome laziness. Listener questions and comments: Sharla - I'm and nurse and I see younger families come in and they roll with things and are more relaxed as the years go by after having more babies, as opposed to those who waited longer. (19:09) Resources: Relevant Radio Dad’s Pack https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Gratitude leads to a happy marriage
Are these the tough years? What happens when married life becomes boring? What happens when a husband doesn’t provide enough financial support for his wife? You be the therapist! Callers weigh in and Doug shares his advice on what to do in these situations. Listener questions and comments: Sue - The couple in the first situation should make sure to have a date night every week. It’s also a good thing for the couple to write a gratitude list every day. (18:32) Olivia - When things are so stressful and you need time alone, you should get up earlier together and spend time with God. (23:20) Michelle - Take a look at finances, and figure out why both are working. (25:19) Joanne - One of the greatest indicators of a successful marriage is for a man to part with his money and provide for his wife. (30:59) Elizabeth - Case 1: They just need to mix it up a little and connect to other people in similar life circumstances. Case 2: I would say that the wife needs to reach out to her husband's family members (36:32) David - Nothing is 50/50 when the priest announces the couple is one. (45:24) Resources: Relevant Radio Dad’s Pack https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Unity in the family
Doug shares highlights from Pope Leo’s homily from the Mass for the Jubilee of Families, Children, Grandparents and the elderly stressing the importance of maintaining unity within marriage. Doug encourages listeners to let their marriage be an example to the world as a representation of God’s love for all mankind. Doug also unpacks a chapter from the book The Spiritual Combat, sharing the importance of developing virtue in the married life. Listener questions and comments: Christine - What boundaries should be set within marriage when alcohol becomes a problem for one of the spouses? (19:50) Deedee - How do you care for a spouse who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's or dementia? (24:10) Mary - What do you in a marriage when there's infidelity and the cheater contracted an STD? (28:05) Mary - I was married for many years and my husband had an affair. I thought about divorce, but was able to work on the marriage, and he worked on it. It is possible. The boy from the affair is now part of our lives and he's like my own. It's a really a miracle. (42:20) Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Relevant Radio Dad’s Pack https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle HOMILY OF THE HOLY FATHER LEO XIV https://www.vatican.va/content/leo-xiv/en/homilies/2025/documents/20250601-omelia-giubileo-famiglie.html The Spiritual Combat and a Treatise on Peace of Soul https://tanbooks.com/products/books/the-spiritual-combat-and-a-treatise-on-peace-of-soul/?gc_id=17487855346&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17496032570&gclid=Cj0KCQjwuvrBBhDcARIsAKRrkjdYJSHXupkwN_Gof2sMV0nIEQZr8_3gLDPFz3ZoZAURaN-hr3WNzSoaAgC4EALw_wcB
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Overcoming scrupulosity and anxiety
Do you or your child struggle with anxiety or scrupulosity? Is it having a negative effect on you or your marriage? Dr. Johann D’Souza joins Doug to discuss what scrupulosity is, is not and how to treat it. Listener questions and comments: Barbara - I have had OCD all of my life. What helps me is the Surrender prayer Which I pray every day. Also what helps me are the first three steps of 12 steps program. (20:56) Paul - I'm emotionally abusive toward my wife and need direction about that. (29:49) Chris - I'm dealing with my OCD and scrupulosity. As far as exposure therapy goes, is it a daily practice or a certain amount of time to put in? (39:16) John - How can a man avoid overworking when he wants to provide for his family? (45:36) Katherine - I have OCD. I found a program and started going to the meetings there on the phone and they're based on AA. What do you think about that? (48:45) Resources: Values First Therapy https://www.valuesfirsttherapy.com/ Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Red flags couples ignore
Are you in a relationship and wondering if you are compatible? Doug discusses what couples should know before they tie the knot. He identifies red flags couples ignore that could lead to a difficult marriage or even divorce. PLUS: The Friday Rant! Listener questions and comments: Mark - If you're going to marry someone and you're a Catholic, you should marry another Catholic. You would think that other religions are similar, but they're not, especially when it comes to contraception. It’s a big red flag. (17:59) Miriam - A friend is pregnant and she's marrying the father of their baby. She has two other children from a previous relationship. How should they set up their finances? (21:01) Tom - I do marriage preparation. I'm blown away by the fact that the preparation programs are not even mentioned. (24:58) Michael - My wife and I are separated. I am a recovering sex addict and 10 months sober. I am struggling to communicate with my wife because she just walks away when we are not getting anywhere. What should I do? (33:28) Resources: Relevant Radio Dad’s Pack https://relevantradio.store/collections/merch/products/dads-pack Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle Red flags couples ignore Differences in core values Unresolved family trauma Both partners handle conflict in different ways
Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.
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