On the Contacts Coaching podcast, host Justin interviews Cody Bartlow, newly hired head men’s soccer coach at Kansas Wesleyan University, about his path from an unplanned start coaching a U6 co-ed team in high school to 25 years in coaching across club, high school, and NAIA college programs in Texas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, and Kansas. Bartlow explains why he now calls sessions “training” instead of “practice,” emphasizing scenario preparation and player autonomy in a sport with no timeouts. He discusses lessons from coaching co-ed and both genders, building belief in female athletes through relationships and individualized approaches, and borrowing concepts from football, track, basketball, hockey, rugby, and baseball to teach soccer. He also covers multi-sport development, workload management, referee relationships, why back-to-back soccer games raise injury risk, regional differences in soccer culture, and the administrative reality of small-college coaching.
00:00 Podcast Welcome
00:30 Coach Bartlow Journey
03:54 New Kansas Role
04:17 Training Not Practice
06:10 Coed Team Lessons
11:13 Building Confidence
16:25 Cross Sport Coaching
22:11 Specialization Club Tension
26:34 Managing Multi Sport Load
28:58 Coed Season Juggling
29:41 Managing Back To Back Games
29:57 Respecting Referees
32:15 Building Ref Rapport
34:30 Soccer Scheduling Safety
36:19 Recovery And Injury Risk
40:22 Texas Vs Midwest Sports
42:46 Club Culture And Ego
46:01 Small College Coaching Reality
51:52 Growth Mindset And Mentors
54:42 Process Driven Training
58:19 Final Takeaways And Thanks