I hate the feeling of being bored, and the old me would have just drank away that feeling. Now in sobriety, we have to face that feeling and sit with our thoughts. It's a tough adjustment, and I honestly don't have a ton of advice to offer.Today, I am venting... sharing something I still struggle with. Sobriety gets easier with time, but I'm still learning every day.Join our online support group for free: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1G4KhSoxBx/
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ADHD survival hacks (without alcohol)
Did you know that 43% of people with ADHD will develop a problem with alcohol? It is SO common for people to self-medicate with booze, and unfortunately... it works. That's why so many people fall down a bad path with alcohol -because it's an immediate band-aid fix, but it's not a long term solution.In today's episode, I provide some life hacks for living life with ADHD, and we discuss why it's so common for ADHD'ers to turn to the bottle.Join our online Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1B1EasyWTB/
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Dating Life in Sobriety | flirtation, first dates, and finding the one
I'm not going to lie, dating feels so weird without my comfort blanket. I used to drink alcohol in order to feel comfortable flirting with guys, making the first move, or to get through the first date jitters... and now I don't have that. So dating and flirting feels weird.I've had a lot of "firsts" in sobriety, but dating is still not crossed off the list. I am loving life right now on my own, so it's tough to get in the mindset of bringing someone else into my little world. But I know it'll happen eventually.In this episode, we talk about some little flirtatious glimmers I've had over the last year of being single and sober + we talk about why it's different to date as a sober person. Thanks for listening, and feel free to join our online support group below:FB Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1V618YYse1/
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Alcohol was my entire personality | How to redefine joy, find yourself, and live an amazing sober life
Alcohol used to be my number one interest. Everything I did revolved around booze, and I didn’t even know who I was without it. If you’re feeling that way too, today’s episode is for you.I want to show you that life in sobriety is not only possible, but so much better than it ever was when we were drinking. If you don’t know what to do with yourself as a newly sober person, sit back and listen — because I’ve got a whole list of fun, exciting things you can try that don’t involve alcohol.Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AzkKDYQyx/
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You relapsed, now what?
Relapses are unfortunately very common in sobriety, so today's episode is dedicated to helping listeners avoid relapsing in the first place, but also managing and moving on from a relapse.I give some tough love in the hope that it will motivate you to stay sober and not even consider alcohol as an option. You got this!! And as always, feel free to join our FB support group linked below:https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1B2ZyQNZ5u/
Welcome to The Sober Scoop [previously Hold My Drink], where model and creator, India Gants, gives advice and shares vulnerable stories about getting sober and staying sober. New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday!