This one’s for the parents of boys. In this episode, I’m diving into a conversation we really need to be having—about our sons, teen boys, puberty, the rise of radical voices like Andrew Tate, and the pressures our boys are feeling in today’s culture. I’m not here to panic or point fingers, but to help us think critically about what’s really going on, how we’re showing up for our boys, and how to keep connection strong even as hormones hit and the Internet gets louder. From the truth about sex hormones and aggression to the problem with the phrase “toxic masculinity,” I’m sharing the big picture (and the hard convos) that can actually support our boys in becoming healthy, grounded men.Timestamps:(00:00:41) Navigating Boys' Online Influence in Parenting(00:02:32) Navigating Adolescent Hormonal Shifts and Aggression(00:11:15) Navigating Masculine Expectations During Puberty(00:22:54) Validation and Connection: Online Radicalization Among Youth(00:34:29) Promoting Open Communication with Children about Emotions(00:38:27) Fostering Early Conversations on Gender and Politics(00:38:27) Effective Teen Communication Building Trust and Respect(00:45:28) "Potty Training Support and Personalized Assistance"Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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239: Why You Should Cater to Your Oldest Child
Hey friends! In this bite-sized nugget, I’m talking about something I see allll the time in modern parenting—catering everything to the youngest kid. From activities to movie choices, it’s easy to default to what the baby needs... but it’s time we shift that. I’m breaking down what I call “aging up”—prioritizing your oldest’s stage of development instead of dragging them back to toddler-level everything. This episode is part pep talk, part reality check, and 100% permission to not make things fair between siblings (because they never will be). So yeah, your baby might be eating hot Cheetos while watching Harry Potter—but your oldest deserves to grow forward, not backward. Let’s get into it.Timestamps:(00:00:42) Tailoring Family Activities for Developmental Harmony(00:01:02) "Fostering Emotional Growth Through Sibling Dynamics"(00:01:02) Tailoring Experiences to Oldest Child's LevelJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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238: Kid Not Listening?
Let’s talk about listening—and why your kid not doing what you asked isn’t always about defiance. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to get your child to listen the first time (without yelling across the house or bribing with snacks). We’re covering everything from how screens impact your kid’s ability to hear you, to why consequences have to be immediate in order to work. I’m also diving into one of the biggest reasons your kid might be ignoring you: they simply don’t believe you’ll follow through. If you’ve slipped into permissive parenting or feel like your kid is running the show, this is your loving, no-nonsense reset. Let’s get back to being the trustworthy, firm, awesome leader your kid actually needs.Timestamps:(00:00:45) Effective Communication in Child Behavior Management(00:02:04) Building Trust Through Effective Child Communication(00:10:05) Building Trust and Boundaries Through Authoritative Parenting(00:17:05) Consistent Boundaries for Authoritative Parenting(00:20:06) Swinging the Pendulum: Restoring Parental AuthorityJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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237: Food for Thought (Bite Size Nugget)
Hey hey! In this bite-sized nugget, I’m bringing you a half-baked but important thought that hit me hard: when did we lose our connection to food—and what did we fill that time with? I’m talking about the slow erosion of food culture, from the rise of shelf-stable convenience to the fact that so many adults don’t even know how to cook anymore. We’ve got all these time-saving devices, but somehow we’re more burnt out than ever—and we don’t even have time to get our food, let alone cook it. This one’s not a rant (okay, maybe a little)—just a gut-check on how “easy” might actually be making things harder. Let’s chew on it.Timestamps:(00:01:19) The Impact of Convenience on Cooking Skills(00:02:22) "The Disconnect Between Convenience and Burnout"Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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236: The Village Part 5 - Organized Sports & Activities
In this final part of the Village series, I’m going after something big: organized sports and structured activities for the under-six crowd. Look, I know it’s tempting to sign your kid up for everything from ballet to t-ball—but I’m breaking down why that might be doing more harm than good. We’re talking body awareness, emotional regulation, mental load (hello group chats!), and what your little one actually needs in this stage of development. Plus, I’m giving you better alternatives: from drop-in classes to truly free play, and how to build your own little community without losing your damn mind. Spoiler: your four-year-old is not missing out on a scholarship. Tune in.Timestamps:(00:00:41) Promoting Community and Social Skills Through Activities(00:02:51) Early Introduction to Organized Sports for Kids(00:06:22) Autonomous Play: Nurturing Child Development Safely(00:12:51) Teamwork Development Before Age Six(00:14:38) Collaborative Development Through Diverse Team Activities(00:19:41) Balanced Approach to Children's Activity ParticipationJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
A podcast for conscious parents who drop the f-bomb. A lot. We are the overthinkers, the dreamers, and the doers. We are parenting in a radically different way than those before us. But our divine vision gets blurry cause...OMG...kids can be such a pain in the ass. Let's work from the inside out, in a whole brain, whole body way to mitigate the crappy behavior. Not just with our kids but with ourselves. So you can be the parent you envision.
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