The Dad Edge Podcast

• The Reasons Unprocessed Pain Destroys Men featuring Sean Cochran

  In this powerful and deeply emotional episode, I sit down with my good friend Sean Cochran, CEO of Men for Life, to have one of the rawest conversations we've ever shared on this podcast. Sean opens up about losing his first child to abortion at 19 and the seven-year spiral that followed—addiction, gambling, overdoses, isolation, and hitting rock bottom on the floor of a dirty hotel room. His story is one of unimaginable darkness, but also unbelievable redemption.   We explore how culture has silenced men in the abortion conversation, the devastating emotional impact so many men carry in secret, and Sean's journey from shame to recovery, fatherhood, and ultimately becoming a national voice for men who feel unseen in this space. We also dive into the mission behind Men for Life, the data behind father involvement, and how redefining authentic masculinity can change families and communities for generations.     Timeline Summary   [0:00] Sean begins sharing why abortion is not just a "women's issue." [2:03] The staggering data on how many men are affected by abortion every year. [3:56] Sean's personal story begins—19 years old, his girlfriend is pregnant. [5:06] Learning the abortion would happen despite his desire to keep the baby. [6:34] The counselor who told him "this doesn't affect you"—and how that shaped years of silence. [8:05] Addiction escalates: cocaine, ecstasy, gambling, and stealing. [9:25] Hitting rock bottom in a hotel room and believing he would die. [10:59] A moment of surrender and prayer that changed everything. [12:50] Entering treatment, beginning healing, and naming his son "Michael." [15:38] Rebuilding: finishing college, law school, starting a family. [17:04] Adopting three children—and the powerful contrast between two mothers' choices. [18:28] Realizing he was failing as a lawyer, husband, and father—and shutting down his law practice. [21:00] Discovering men everywhere carry hidden abortion wounds after speaking publicly for the first time. [23:03] How Sean was led—against his own plans—to become CEO of Men for Life. [26:05] The mission: creating a fatherhood program that transforms young men and saves lives. [28:00] Why authentic masculinity is rooted in service, courage, sacrifice, and Christ-like leadership. [30:00] How men can get involved and support Men for Life.     Five Key Takeaways Men are deeply impacted by abortion, yet culture has told them their voice doesn't matter. One in five men will lose a child to abortion by age 45—and most carry that pain alone. Sean's seven-year spiral was fueled by unprocessed grief, shame, and the belief that he "didn't matter." Father involvement changes outcomes: when men see an ultrasound and go through a fatherhood program, 97% choose life. Authentic masculinity isn't domination—it's service, courage, sacrifice, and living for something bigger than yourself.     Links & Resources Mentioned Men for Life Website: https://menforlife.org Contact Sean Directly: Email: [email protected] or https://menforlife.org/contact-us Sean's Instagram: https://instagram.com/lseancorcoran Dad Edge Mastermind: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Episode Show Notes Page: https://thedadedge.com/1411   Closing Remark If today's episode moved you, inspired you, or helped you feel less alone, please take a moment to rate, review, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more men who need these conversations.

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• How the Enneagram Can Heal Your Marriage, Parenting, and Identity featuring Ian Cron

