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• Pride is the Point: You've Already Done the Hard Part (Ep. 151)

  EPISODE TITLE:Pride Is the Point: You’ve Already Done the Hard Part | Jim’s Take #151DESCRIPTIONWe’re surrounded by pressure to “move forward” at all costs—new goals, new challenges, new technologies. But what if the secret to knowing what’s next… is looking back?In this episode of Jim’s Take, executive coach and speaker Jim Frawley challenges you to reclaim pride—not the arrogant kind, but the personal, powerful kind that reminds you what you’re capable of.Jim introduces a tool he calls the “Posdoc”—a personal highlight reel of achievements, meaningful compliments, and proud moments that help anchor you during uncertainty and motivate you through change.Whether you’re navigating a career pivot, battling imposter syndrome, or just trying to figure out what really matters, this episode will reconnect you with your own story—and show you how to use it as fuel.You’ve already done the hard part. Now it’s time to own it.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:Why most people avoid taking credit for their accomplishments (and how it hurts them)How hustle culture and false humility sabotage your ability to leadHow to build your Posdoc—a document of powerful proof that reminds you who you areHow to use pride as a compass for making your next move with purposeReal-life stories about pride, personal wins, and the unexpected power of complimentsTOOLS & RESOURCES MENTIONED:The Posdoc – Your personal proof of capability (explained in depth)Thought prompts: "What have I done that I’m genuinely proud of?"Mindset exercise: Take 5 minutes to write down 5 wins—big or smallWHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR:Executives and professionals seeking clarity during transitionIndividuals feeling overwhelmed by AI, automation, or rapid changePeople battling imposter syndrome or burnoutCoaches, creatives, and leaders ready to reconnect with their own valueRELEVANT KEYWORDS & PHRASES:How to use pride as motivationOvercoming imposter syndromeExecutive coaching tools for self-confidenceSelf-awareness during career transitionPersonal growth after layoffsBuilding self-worth in uncertain timesRealistic positivity podcastSelf-reflection and personal leadershipCONNECT WITH JIM:Instagram / Twitter / TikTok: @jimfrawleynyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimfrawleyWebsite & Coaching Inquiries: https://www.jimfrawley.comCALL TO ACTION:This week’s challenge:Write down 5 things you’re proud of. Start your Posdoc.Then tell one person. Say it out loud.You’ve done more than you think. Start acting like it.

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• The Philosophy of Failure (Ep. 150)

  Jim’s Take Episode 150: The Philosophy of Failure — Are You Even Dreaming Big Enough?New York | Global Coaching | Personal Growth | Business MindsetDescriptionFailure isn’t real. Not like you think it is.In episode 150 of Jim’s Take, executive coach Jim Frawley tackles one of the most misunderstood concepts in business, personal development, and life: failure.Is failure actually what you’re afraid of—or is it what people will think when you fail?This episode dives deep into:Why our definition of failure might be sabotaging our ambitionThe real fear behind perceived failure: social judgmentHow identity, self-worth, and external validation tie into risk-takingWhy trying—and being seen trying—is more powerful than outcomeHow to redefine failure on your terms so you can finally move forwardThis isn’t your typical motivational talk. It’s a philosophical, brutally honest exploration of why you may not be dreaming big enough—and what it takes to stop playing small.Keywordsfailure philosophy, growth mindset, emotional risk, overcoming fear of failure, executive coach podcast, Jim Frawley, NYC coach, authentic leadership, why people fear failure, how to redefine success, Carol Dweck mindset, fear of judgment, self-worth and ambition, mental performance, try and fail, coaching podcast 2025, public failure, risk tolerance growth, purpose-driven livingTopics Covered[00:00] Why episode 150 matters—and why we’re talking failure[02:15] Are you really afraid of failure—or just of being seen failing?[06:40] How we define failure (and why most people never actually do)[10:05] Emotional risk and what’s really stopping you[15:30] Failure and identity: who’s writing your success script?[20:45] Growth mindset and the power of “yet” (Carol Dweck insight)[24:30] External validation vs. internal motivation[28:55] Micro-risks: how small moves can change everything[32:40] Why “not trying” is the real failure[35:20] A new framework: define your success, own your effort[38:45] Final challenge: what would you do if no one was watching?Mentioned in This EpisodeCarol Dweck’s “Mindset” – The psychology of success and the power of “yet”Bill Burr’s commentary on who really gets to be called a failureReal-life coaching insights from Jim's experience with high-performers

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• Nothing Matters. Be Selfish. (Ep. 149)

