Single Parent Reset

In this episode of Single Parent Reset, I’m joined by fellow single parent Nicola Rae for an honest conversation about navigating the practical and emotional reality of single parenting, especially when you’re in a long, drawn-out transition and just trying to get through the days.
We talk about why it’s important not to put your life on hold while you wait for everything to be resolved, and how creating a “new normal” can start sooner than you think.
Nicola shares what’s helped her most on her single parent journey, clearer boundaries, routines that make day-to-day life easier, building in small pockets of peace and getting more comfortable asking for support.
If you’re feeling like you’re still in survival mode, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out to start again. There can be hope, freedom, and lightness alongside the hard parts and your reset can begin in small, everyday ways.

Find Out More Nicola Rae:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsnicolarae/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolarae/
Connect With Orla Donoghue:
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In this episode of Single Parent Reset, the focus is on why co-parenting can feel so draining even when there’s no obvious conflict. It explores the emotional and mental load many single parents carry and why co-parenting can leave you feeling tense, exhausted or constantly on edge without always knowing why.
Rather than focusing on the other parent, this episode brings the attention back to you. It looks at how to protect your energy, recognise what’s quietly depleting you,and begin making co-parenting feel more manageable and sustainable. The emphasis is on realistic shifts that support your wellbeing, helping you move forward feeling calmer, clearer and more grounded without guilt.
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Dating as a single parent can feel exhausting, overwhelming, and full of dead-end dates. In this episode of Single Parent Reset, we explore how to break the cycle of dating burnout by dating with intention. Whether you’re just stepping back into the dating world or have been navigating apps and first dates for a while, this episode will help you get clear on what you truly want from dating, align your actions with your goals, and stop wasting time on experiences that don’t serve you. Learn practical strategies to approach dating with confidence, clarity, and purpose as a single parent.
We’ll cover how to identify your ideal outcome, overcome the mental blocks holding you back, and take actionable steps to make your dating life more intentional and fulfilling. If you’re a single parent struggling with dating, feeling frustrated by apps, ghosting, or just unsure where to start, this episode is your reset guide to navigating dating with focus and self-awareness. Tune in to discover how small mindset shifts and intentional action can transform your dating experience and help you create meaningful connections while balancing the demands of single parenthood.
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In this week’s episode of Single Parent Reset, we look at what to do and what not to do when you’re thinking about progressing in your career as a single parent. If you know you want change at work but feel unsure how to move forward without burning out, this episode offers a grounded, realistic approach. We explore why pushing harder, ignoring your limits, or making rushed decisions often backfires, and why career progression needs to look different when you’re carrying the full weight of parenting alone.
I share practical guidance on how to make career moves that genuinely support your life, including getting clear on your day-to-day realities, understanding the true financial impact of change, building the right support around you, and advocating for yourself without overexplaining or self-doubt. This episode is about helping you progress in a way that’s sustainable, strategic, and aligned with your reality so your career can grow alongside your life, not stagnate at the expense of it.
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In this week’s episode of Single Parent Reset, Jenny Beckford joins me to share her honest and uplifting journey as a single parent to twin daughters. Jenny opens up about the challenges of transitioning to parenting alone, the moments of self-doubt, and how she navigated the tough decision of when and how to talk to her children about separation.
Jenny also shares practical advice for single parents who feel overwhelmed or disconnected, from finding small moments of self-care to building open communication with children. She explains how reconnecting with yourself isn’t selfish, but essential, and offers gentle encouragement for anyone feeling stuck in survival mode.
Whether you’re just starting out as a single parent or have been on this path for years, Jenny’s story is a reminder that you’re not alone and that there’s real hope and growth on the other side of the hardest days.
Find Out More About Jenny Beckford:
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