  In today's conversation, I sit down with Ian Cron — a psychotherapist, priest, bestselling author of The Road Back to You, and one of the world's leading experts on the Enneagram. This episode hit me far harder than I expected. Ian doesn't just explain the Enneagram… he helps us understand how our personality type shapes our marriage, our parenting, our leadership, and even the stories we tell ourselves.   But things get incredibly real when Ian puts me through a live guided inner-work exercise. Within minutes, he led me straight into one of the deepest beliefs I carry about success, provision, and worth — taking me face-to-face with the 12-year-old version of myself who still drives far more than I realized. It was raw, vulnerable, uncomfortable… and one of the most powerful moments I've had behind this microphone. If you've ever wondered why you do what you do, why you push so hard, or why your strengths sometimes undermine you, this conversation will stop you in your tracks.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] – Introducing the episode and why today's conversation hit harder than expected. [1:27] – Ian Cron's background as a psychotherapist, priest, and Enneagram expert. [2:12] – Ian explains the nine personality types in plain language. [2:42] – Why I chose to get vulnerable and let Ian guide me through inner work. [3:25] – A moment of intense authenticity as I sit face-to-face with my younger self. [11:51] – Nature vs. nurture — where personality comes from. [13:34] – Why self-awareness is essential for good living, marriage, and parenting. [15:31] – Applying Enneagram wisdom to understanding kids and their inner worlds. [17:22] – How knowing my wife's type changed our marriage. [18:27] – "What's best about you is also what's worst about you." [19:59] – Ian analyzes my type (3w2) and explains why he knew so much about me instantly. [21:42] – How threes may unintentionally run over people while chasing goals. [22:50] – Parenting kids who aren't wired like you — and avoiding making them copies. [24:12] – Why every type has strengths, weaknesses, and a path toward health. [26:32] – Understanding your kids' Enneagram types and customizing your parenting. [27:48] – When kids should take the Enneagram test. [29:03] – My own reflections on turning 50 and becoming more self-aware. [30:19] – How to begin inner work and understand your type's shadow side. [31:21] – The shift from first-half-of-life achievement to second-half-of-life meaning. [32:36] – Do Enneagram types change over time? [33:58] – Ian shares the hard truths about being a Type 4 and the work it required. [35:51] – What makes the Enneagram "painfully accurate" — and why it stings at first. [43:03] – Why dating app "compatibility" algorithms may be misleading. [46:16] – The danger of being married to someone exactly like you. [47:15] – Why I talk to the "achiever" part of myself and how Ian explains this phenomenon. [49:21] – Understanding internal "parts" and learning to lead them well. [52:06] – The moment my 12-year-old self emerges during the guided exercise. [1:02:14] – Why self-knowledge is the beginning of wisdom. [1:03:27] – Ian's resources: assessments, coaching, books, and his Typology podcast. [1:04:45] – Final reflections and directing listeners to the show notes.     Five Key Takeaways   The Enneagram reveals core motivations, not just behaviors. Understanding your type gives you a mirror into why you act, think, and feel the way you do.  Self-awareness is foundational to healthy marriage and parenting. When you understand your patterns, blind spots, and triggers, you show up more intentionally for the people you love.  Your strengths also contain your shadow. "What's best about you is also what's worst about you" — and growth requires facing both sides honestly.  Inner-work exposes old parts still running your life. The guided exercise revealed a wounded 12-year-old part of me still driving my need to achieve and provide.  Your type doesn't change, but you evolve within it. True maturity comes from learning to lead your personality, not letting it lead you.      Links & Resources: Ian's website & resources: https://www.ianmorgancron.com Ian's book: The Road Back to You: https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190 Bark x The Dad Edge: http://thedadedge.com/bark Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1410     Closing Remark   If this episode gave you a moment of clarity, helped you understand yourself better, or challenged you to grow, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. From my heart to yours, thank you for listening — now go out and live legendary.

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• What Every Father Must Know NOW About The Dark Web Targeting Our Kids

