The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Robyn Gobbel
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for par...
{BONUS} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior- webinar replay
This BONUS episode is the audio from my FREE webinar, Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior.This webinar aired lived on 02/04/2025. You can watch the video webinar for free over at https://RobynGobbel.com/webinarYou can also download the free, accompanying resources, including: eBook, fridge sheets about the Owl, Watchdog, and Possum, all the slides as handouts, and some additional accompanying infographics. :::The Club is open from now until March 4!Looking for a community who gets it? The chance to pick Robyn's brain and connect with her directly? Download over 50 resources? Watch of 100 videos? So you feel less alone, less bonkers, and get some parenting ideas that just might actually work?Come join us in The Club! We're waiting for you. Head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub to join
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Ep 210: Sabotage and Being Set Up
It’s very common to feel like our kids are either intentionally sabotaging good things or that they are purposefully setting us up to be mad or disappointed or to have to say no. You aren’t imagining this phenomenon!All humans do it, but our kids with vulnerable nervous system and big, baffling behaviors may seem like they do it more often.In this episode, you’ll learnThe neuroscience behind WHY our kids sabotage situations or set us up to be dysregulatedWhat they are really doing (and it’s actually full of hope)How we might respond differently that could actually change their brainResources mentioned in this podcast:Rupture Repair podcast episodeMatch the Energy not the Dysregulation podcast episodeRegulated, not Calm podcast episodeBrilliant of Attachment podcast series & eBook,which goes deeper into the concept of hope vs. expectationRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/setupFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is open from now until March 4!Looking for a community who gets it? The chance to pick Robyn's brain and connect with her directly? Download over 50 resources? Watch of 100 videos? So you feel less alone, less bonkers, and get some parenting ideas that just might actually work?Come join us in The Club! We're waiting for you. Head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub to join
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Ep. 209: No One is Coming to Save Us
It took me a looooooong time to really truly believe and understand that- no one is coming to save me.I had to do the hard work to take responsibility for my own triggers, my own nervous system, my own change. This only happened after oodles and oodles of safety, connection, and co-regulation.Maybe you, like me, have held onto the hope that someone else will fix this. Your child will change, you’ll get the services you need, something will happen and everything will get better. Maybe this journey through some of the intimate moments of my own healing journey can assist you on your’s.Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/saveusFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is open from now until March 4!Looking for a community who gets it? The chance to pick Robyn's brain and connect with her directly? Download over 50 resources? Watch of 100 videos? So you feel less alone, less bonkers, and get some parenting ideas that just might actually work?Come join us in The Club! We're waiting for you. Head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub to join
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Ep. 208: Bravely Being With Grief with Rose LaPiere
Rose LaPiere LPC, RPT-S, and ACS invites into a space of safety and connection so we can make room for grief. Rose brings her own experiences of grief to her work as a play therapist (and co-leader in Robyn’s immersive training program for parenting professionals, Being With) so she can bravely welcome in, and be with, her client’s big, at times overwhelming, feelings. In this episode, you’ll learnThe importance of authenticity, naming, and acknowledge even really really hard feelingsThe role of playfulness is processing griefThe importance of self-compassion for the grown-ups and therapists supporting kids and families in their griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Rose's Website! - RoseLaPiere.comRead the full transcript at:URL goes hereFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is open from now until March 4!Looking for a community who gets it? The chance to pick Robyn's brain and connect with her directly? Download over 50 resources? Watch of 100 videos? So you feel less alone, less bonkers, and get some parenting ideas that just might actually work?Come join us in The Club! We're waiting for you. Head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub to join
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Ep. 207: Is It Time to Raise the Bar?
You’ve lowered stress and demands. You’ve reframed your child’s behavior as a response from their autonomic nervous system. You’ve worked hard to help your child’s stress response system rest and begin to healNow what?In this episode, you’ll learnHow rest is only one part of the healing processThe importance of reintroducing stressThe difference between stress that prompts growth and stress that leads to injury and burn-outResources mentioned in this podcast:Stress Response System {EP 94}Scaffolding Felt Safety {EP 205}Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/RaiseTheBarFacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is open from now until March 4!Looking for a community who gets it? The chance to pick Robyn's brain and connect with her directly? Download over 50 resources? Watch of 100 videos? So you feel less alone, less bonkers, and get some parenting ideas that just might actually work?Come join us in The Club! We're waiting for you. Head to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub to join
About The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work. You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
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