Conversations with Kristi

• S3 Ep4 - The Fear Behind Parental Anger with Andy Briercliffe

  Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Andy and Kristi delve into the emotional dynamics of parenting, particularly focusing on how parents react to situations involving their children, emphasising the importance of remaining calm and understanding the underlying fears that often drive parental anger. They discuss strategies for effective communication and the need for support in navigating challenging conversations with children. Key Takeaways: There are people who are there to help you. Remain calm, don't freak out in tough situations. Most anger stems from fear for children's safety. Disappointment can arise from unmet expectations. Conversations about difficult topics can be challenging. Instant reactions often lead to exaggerated responses. Understanding emotional triggers is key to effective communication. Parents should strive for calmness in crises. Fear can drive parental anger and reactions. Support systems are crucial for parents. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Online Harms and Child Safety04:21 Understanding Online Harms and Their Complexity07:03 The Role of Algorithms in Child Safety09:24 The Debate on Social Media Regulations12:04 Challenges in Enforcing Age Restrictions14:51 The Need for Comprehensive Education on Online Safety17:22 Navigating the Legal Landscape of Online Content20:03 The Nuances of CSAM and CSEM Terminology23:09 Navigating Consent in Adult Content25:11 The Challenges of Law Enforcement and AI27:38 The Role of Education in Online Safety32:42 Understanding Sextortion and Grooming37:58 The Importance of Open Communication39:39 Addressing Broader Online Risks41:41 The Responsibility of Social Media Platforms44:31 Navigating Online Safety and Parental Responsibility47:34 The Role of Education in Digital Safety48:41 Resources for Parents and Guardians51:52 Understanding Misinformation and Influences54:59 The Landscape of Trust and Safety in Technology01:05:07 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/3hcCp_Nq2Ug To access the Global Child Safety List that Andy speaks about in his interview, please go to - Global List - Online Child Safety.xlsx - Google Sheets or follow Andy on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-briercliffe-760621191/

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• S3 Ep3 - Understanding Child-on-Child Sexual Abuse with Lauren B

  Episode Summary: This episode of Conversations with Kristi delves into the sensitive topic of child-on-child sexual abuse, highlighting the experiences of individuals involved in the ABAR project. It emphasises the misconceptions surrounding children's behaviour in such situations and the importance of recognising the seriousness of these incidents rather than dismissing them as mere experimentation or curiosity. Key Takeaways: The ABAR project focuses on child-on-child sexual abuse. Personal experiences can shape memories and perceptions of abuse. Misconceptions about children's behaviour can be harmful. Child-on-child sexual abuse is often underreported and misunderstood. It's crucial to recognise the seriousness of such incidents. Psychological support is vital for survivors of abuse. Awareness and education are key in addressing these issues. Children's experiences should not be trivialised or dismissed. The impact of abuse can vary based on frequency and context. Conversations about child abuse need to be more open and honest. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention03:27 Lauren's Journey as a Survivor05:52 The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care07:17 Navigating the Disclosure Process10:53 The Impact of Dismissive Language12:39 Understanding Child-on-Child Abuse17:32 The Complexity of Child-on-Child Abuse24:14 The Need for Better Terminology26:20 The Role of Education in Prevention30:05 Understanding Victim Behaviour and Support33:03 Finding Purpose Through Helping Others35:47 Parental Guidance on Child Safety41:07 Improving Police Response to Victims47:33 The Need for Support Services in Reporting Abuse49:34 Balancing Healing and Advocacy51:57 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/2HLoUZvSunE

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• S3 Ep2 - Confronting Motherhood: A Journey of Fear with Danielle Cheeseman

  Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Danielle Cheeseman shares her profound fears and anxieties about motherhood, particularly her concerns about raising daughters. She reflects on her own experiences and the challenges she anticipates in preventing her children from facing similar struggles. Key Takeaways: Danielle felt terrified about becoming a mother. She worried about her children experiencing her past traumas. Her fears were heightened by the thought of raising a daughter. She believed that the risks of trauma were still present regardless of gender. Danielle's reflections highlight the emotional challenges of parenting. The conversation emphasises the importance of resilience in motherhood. Personal experiences shape our fears as parents. Danielle's insights reveal the complexities of family dynamics. She expresses a desire to protect her children from pain. The discussion underscores the need for open conversations about mental health. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention03:57 Parenting Fears and Protective Measures05:21 The Impact of Recent Events07:05 The Complexity of Trust and Abuse09:02 Navigating Relationships with Abusers11:13 The Role of Family in Disclosure12:33 The Challenge of Believability15:19 Healing Through Discovery16:46 Support Systems After Disclosure18:02 The Importance of Therapy19:53 Preparing for Parenthood22:29 Teaching Children About Body Safety25:33 Navigating Childhood Trauma and Protective Instincts27:22 Recognising Red Flags and Setting Boundaries30:47 The Importance of Trusting Your Instincts32:19 Educating Parents on Child Safety36:07 The Dangers of Sharing Children's Images Online38:38 Implementing Changes for Family Safety41:19 Empowering Children Through Autonomy43:52 The Importance of Open Conversations About Abuse49:39 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/ncx4a4odqpg To learn more about Danielle you can find her details on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-cheeseman-15b3b89a/

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• S3 Ep1 - Understanding Grooming: A Call to Action with Anna Sonoda.

  Summary: In this episode of "Conversations with Kristi", Anna Sonoda discusses the grooming process that can occur with children and emphasises the critical role that adults play in recognising and interrupting this harmful behaviour. She highlights the importance of legal consequences and the need for adults to be vigilant in protecting children from potential harm. Key Takeaways: Every adult can interrupt the grooming process. Grooming often starts off appearing sweet. Grooming involves pulling children away from normal activities. Adults must be vigilant in recognizing grooming behaviors. Legal consequences are necessary for protecting children. Extended family may not always act in the child's best interest. Creating space between a child and their support system is a red flag. Opportunities to break rules can be a grooming tactic. Awareness of grooming is crucial for all adults. We must be the cornerstone of support for children. Podcast Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Conversations with Kristi 03:26 Anna Sonoda's Journey into Social Work 07:20 Understanding Grooming and Its Impact 10:16 The Four Steps of Grooming 15:51 Recognising Patterns in Grooming Behaviour 21:12 The Importance of Access and Space 26:06 Establishing Family Protocols for Safety 29:34 Understanding the Prevalence of Child Abuse 30:40 The Importance of Open Conversations 33:57 Empowering Parents and Caregivers 37:09 Recognising Grooming Behaviours 40:24 Building Trust and Open Communication 45:09 Addressing Child Sexual Abuse as a Public Health Issue 48:39 Resources for Survivors and Prevention Strategies 51:13 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/qBVVrNlK804

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• S2 Ep20 Breaking down offender behaviours with Kelly Jackson

  CONTENT WARNING - discussion about offender behaviours and methodology In this episode, Kristi interviews phD candidate, criminologist and psychologist Kelly Jackson. Kelly and Kristi discuss the research around offender behaviours and methodologies used in the commission of child sexual abuse and the many ways offenders groom children. This interesting conversation explains in detail the grooming process, the types of behaviours offenders use in order to find victims, the research that proves that stops offenders from abusing kids and how parents can actually protect their children from abuse. This is a must listen episode for anyone who loves to dive deep into the psychology of offenders. Connect with Kelly via her LinkedIn here: linkedin.com/in/kelly-jackson-b49a57150 If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.

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