The Mental Golf Show

Peter Melton is a Golf Enjoyment Coach and author of Conversations with Par. He spent three decades stuck in the same trap most golfers never escape — believing his score determined his worth.

In this conversation, we dig into the inner golfer versus the outer golfer, why your survival identity is quietly running your game, and whether enjoyment is just another arrow in the quiver or the whole bag. You're going to leave this episode with a completely different answer to the question "How did you play?" and “Why do you play?”

Get Conversations with Par here.

Check out Peter Melton Golf here.

Topics and Chapters:

00:00 - Intro: Join Mental Golf Club!

00:36 - How You PLAY and How You SCORE Are Different Things

7:07 - How to Play Without Getting Upset

11:26 - Are ‘Results’ and ‘Score’ Naughty Words?

13:49 - Basic Practice Plan: joshnicholsgolf.com/practice

14:52 - You Need to Work On the “Outer Golfer” and the “Inner Golfer”

23:33 - PutterCup: puttercupgolf.com/mentalgolfshow and sign up for the PutterCup newsletter for 15% off

25:45 - Why We Play Small and Safe and Get Protective and Bail

34:07 - What Role Does Enjoyment Play in Scoring?

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Join Mental Golf Club for FREE here: app.joshnicholsgolf.com

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Mentioned in this episode:

🏌️‍♂️ Basic Practice Plan - Practice made simple, intentional, and accountable.

⛳️ PutterCup: Get 15% off your PutterCup order by going to puttercupgolf.com/mentalgolfshow and signing up for the PutterCup newsletter.

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Josh's stuff:

👨🏻‍🏫 1-on-1 Mental Coaching with Josh: Visit joshnicholsgolf.com/coaching to see plans and pricing to work with Josh on your mental game. Or send an email to [email protected].

🎓 The Perfect Pre-Shot Routine digital course - Dial in your pre-shot routine, play your best golf.

📊 FREE Mental Game Assessment: joshnicholsgolf.com/assessment - identify your mental strengths and areas for mental game improvement.

📧 The Mental Re-Grip Newsletter: Sign up for weekly mental game tips atjoshnicholsgolf.com/newsletter.

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Other podcast partners:

🎯 Shot Pattern - The Golf GPS App Designed to Help You Play Smarter Golf - Start a free trial and get 20% off by using the discount code 'MENTALGOLFSHOW' or click this link to go straight there.

⛳️ The Divot Board: Get 10% off at divotboard.com/mentalgolfshow using code 'MentalGolf10'.

🏋️‍♂️ FREE Nerd Fitness Golf Workout - Get the Free MVP Golf Workout from Nerd Fitness here!

🍀 Fairways & Fundays - Ireland Golf Tours - Named World’s Best Golf Tour Operator at the World Golf Awards in 2024 and 2025! If you’re interested in going on a golf trip to Ireland, send me an email and I’ll get you set up with them - [email protected]

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🔥 🧈 Special thanks to Titleist for their support of The Mental Golf Show. Join Team Titleist here.

Chia Chou is a classical pianist and has taught the best of the best musicians for decades.

In the last 5 years he has grown his very unique approach to helping golfers through the use of audio. We even get into how Chia's method is different from (and potentially better than) Tour Tempo.

You'll leave this episode with actionable practices to help you have better tempo, a better understanding of what quality practice actually looks like, new thoughts on the yips, a more clear picture for what you should be thinking about over the ball, a better relationship with the importance of mechanics, and more.

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Check out Chia Chou's Audio Golf here

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Topics and Chapters:

00:00 - Join Mental Golf Club: app.joshnicholsgolf.com

00:37 - Can a Sound Fix My Golf Swing?

04:17 - Why Do We Practice Poorly? And What Is Good Practice?

11:03 - Basic Practice Plan: joshnicholsgolf.com/practice

12:05 - Skepticism About Quick Fixes and Shortcuts (Too Good to Be True?)

15:27 - Why Does Our Tempo Change Day to Day or Shot to Shot?

22:08 - Shot Pattern: shotpattern.app and use discount code MENTALGOLFSHOW for 20% off

24:06 - Can You Practice Enough Quantity to Make Things Automatic?

27:02 - Can Sound Fix the Yips?

30:54 - Where Should Our Attention Be While We’re Hitting a Golf Shot?

39:00 - Perfect Mechanics Don’t Matter If Your Tempo is Off

43:33 - The Divot Board: divotboard.com/mentalgolfshow and use discount code MENTALGOLF10 to get 10% off

45:10 - Audio Golf vs. Tour Tempo

52:02 - Josh Tries an Audio Exercise

57:03 - Give Your Brain A Task To Do (Don’t Try to Turn it Off)

1:00:04 - Chia Chou and Audio Golf: audio.golf

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Join Mental Golf Club for FREE here: app.joshnicholsgolf.com

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🏌️‍♂️ Basic Practice Plan - Practice made simple, intentional, and accountable.

🎯 Shot Pattern - The Golf GPS App Designed to Help You Play Smarter Golf - Start a free trial and get 20% off by using the discount code 'MENTALGOLFSHOW' or click this link to go straight there.

