It doesn't matter how loved you are -- you can’t always rely on your people to encourage you. You can’t always rely on your partner, kids or your parents. You can’t always rely on your friend, your teacher, your co-worker, or your boss. Sometimes, when it seems like hell is coming against you – you are going to have to encourage yourself. If you call that friend and they doesn’t pick up because they has life going on for them as well I need you to step in for yourself.