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• The Philosophy of Failure (Ep. 150)

  Jim’s Take Episode 150: The Philosophy of Failure — Are You Even Dreaming Big Enough?New York | Global Coaching | Personal Growth | Business MindsetDescriptionFailure isn’t real. Not like you think it is.In episode 150 of Jim’s Take, executive coach Jim Frawley tackles one of the most misunderstood concepts in business, personal development, and life: failure.Is failure actually what you’re afraid of—or is it what people will think when you fail?This episode dives deep into:Why our definition of failure might be sabotaging our ambitionThe real fear behind perceived failure: social judgmentHow identity, self-worth, and external validation tie into risk-takingWhy trying—and being seen trying—is more powerful than outcomeHow to redefine failure on your terms so you can finally move forwardThis isn’t your typical motivational talk. It’s a philosophical, brutally honest exploration of why you may not be dreaming big enough—and what it takes to stop playing small.Keywordsfailure philosophy, growth mindset, emotional risk, overcoming fear of failure, executive coach podcast, Jim Frawley, NYC coach, authentic leadership, why people fear failure, how to redefine success, Carol Dweck mindset, fear of judgment, self-worth and ambition, mental performance, try and fail, coaching podcast 2025, public failure, risk tolerance growth, purpose-driven livingTopics Covered[00:00] Why episode 150 matters—and why we’re talking failure[02:15] Are you really afraid of failure—or just of being seen failing?[06:40] How we define failure (and why most people never actually do)[10:05] Emotional risk and what’s really stopping you[15:30] Failure and identity: who’s writing your success script?[20:45] Growth mindset and the power of “yet” (Carol Dweck insight)[24:30] External validation vs. internal motivation[28:55] Micro-risks: how small moves can change everything[32:40] Why “not trying” is the real failure[35:20] A new framework: define your success, own your effort[38:45] Final challenge: what would you do if no one was watching?Mentioned in This EpisodeCarol Dweck’s “Mindset” – The psychology of success and the power of “yet”Bill Burr’s commentary on who really gets to be called a failureReal-life coaching insights from Jim's experience with high-performers

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• Nothing Matters. Be Selfish. (Ep. 149)

  This week, we're flipping the script.In a world that’s endlessly screaming for your attention—but rarely in your interest—it’s time to talk about healthy selfishness. This isn’t about giving up. It’s about giving up on the noise, the “shoulds,” and the imaginary expectations placed on you by people who don’t share your values.When nothing matters the way we think it does, we get to decide what actually does. That’s freedom.In this episode, we cover: Why we’re so stressed (hint: it’s not your inbox)How other people’s imaginations are running your lifeThe real meaning of “nothing matters” as liberation, not nihilismDefining healthy selfishness—and how it makes you a better personHow to filter your decisions through your values, not societal pressureA challenge to say “no” to one thing this week, and “yes” to yourselfIf you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, judged, distracted, or pulled in a hundred directions—you’re not alone. But this episode is your permission slip to simplify, focus, and prioritize the one person who truly needs your attention: you.Key Quote: “The world is screaming for your attention, but rarely in your interest.” – Jim FrawleyTopics and Concepts Mentioned:Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and self-actualizationEthical philosophy and enlightened self-interestThe burden of “should” and how to reject itSimplicity as a strategy for peace and clarityLeading with yourself as the foundation for fulfillmentWeekly Challenge:Pick one thing to deprioritize. Say no to something that doesn’t matter. Say yes to yourself.Connect with Jim:Website: www.jimfrawley.comInstagram | Twitter | TikTok: @jimfrawleynyLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jimfrawley

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• The Cost of Constant "Influence" and the Inundation of Marketing (Ep. 148)

  Episode 148 – Marketing is Breaking Us: The Cost of Constant Influence and How to Push BackKeywords: marketing fatigue, digital burnout, attention economy, wellness strategies, New York podcast, personal development, mental clarity, stress relief, modern lifestyleSummary: In this explosive episode of Jim’s Take, Jim Frawley takes a hard look at the overwhelming barrage of marketing messages infiltrating every part of our daily lives—from inescapable airplane ads to influencer-driven nonsense and fake "choices" built to manipulate you. With over 10,000 ad impressions a day, Americans are drowning in noise—and it’s wrecking our focus, wellness, and sanity.Jim dives deep into:How marketing has shifted from suggestion to manipulationThe psychological toll of constant distraction and digital noiseWhy tipping culture, fake discounts, and "dynamic pricing" are subtle behavioral trapsReal-life examples from airports, emails, self-serve beer taps, and beyondActionable ways to reclaim your peace: opt-outs, tech boundaries, and curating your lifeThis episode isn’t just a rant—it’s a call to reset. Whether you're in New York or navigating life in any modern city, this is a wake-up call to reclaim your autonomy, restore serenity, and stop letting algorithms dictate your life.Listen now and start cutting the noise. Serenity isn't for sale—but it's still possible to find.