  This week, we're flipping the script.In a world that’s endlessly screaming for your attention—but rarely in your interest—it’s time to talk about healthy selfishness. This isn’t about giving up. It’s about giving up on the noise, the “shoulds,” and the imaginary expectations placed on you by people who don’t share your values.When nothing matters the way we think it does, we get to decide what actually does. That’s freedom.In this episode, we cover: Why we’re so stressed (hint: it’s not your inbox)How other people’s imaginations are running your lifeThe real meaning of “nothing matters” as liberation, not nihilismDefining healthy selfishness—and how it makes you a better personHow to filter your decisions through your values, not societal pressureA challenge to say “no” to one thing this week, and “yes” to yourselfIf you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, judged, distracted, or pulled in a hundred directions—you’re not alone. But this episode is your permission slip to simplify, focus, and prioritize the one person who truly needs your attention: you.Key Quote: “The world is screaming for your attention, but rarely in your interest.” – Jim FrawleyTopics and Concepts Mentioned:Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and self-actualizationEthical philosophy and enlightened self-interestThe burden of “should” and how to reject itSimplicity as a strategy for peace and clarityLeading with yourself as the foundation for fulfillmentWeekly Challenge:Pick one thing to deprioritize. Say no to something that doesn’t matter. Say yes to yourself.Connect with Jim:Website: www.jimfrawley.comInstagram | Twitter | TikTok: @jimfrawleynyLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jimfrawley

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• The Cost of Constant "Influence" and the Inundation of Marketing (Ep. 148)

  Episode 148 – Marketing is Breaking Us: The Cost of Constant Influence and How to Push BackKeywords: marketing fatigue, digital burnout, attention economy, wellness strategies, New York podcast, personal development, mental clarity, stress relief, modern lifestyleSummary: In this explosive episode of Jim’s Take, Jim Frawley takes a hard look at the overwhelming barrage of marketing messages infiltrating every part of our daily lives—from inescapable airplane ads to influencer-driven nonsense and fake "choices" built to manipulate you. With over 10,000 ad impressions a day, Americans are drowning in noise—and it’s wrecking our focus, wellness, and sanity.Jim dives deep into:How marketing has shifted from suggestion to manipulationThe psychological toll of constant distraction and digital noiseWhy tipping culture, fake discounts, and "dynamic pricing" are subtle behavioral trapsReal-life examples from airports, emails, self-serve beer taps, and beyondActionable ways to reclaim your peace: opt-outs, tech boundaries, and curating your lifeThis episode isn’t just a rant—it’s a call to reset. Whether you're in New York or navigating life in any modern city, this is a wake-up call to reclaim your autonomy, restore serenity, and stop letting algorithms dictate your life.Listen now and start cutting the noise. Serenity isn't for sale—but it's still possible to find.

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• Are All of Our Problems Social Problems? (Ep. 147)

  Episode Title: Are All of Our Problems Social Problems?Episode Number: 147Host: Jim FrawleyKeywords: social wellness, mental health, fear of failure, social anxiety, belief systems, social comparison, loneliness, imposter syndrome, personal development, human connectionEpisode SummaryIn this thought-provoking episode of Jim’s Take, Jim Frawley explores a radical idea: most of our personal challenges—fear, anxiety, even financial stress—are actually rooted in social disconnection.Jim breaks down how the overlooked pillar of social wellness impacts everything from our self-confidence to our day-to-day decision-making. Whether you're feeling the pressure of performance, struggling with insecurity, or wondering why comparison is eating away at your joy, this episode offers a clear framework to reframe the problem—and solve it at its social core.This isn’t about being more extroverted. It’s about being more honest, connected, and human.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy social wellness is the missing third leg of the wellness stool (alongside physical and mental health)How the fear of failure is actually fear of judgmentWhy imposter syndrome is a social problem, not a personal flawThe role of comparison in both financial dissatisfaction and life anxietyHow performative social media behavior erodes confidence and presenceThe importance of a personal belief system to combat external validation-seekingWhy your social circle may need an audit—and how to do it with clarity, not blameActionable steps to reconnect with people through small, no-agenda interactionsOutline– Introduction– The missing pillar of wellness: Social health– Why we ignore social wellness (and what it costs us)– The challenge of adult friendship and social effort– Reframing fear of failure and judgment– Imposter syndrome: You know enough– Financial stress and the trap of comparison– Social media’s false promise of relevance– The five people closest to you—and why it matters– Building internal beliefs to withstand external noise– Micro-strategies for low-pressure connection– Final thoughts on connection, meaning, and how to be humanNotable Quotes“We are not afraid of failure. We’re afraid of what people will think when we fail.”“Without internal conviction, we’re always seeking external validation—and we never find it.”“You don’t have to be a social butterfly. You just have to be human.”Connect with JimWebsite: www.jimfrawley.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jimfrawleyInstagram: @jimfrawleynyTwitter: @jimfrawleynyTikTok: @jimfrawleyny

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