CONTENT WARNING This episode touches on fertility struggles and the emotional weight of balancing family planning with career ambitions. If this is a sensitive topic for you, please take care of yourself, it's okay to come back to this one when you're ready.
What if the tension between your career and your personal life isn't a you problem, it's a system problem? In this episode, Soph sits down with Dr. Ellen Joan Ford: leadership expert, solo mum, army veteran, and author of Work School Hours. They get into the big, messy, deeply personal question of how we're supposed to build careers we care about while also having a life, and why the way we currently work is making it nearly impossible.
From the motherhood penalty and egg freezing to output vs. hours and why your boss's 8:30am meeting might be ruining someone's morning, this one is full of honest conversation, real research, and genuinely actionable ideas. Whether you're a parent, thinking about becoming one, or just someone who's ever felt like work and life are constantly at war with each other, this episode is for you.
Ellen's free resources + book: ellenjoanford.com Use code TODAY00 at checkout to get the e-book for free!
Credits:
Host: Sophie Hallwright
Guest: Ellen Joan Ford
Editor: Lana Byrne
Producer: Emily Rigby
Social & Digital Manager: Lucy Munro
Leave us a message on The Curve Hotline 💌☎️ (https://thecurveplatform.com/pages/the-curve-hotline)
For more from The Curve:
Website (https://thecurveplatform.com/)
Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/thecurveplatform/)
YouTube (https://youtube.com/@thecurveplatform?si=nlCWqqqySWOzYlj3)
TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@thecurveplatform)
Newsletter (https://thecurve.co.nz/pages/sign-up-to-the-curve-weekly)
Substack (https://thecurveplatform.substack.com/)
Chapters
00:00:00 Content Note
00:00:14 Leaving Yourself at the Door: Why "Being Professional" Got It Wrong
00:04:03 The Career vs. Family Dilemma Nobody Prepares You For
00:07:54 This Isn't a Personal Problem — It's a Collective One
00:11:12 Still Ambitious After Kids: Ellen's Story
00:13:11 The Three Uncomfortable Boxes Parents Get Pushed Into
00:16:42 What Egg Freezing Really Says About Your Company
00:21:02 The Motherhood Penalty, Explained
00:24:35 From the Army to Afghanistan to Changing How We Work
00:26:37 Why Investing in Your People Is Never a Waste of Time
00:33:12 Hours Don't Equal Output (And We Need to Stop Pretending They Do)
00:39:39 A Fairer Way to Think About Efficiency at Work
00:41:42 What #WorkSchoolHours Actually Means
00:47:55 Small Changes That Make a Big Difference
00:54:13 The One Thing That Will Make You Better at Work and Life
00:55:17 Where to Find Ellen
00:56:53 Thank you for listening to Raising The Curve!
Disclaimer: Raising The Curve has been prepared solely for informational and educational purposes. Any information provided and serviced described in this website are intended to be of general nature and provide general information only. The opinions expressed by The Curve do not constitute investment advice.