The Doodle Pro®: Positive Dog Training for Calm Doodles

Many Doodle parents ask whether a board and train program for dogs is the best solution. Many Doodle parents eventually ask the same question:
“Should I send my dog to a board and train program?”
It’s a very understandable thought. When your dog is jumping, pulling on leash, barking, or struggling to settle, the idea of sending them away for a few weeks and getting back a perfectly trained dog can sound incredibly appealing.
In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story about sending my own Poodle to a board and train program years ago, long before I became a professional trainer.
At the time, I had young children and simply wanted to do the best thing for my dog. I had heard that positive reinforcement was the best approach, and I asked a lot of questions before enrolling her.
One of the answers I heard back then is something I now recognize as a major red flag:
 “We start with positive reinforcement and only use other tools if necessary.”
When I picked up my Poodle, she had a beautiful down-stay.
But the moment I stopped using the tool she had been trained with, the behavior disappeared. And the emotional fallout for my dog was real. She became more anxious and started submissive peeing.
That experience taught me something important about how dogs actually learn.
Years later, after becoming a professional trainer and working with Doodles every day, I revisited that exact skill. I wanted to know if we could teach an even stronger down stay without relying on tools like prong collars or pressure.
That work eventually became Relaxation Protocol for Distractable Doodles™, a training approach designed specifically for the high-energy, highly social nature of Doodles.
Today I regularly see Doodles learn to settle calmly even with real-life distractions like doorbells, visitors, or activity in the home — all through positive reinforcement training.
In this episode, I talk about:
• Why behaviors built with pressure often disappear when the pressure is removed
 • The red flag phrase many dog owners hear when asking about positive reinforcement training
 • Why many board and train programs still rely on aversive tools like prong collars or e-collars
 • Why sending a dog away for training doesn’t automatically transfer skills back to the family
 • Why training together often creates stronger long-term results
 • How to teach a Doodle to settle and relax using positive reinforcement training
I also want to be clear about something important. Skilled, science-based trainers can be incredibly valuable. The best trainers don’t replace the relationship between you and your dog. They help guide you so you can build that relationship yourself.
Because in the end, the most important training happens in the everyday moments between you and your dog.
Many Doodle parents also find that having a predictable daily rhythm helps their dogs settle more easily. I walk through the exact structure that works well for Doodles in my bestselling book, Your Doodle’s Daily Schedule Blueprint™, which shows you how to create a daily routine that supports calmer behavior at home.
In a few weeks, I’ll also be hosting a live Doodle Parent Challenge where we’ll start building the training skills that help Doodles focus, listen, and settle. I’ll share more details about that soon.