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• Are All of Our Problems Social Problems? (Ep. 147)

  Episode Title: Are All of Our Problems Social Problems?Episode Number: 147Host: Jim FrawleyKeywords: social wellness, mental health, fear of failure, social anxiety, belief systems, social comparison, loneliness, imposter syndrome, personal development, human connectionEpisode SummaryIn this thought-provoking episode of Jim’s Take, Jim Frawley explores a radical idea: most of our personal challenges—fear, anxiety, even financial stress—are actually rooted in social disconnection.Jim breaks down how the overlooked pillar of social wellness impacts everything from our self-confidence to our day-to-day decision-making. Whether you're feeling the pressure of performance, struggling with insecurity, or wondering why comparison is eating away at your joy, this episode offers a clear framework to reframe the problem—and solve it at its social core.This isn’t about being more extroverted. It’s about being more honest, connected, and human.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy social wellness is the missing third leg of the wellness stool (alongside physical and mental health)How the fear of failure is actually fear of judgmentWhy imposter syndrome is a social problem, not a personal flawThe role of comparison in both financial dissatisfaction and life anxietyHow performative social media behavior erodes confidence and presenceThe importance of a personal belief system to combat external validation-seekingWhy your social circle may need an audit—and how to do it with clarity, not blameActionable steps to reconnect with people through small, no-agenda interactionsOutline– Introduction– The missing pillar of wellness: Social health– Why we ignore social wellness (and what it costs us)– The challenge of adult friendship and social effort– Reframing fear of failure and judgment– Imposter syndrome: You know enough– Financial stress and the trap of comparison– Social media’s false promise of relevance– The five people closest to you—and why it matters– Building internal beliefs to withstand external noise– Micro-strategies for low-pressure connection– Final thoughts on connection, meaning, and how to be humanNotable Quotes“We are not afraid of failure. We’re afraid of what people will think when we fail.”“Without internal conviction, we’re always seeking external validation—and we never find it.”“You don’t have to be a social butterfly. You just have to be human.”Connect with JimWebsite: www.jimfrawley.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jimfrawleyInstagram: @jimfrawleynyTwitter: @jimfrawleynyTikTok: @jimfrawleyny

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• The Lost Art and Skill of Leisure (Ep. 146)

  In this episode, Jim breaks down something we’ve all lost touch with: leisure—not vacations, not performative “self-care,” but the daily, essential ability to check out and truly recharge.From the illusion of optimized rest to the guilt we carry when we’re not being productive, Jim explores why doing nothing might be the most human thing you can do today. If you're burnt out, stuck in hustle mode, or just can't remember the last time you lost track of time, this one’s for you.What You’ll Learn:Why most of us have forgotten how to relax—and how that’s hurting usThe difference between looking relaxed and actually being at restHow the wellness industry has co-opted leisure and turned it into another jobReal-life examples of “micro-leisure” that require no agenda, no outcomes, and no trackingWhy true leisure is the antidote to burnout, decision fatigue, and societal edgeThe radical idea that doing nothing… might be exactly what you needQuotable Moments:“Rest has become another job. Even our candles come with to-do lists.”“We took hustle culture, put yoga pants on it, and called it self-care.”“If your rest has a reason, it’s not rest. It’s just disguised ambition.”“Leisure isn’t lazy. It’s human.”Challenge to Listeners:Find 15 minutes today. No phone. No goals. No productivity hack. Just exist. And if that feels weird… that’s probably a sign you need it.Mentioned in This Episode:Listening to full albums (like Led Zeppelin or Wu-Tang) start to finishSitting in silence, people-watching, or browsing a bookstore with no planThe difference between personal development and disguised productivityPhilosophical reflections on meaning and presenceSubscribe, Share & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who needs a reminder that it's okay to do nothing—and don’t forget to leave a review wherever you listen.

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