  In this first solo show for December, the host, Larry Hagner, comes to the audience with anger and urgency to discuss a massive, sinister online threat targeting children through seemingly innocent games like Roblox and Minecraft. Drawing heavily from a recent Sean Ryan Show interview with ethical hacker Ryan Montgomery (Episode 255), the host alerts parents to the dark fringes of the internet and a dangerous group, 764, described as a dark web cult with an "indifference" belief that lives and families mean nothing.   The episode features the heartbreaking, public post from Adam and Amanda Tate whose 15-year-old son, Bryce Tate, tragically took his own life after being a victim of sextortion. The host details how these criminals build trust, escalate quickly (the Tate tragedy occurred in just three hours), and use threats of public exposure to manipulate vulnerable children. Beyond sextortion, the episode warns about extreme acts of self-harm, pet-killing, and even violence against family members being coerced for things as trivial as Roblox Robux.   The host emphasizes that parental awareness is the only defense. He strongly recommends using a parental monitoring software like Bark (about $15/month) to monitor online chats, text messages, and social media, allowing parents to get immediate alerts and intervene before tragedy strikes. This is a passionate call to action for fathers to educate themselves, have ongoing, fruitful conversations, and protect their children's lives.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] Introduction [1:47] Episode disclaimer for parents [2:22] Alerting parents to the "massive threat" in games like Roblox and Minecraft [3:35] How innocent games can be tampered with and made evil [3:59] Introducing the Sean Ryan Show and the interview with Ryan Montgomery [4:37] Episode 255 of The Sean Ryan Show: "Roblox and Minecraft. Hacker exposes the largest online video games." [5:22] Warning: Roblox is not safe; introduction to the online group 764 [6:07] The 764 group's belief in indifference and not caring about the welfare of children [6:51] Sharing the story of Bryce Tate (15) and his parents, Adam and Amanda Tate [8:57] The discovery: Bryce was a victim of sextortion—a serious and growing threat  [9:49] The extortion phase: demanding $500 and threatening to share photos.  [10:22] Bryce, believing his world was destroyed, was manipulated into taking his own life [11:11] The rapid timeline: the first message to the final tragic act occurred in just three hours [12:02] Episode recommendation: Sean Ryan/Ryan Montgomery interview  [13:13] Discussing extreme acts: forcing a 14-year-old girl to hang herself naked on video [14:08] Forcing kids to tattoo usernames, burn themselves, and kill their pets or parents/siblings on video [15:10] The shocking detail: kids are being coerced for Roblox Robux, not even real money  [16:49] Bark: Parental Monitoring Software [19:11] Call to parents: Make an effort to have ongoing conversations with your kids [19:35] The modern threat: the bully can be in your kid's bedroom, 25 feet away, and you have "no idea" [20:25] Conclusion: The only protection our kids have is us; a passionate final call to action.   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   The Threat is Real and Sinister Online platforms like Roblox and Minecraft are being exploited by a large, sadistic group (764) on the dark web that preys on vulnerable children, escalating from sextortion to coercing extreme acts of self-harm and violence for Robux or recognition. Speed is Critical—Intervention Must Be Immediate. The sextortion process is incredibly fast. A child can be manipulated into a catastrophic decision in as little as three to six hours, as seen in the Bryce Tate tragedy, highlighting the crucial need for immediate digital awareness and monitoring. The Stakes Are Life and Death. These criminals are professionals who exploit children's innocence and sense of shame, often leading victims to take their own lives. The host argues this is a heinous crime, describing the acts as being "murdered... through his phone".  Awareness is the Only Defense. Parents cannot protect their children unless they know what is happening. The host urges parents to research the topic (especially the Sean Ryan Show interview with Ryan Montgomery) to understand the depth of the technological and psychological infiltration. Protect Your Kids with Technology and Ongoing Conversation. While open, ongoing conversations are vital, parental monitoring tools like Bark are essential for a safety net. Bark monitors 30+ apps and texts, sending immediate alerts to parents, allowing intervention within minutes to stop a fast-moving threat.   LINKS Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1409 Bark: Parental Monitoring Software: https://thedadedge.com/bark #255 Ryan Montgomery - Roblox & Minecraft: Hacker Exposes the Largest Online Video Games: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GPd36fFPuLsBSlZp6WUvc?si=7BfOCdNOTzuoW4LkvHzyAA #JusticeforBryce - Adam Tate's Official Announcement: https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=32876961955250751&id=100000911118224&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=nnmVU8LFIdec2oLO# Pentester: https://pentester.com Ryan Montgomery: https://www.youtube.com/@0dayCTF

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• How Clutter Steals More Than Space In Your Home (It Steals Presence) featuring Tyler Moore