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In Part Two of my conversation with Jean Donaldson, members of The Doodle Pro® Honor Society were live in the room asking real training questions about distraction, jumping, dog parks, and choosing the right trainer.
How do you choose a dog trainer you can trust? Why does your dog listen inside but ignore you outside? And what does “balanced training” actually mean?
We break it all down.
How to Choose a Dog Trainer
Not all trainers are created equal. We discuss why certification matters, what organizations to look for, and why transparency about motivation is essential. If a trainer avoids explaining how they reinforce behavior, that’s a red flag.
We also unpack common phrases like “balanced training,” “it’s about energy,” or “I don’t use food,” and what those may signal. Positive reinforcement is not permissive. It is structured, evidence-based, and designed to change behavior without unwanted side effects.
Why Your Dog Listens Inside But Not Outside
If your Doodle knows “sit” in the kitchen but forgets it outside, they’re not being stubborn.
They’re distracted.
Training with distractions requires gradual steps. Instead of jumping from calm indoor practice straight to the sidewalk with other dogs, you build difficulty in layers. This is what trainers call proofing, but in everyday language, it simply means helping your dog succeed in progressively harder environments.
We talk through how to train a distracted dog and why skipping steps leads to frustration.
Stop Jumping Without Damaging the Relationship
Jumping is common, especially with social, enthusiastic Doodles.
Instead of focusing only on “don’t jump,” we discuss teaching an alternate behavior. If jumping is illegal, what’s legal? Sit? Down? Both can work for real-life greeting manners.
Dogs must do something. Clear structure helps them choose the right behavior.
Are Dog Parks Bad?
Dog parks are often labeled dangerous, but are they always a bad idea?
We explore when dog parks can be appropriate, what normal dog play actually looks like, and why growling and mouthing aren’t automatically aggression. Understanding canine body language helps reduce unnecessary fear.
Dog parks aren’t one-size-fits-all. The right environment depends on your individual dog.
Resource Guarding and Teaching Fetch
We also answer Honor Society member questions about resource guarding and teaching fetch without creating conflict.
Sometimes dogs are simply “running their software.” Not every behavior needs suppression. Clear structure, gradual shaping, and understanding motivation go much further than force.
If you’re looking for science-based dog training that protects your relationship and builds real-world reliability, this episode is for you.
Be sure to listen to Part One for the foundation on dominance myths and anthropomorphism.
And if you’d like deeper implementation, live Q&A access, and structured monthly training focus, you can learn more about The Doodle Pro® Honor Society at thedoodlepro.com/society.
Doodles are different. Wonderfully so.
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Jean Donaldson joins me for a powerful conversation about what she calls The Culture Clash  between humans and dogs.
If you’ve ever thought your Doodle:
 • “knows he did wrong”
 • is being stubborn
 • should be eager to please
 • is acting dominant
This episode will shift how you see your dog forever.
We dive into:
Why assigning morality to dogs leads to harsh training
The truth about “eager to please”
Why intelligence is often misunderstood in Doodles
Demand barking and why timeouts sometimes don’t work
Why jumping isn’t dominance
The real fallout of aversive tools
Jean explains why swapping nuisance behavior for fear is malpractice and why fear is the hardest thing to undo in dogs.
If you want a deeper understanding of how your Doodle’s brain actually works, this is foundational listening.
📚 Books mentioned:
The Culture Clash by Jean Donaldson
Mine! by Jean Donaldson
Be sure to follow to catch part two next!
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If you want to be part of conversations like this live, join the Doodle Pro Honor Society today.
This interview was recorded three months ago as part of a live session inside the Honor Society.
Join us for future live expert Q&As and deeper conversations:
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This is a short, time-sensitive episode.
If you’ve been listening over the past week and thinking about joining the Doodle Pro® Honor Society, today is your last chance. Doors close at midnight tonight.
In last week’s episode, I shared why I did something I said I’d never do: open my private, alumni-only community to everyone who loves Doodles and wants ongoing, science-based support. Today, I’m explaining why this matters, what you’re actually joining, and why enrollment is closing again.
Inside the Honor Society:
Monthly live Q&A sessions with me for Doodle-specific training, behavior, grooming, and health questions
Regular live expert guests, including world-renowned trainers and veterinarians
A searchable library of 20+ hours of Doodle-focused resources I call “Google for Doodles”
A private community of Doodle parents who understand the chaos, the sweetness, and the real-life challenges
Upcoming expert sessions:
Dr. Adam Christman, Chief Veterinary Officer for DVM360, goes live with members tomorrow to talk about partnering with your vet and navigating health misinformation
Past guests include Jean Donaldson, one of the most respected dog trainers in the world, teaching specifically about Doodles
Expert guests are scheduled throughout the year, aligned with monthly themes that build on each other
This is a year-long journey, not a quick fix
Each month focuses on a specific season of life with your Doodle, including enrichment, impulse control, grooming, independence, travel, fireworks prep, guest manners, and holiday calm. Skills layer intentionally so you’re supported all year long.
Enrollment details:
$37/month or $370/year (save 20% and receive a complimentary Doodle Nerd t-shirt)
Cancel anytime. No long-term commitment on the monthly option
When enrollment opens again, pricing increases to $47/month
👉 Join before midnight tonight:
https://thedoodlepro.com/honorsociety
If you’re unsure whether this is the right fit, dm me on Instagram @thedoodlepro before doors close.
If you love your Doodle and want ongoing expert support and community, I don’t want to keep you out anymore. Doors close tonight.
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For years, I swore I would never do this.
The Doodle Pro® Honor Society was intentionally closed. You could only join if you were an alumni of one of my courses like Zoomies to Zen™ or Relaxation Protocol for Distractable Doodles™. I loved that model. It felt protected. Intentional. Deeply personal.
And then something happened.
While speaking at Podfest in Orlando, I found myself waving down Dr. Adam Christman, Chief Veterinary Officer of DVM360, bestselling author, and one of the most trusted veterinary voices online. What started as a funny, human moment over Doodles and Dachshunds turned into a yes that changed everything.
He agreed to come teach my community.
And suddenly, I couldn’t ignore the truth anymore.
I’ve been gatekeeping access to world-class experts from people who love their Doodles just as much as my alumni do. Podcast listeners. Email subscribers. Longtime followers. Thoughtful, science-minded Doodle parents who want to do right by their dogs.
So in this episode, I’m sharing the full story behind a decision I never thought I’d make.
In this episode, I cover:
Why I originally kept the Honor Society alumni-only
The Podfest moment that shifted everything for me
How hosting experts like Jean Donaldson and Dr. Adam Christman changed my perspective
What actually happens inside the Doodle Pro® Honor Society month by month
Why this is not a quick-fix training program
Who this membership is truly for (and who it’s not)
How ongoing expert access and community support changes the Doodle parenting experience
Why I’m opening enrollment to everyone for the first time ever
What the Doodle Pro® Honor Society includes:
Monthly live Q&A sessions with me for Doodle-specific training, grooming, behavior, and health questions
Live expert guest sessions with top trainers, veterinarians, authors, and behavior professionals
A growing, searchable library of 20+ hours of Doodle-specific resources
A private community of Doodle parents who genuinely understand the chaos and the sweetness
A year-long, seasonal curriculum that layers calm, enrichment, confidence, and real-life skills
This is ongoing support. Not pressure. Not perfection. A place to keep learning, asking questions, and feeling supported as your Doodle grows and changes.
Important notes:
This membership is not designed for aggression cases or severe separation anxiety that require one-on-one clinical intervention. It is also not a fit for force-based training methods.
It is for Doodle parents who value science-based, positive reinforcement approaches and want real guidance that actually matches how Doodles are wired.
Enrollment details:
The Doodle Pro® Honor Society is open right now through February 12. After that, enrollment closes and will not reopen for several months.
👉 Learn more and join here:
https://thedoodlepro.com/honorsociety

If you’re unsure whether this is the right fit, DM me on Instagram @thedoodlepro. I’m happy to help you decide.
I love hard on my community. I show up. And if you love your Doodle and want ongoing support from people who truly get it, I don’t want to keep you out anymore.