The Teen Years Toolkit For Moms: Communication Skills to Calm the Chaos

• #149-How a Dog’s “Hackles” Can You To Manage Anger with Compassion: (Moms, Teens, Communication)

  Ever wonder why you snap before you even realize you’re angry? What if your body was just trying to protect you, not betray you?In this episode, Jessica breaks down what’s really happening inside your body when your “hackles rise.” Using the simple example of how a dog’s fur stands up when alarmed, she explains how our nervous system triggers anger—and why it’s not your fault. If you’ve ever felt trapped in guilt or frustration after yelling at your teen, this conversation will change the way you view those moments forever.You’ll discoverHow to recognize when your body—not your mind—is driving your reactionsThe quick reset technique that helps you calm your nervous system in secondsWhy true calm starts in the body and how to “shake it off” like your dog doesListen now to learn the simple nervous system reset that helps you move from anger to calm—so you can respond to your teen with clarity and compassion instead of regret.Want to learn what your communication style under stress is? Take the quiz below.Take the quiz now—it only takes a minute!Not sure where to start with having conversations with your teens about sex, drugs, alcohol or vaping? That's why I created this cheat sheet for How to talk about the BIG stuff with your teen. Grab it below How to Talk About the BIG Stuff With Your TeenNew episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 6:00 AM ESTBook a free 1:1 coaching consult hereConnect with me at [email protected] Learn more about me at www.coachwithjessica.caThis powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

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• #148-3 Steps to Recover After Yelling at Your Teen Without Guilt or Overexplaining: (Moms, Teens, Communication)

  Have you ever promised yourself you wouldn’t yell again—only to find yourself losing it when your teen rolls their eyes? You’re not alone, and it doesn’t make you a bad mom.In this episode, Jessica unpacks what really happens in those emotionally charged moments: why anger often hides fear or sadness, and how understanding your triggers can help you break the guilt cycle. If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing because you can’t stay calm 24/7, this episode is your permission slip to be human again.Listeners will discover:How to recognize what your anger is trying to protect and respond with compassion instead of shameThe simple way to repair connection with your teen after an outburst—without overexplainingWhy self-awareness and self-kindness are the keys to calmer communication and deeper connectionPress play now to learn how to turn “I lost it again” moments into powerful opportunities for growth and genuine connection with your teenager.Want to learn what your communication style under stress is? Take the quiz below.Take the quiz now—it only takes a minute!Not sure where to start with having conversations with your teens about sex, drugs, alcohol or vaping? That's why I created this cheat sheet for How to talk about the BIG stuff with your teen. Grab it below How to Talk About the BIG Stuff With Your TeenNew episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 6:00 AM ESTBook a free 1:1 coaching consult hereConnect with me at [email protected] Learn more about me at www.coachwithjessica.caThis powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

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• #147-Should You Suppress Anger If You Want to Be a Calmer Mom? The Truth Might Surprise You: (Moms, Teens, Communication)

  Have you ever told yourself, “I shouldn’t be this angry” — or felt guilty for losing your temper with your teen?If so, you’re not alone. Many moms believe that feeling or showing anger makes them “bad” parents, but that belief actually keeps them trapped in a loop of guilt, shame, and disconnection. In this episode, we’ll explore how anger isn’t your enemy—it’s information your body and mind are trying to give you.Discover why your brain and body resist anger, even when it’s meant to protect you.Learn how anger can uncover unmet needs or crossed boundaries so you can respond instead of react.Understand the difference between “anger as danger” and “anger as information” to transform your emotional resilience as a mom.Press play now to learn how to stop resisting anger and start using it as a tool for calm, confident communication with your teen.Listen to another episode about anger here Want to learn what your communication style under stress is? Take the quiz below.Take the quiz now—it only takes a minute!Not sure where to start with having conversations with your teens about sex, drugs, alcohol or vaping? That's why I created this cheat sheet for How to talk about the BIG stuff with your teen. Grab it below How to Talk About the BIG Stuff With Your TeenNew episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 6:00 AM ESTBook a free 1:1 coaching consult hereConnect with me at [email protected] Learn more about me at www.coachwithjessica.caThis powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

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• #146-How One Minute of Silence Can Completely Transform Conversations With Your Teen: (Moms, Teens, Communication)

  Do you ever catch yourself interrupting, correcting, or jumping in to “fix” things the moment your teen starts talking?You’re not alone. Most moms of teens do this out of love—but constant fixing can quietly teach your teen to stop sharing. In this episode, you’ll discover the Listen-Only Practice—a simple yet powerful way to rebuild calm, open communication and become the safe space your teen needs.Learn the exact 60-second listening challenge that strengthens trust instantly.Understand what your body and emotions reveal when you resist the urge to “fix.”Discover how silence can create emotional safety and deeper connection at home.Press play to learn how saying less can actually help you connect more—and start transforming your conversations with your teen today.Want to learn what your communication style under stress is? Take the quiz below.Take the quiz now—it only takes a minute!Not sure where to start with having conversations with your teens about sex, drugs, alcohol or vaping? That's why I created this cheat sheet for How to talk about the BIG stuff with your teen. Grab it below How to Talk About the BIG Stuff With Your TeenNew episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 6:00 AM ESTBook a free 1:1 coaching consult hereConnect with me at [email protected] Learn more about me at www.coachwithjessica.caThis powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

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• #145-Think Your Teen Doesn’t Need You Anymore? You’re Wrong—Here’s Why That Thought Hurts You Both: (Moms, Teens, Communication)

  Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “My teen doesn’t need me anymore” and feel a wave of sadness or loss wash over you?As your teen grows more independent, it can feel like your identity as a mom is shifting under your feet. This episode helps you understand why those emotions show up—and how to handle them with compassion instead of guilt or resistance—so you can move through this stage with more calm and confidence.Discover why your brain clings to thoughts like “I’m not needed” and how they silently create more pain.Learn gentle mindset shifts to stay connected with your teen while supporting their independence.Find out how to nurture yourself emotionally during this parenting transition instead of feeling left behind.Press play to uncover practical ways to release the fear of “not being needed” and rediscover a more grounded, peaceful version of motherhood through your teen’s growing independence.Want to learn what your communication style under stress is? Take the quiz below.Take the quiz now—it only takes a minute!Not sure where to start with having conversations with your teens about sex, drugs, alcohol or vaping? That's why I created this cheat sheet for How to talk about the BIG stuff with your teen. Grab it below How to Talk About the BIG Stuff With Your TeenNew episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 6:00 AM ESTBook a free 1:1 coaching consult hereConnect with me at [email protected] Learn more about me at www.coachwithjessica.caThis powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

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