⛳️ The Divot Board: Get 10% off at divotboard.com/mentalgolfshow using code 'MentalGolf10'.

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Josh's stuff:

👨🏻‍🏫 1-on-1 Mental Coaching with Josh: Visit joshnicholsgolf.com/coaching to see plans and pricing to work with Josh on your mental game. Or send an email to [email protected].

🎓 The Perfect Pre-Shot Routine digital course - Dial in your pre-shot routine, play your best golf.

📊 FREE Mental Game Assessment: joshnicholsgolf.com/assessment - identify your mental strengths and areas for mental game improvement.

📧 The Mental Re-Grip Newsletter: Sign up for weekly mental game tips atjoshnicholsgolf.com/newsletter.

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Other podcast partners:

⛳️ PutterCup: Get 15% off your PutterCup order by going to puttercupgolf.com/mentalgolfshow and signing up for the PutterCup newsletter.

🏋️‍♂️ FREE Nerd Fitness Golf Workout - Get the Free MVP Golf Workout from Nerd Fitness here!

🍀 Fairways & Fundays - Ireland Golf Tours - Named World’s Best Golf Tour Operator at the World Golf Awards in 2024 and 2025! If you’re interested in going on a golf trip to Ireland, send me an email and I’ll get you set up with them - [email protected]

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🔥 🧈 Special thanks to Titleist for their support of The Mental Golf Show. Join Team Titleist here.

I made a massive shift in my game between missing the cut at the 2016 U.S. Mid-Amateur to making it the finals of the 2017 U.S. Mid-Amateur. In this episode we get into two major ways I did that.

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Join Mental Golf Club for FREE here: app.joshnicholsgolf.com

Join Mental Golf Club here: app.joshnicholsgolf.com

You guys comprise the best community of the smartest, most thoughtful, deepest thinking bunch of golfers I’ve ever seen. And I’ve seen and heard how much you guys have engaged over the years. It's been incredible.

So we wanted a way for you to engage even further and deeper than you already do. Somewhere you could get even more out of the podcast and of course ultimately improve your game even more.

It’s called MGC+.

With MGC+ you’ll get ad-free episodes of The Mental Golf Show, early access to episodes (don’t have to wait until Monday each week!), access to exclusive bonus Q&A episodes, and of course this will directly support the production of the podcast ❤️

I’ll be opening up submitting questions for the first Q&A episodes to the first 20 MGC+ founding members, and readers of The Mental Re-Grip newsletter are also hearing this offer, so get it while it’s hot!

You can join MGC+ for $5/mo or $49/year.

Go to app.joshnicholsgolf.com. Sign up for free. Then upgrade to MGC+.

We've got another check-in with Nerd Fitness Matt.

Ok, sure, these are thinly-veiled selfish conversations with my fitness coach. But also I firmly believe they're a peak for you into the mindset that builds real consistency and actual results with fitness, nutrition, habits, self-care, and just general relationship with ourselves and what we need.

Hope you learn more about yourself listening to this.

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🏌️‍♂️🏋️ Get the free MVP Golf Workout here!

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Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

0:53 - Struggling With Motivation to Workout

5:41 - Cast Tiny Votes for The Person You Want to Be

11:15 - The Perfect Pre-shot Routine digital course: Go to joshnicholsgolf.com/courses

13:05 - Getting Distracted from Doing the Boring Work (Shiny Object Syndrome)

16:59 - Can/Should AI Replace Coaches?

24:40 - Shot Pattern: Go to shotpattern.app and use the discount code MENTALGOLFSHOW

26:39 - Why You Shouldn’t Try To Optimize Your Fitness

32:16 - The Simplest Way for a Golfer to Get Stronger

42:18 - Matt Myers: Get the FREE MVP Golf Workout

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Mentioned in this episode:

🎓 The Perfect Pre-Shot Routine digital course - Dial in your pre-shot routine, play your best golf.

🎯 Shot Pattern - The Golf GPS App Designed to Help You Play Smarter Golf - Start a free trial and get 20% off by using the discount code 'MENTALGOLFSHOW' or click this link to go straight there.

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Josh's stuff:

👨🏻‍🏫 1-on-1 Mental Coaching with Josh: Visit joshnicholsgolf.com/coaching to see plans and pricing to work with Josh on your mental game. Or send an email to [email protected].

📊 FREE Mental Game Assessment: joshnicholsgolf.com/assessment - identify your mental strengths and areas for mental game improvement.

📧 The Mental Re-Grip Newsletter: Sign up for weekly mental game tips atjoshnicholsgolf.com/newsletter.

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Other podcast partners:

⛳️ PutterCup: Get 15% off your PutterCup order by going to puttercupgolf.com/mentalgolfshow and signing up for the PutterCup newsletter.

🏌️‍♂️ The Divot Board: Get 10% off at divotboard.com/mentalgolfshow using code 'MentalGolf10'.

🍀 Fairways & Fundays - Ireland Golf Tours - Named World’s Best Golf Tour Operator at the World Golf Awards in 2024 and 2025! If you’re interested in going on a golf trip to Ireland, send me an email and I’ll get you set up with them - [email protected]

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🔥 🧈 Special thanks to Titleist for their support of The Mental Golf Show. Join Team Titleist here.