  In today's conversation, I'm sitting down with Tyler Moore—better known as Tidy Dad—and this one genuinely surprised me in the best way. We went way beyond "clean your room" tactics and dove into how clutter quietly taxes our patience, steals our mornings, and robs us of presence with the people we love. Tyler breaks down simple, doable systems that turn chaos into calm—especially for us dads navigating careers, marriage, and raising kids.   We talk about the launch-pad front door setup that ends morning scrambles, the capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue, how to get your kids on board without battles or tears, and how to choose the right starting point so you build momentum instead of overwhelm. If you want more laughter, connection, and leadership at home—and fewer frantic searches for keys—this episode will hit you right where you need it.     Timeline Summary   [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – Why "less mess = more presence" and how clutter taxes patience, marriage, and mornings. [3:10] – Tyler on why tidying starts with accepting that life will get messy—and how systems prevent spirals. [4:47] – The hidden cost of small daily stressors (like losing your keys) and why routines create mental clarity. [7:21] – The extremes of "perfectly tidy" vs. "messy house, happy family"… and where most dads actually fall. [17:05] – The front-door "launch pad": a simple system that ends the morning chaos for good. [18:24] – Tyler's game-changing capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue (and why kids notice). [26:30] – Why most big organizing projects fail—and how to start small by identifying the real pain point. [33:24] – How to get kids involved without tears by starting with low-stakes categories and giving them ownership. [47:09] – Lessons learned from the "bedroom switch meltdown" and communicating as a couple before changing systems. [51:52] – Why intentional living beats comparison, and how to define "just enough" for your family.     Five Key Takeaways   Clutter steals more than space — it steals presence. Small daily frustrations compound into bigger emotional and relational consequences. Systems beat motivation. Creating "launch pads," routines, and predictable spots for essentials protects your mornings and your mindset. Start tiny, not huge. The big whole-house overhauls usually fail; momentum comes from solving one specific pain point at a time. Kids thrive when they're part of the process. Beginning with low-stakes categories (like socks or pajamas) builds confidence, ownership, and calm. Define "just enough" for your family. You don't need the fanciest home or the most stuff—intentional choices create more freedom, clarity, and connection.       Links & Resources Tyler Moore (Tidy Dad) on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tidydad Tidy Times Newsletter (Substack): https://tidydad.substack.com Tidy Tidbits Podcast: Search Tidy Tidbits wherever you listen to podcasts Dad Edge Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1408 Dad Edge Business Boardroom: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind     Closing Remark   If this conversation gave you practical ways to reclaim presence, connection, and calm inside your home, do me a favor—rate, follow, and leave a quick review. And share this one with another dad who could use a boost in simplifying his life and leading more intentionally. You guys are the best.

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• The 10 Minute Reset to Strengthen Marriage and Parenting

  In this special Black Friday episode, I dive into a much-needed conversation about emotional reset. As the holiday season ramps up, many of us are carrying stress, tension, and unprocessed emotions that make us more reactive and less connected. In this short but impactful solo episode, I walk you through how to reset three vital areas of your life—your mind, your marriage, and your relationship with your kids—before the craziness of December takes over.   If you've felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply exhausted lately, this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance to bring intention, clarity, and presence back into your home.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why this time of year can feel especially heavy and chaotic [2:22] – The three things to reset before the holidays: mind, marriage, and kids [3:04] – A tactical Black Friday shout-out and 50% off gear at thedadedge.com/shop [3:58] – Resetting your mind: the power of a quiet, tech-free 30-minute walk [5:03] – How constant busyness keeps us distracted and emotionally exhausted [6:38] – Resetting your marriage with one simple and honest check-in conversation [7:23] – Real-life example of how Larry leads open dialogue with his wife [9:12] – Resetting your connection with your kids through gratitude and shared plans [10:10] – What Larry's son said he wanted to do together before Christmas [10:29] – Why you shouldn't wait until January 1st to reconnect with your family     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Resetting Begins with Stillness: Unprocessed stress makes us reactive and distant. A quiet 30-minute walk without media can bring clarity, calm, and presence back to your day. Marital Tension Needs Check-Ins, Not Grand Gestures: One intentional conversation with your spouse—asking how they're doing and what needs to be talked about—can diffuse tension and bring closeness back. Children Want Time, Not Things: Asking your kids what they loved about the year and what they want to do together before Christmas creates meaningful connection during a busy season. Don't Wait for the New Year to Start Over: You can recalibrate your emotional tone now. Waiting for January 1st delays the connection your family needs today. Great Dads Lead with Emotional Tone: Your mindset, your calm, and your intention set the atmosphere for your entire home. Lead it with purpose—especially during the holidays.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Black Friday Sale (limited time): https://thedadedge.com/shop – Use code FRIDAY for 50% off all gear Download the "25 Questions" PDF for better connection with your kids: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Episode Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1407     If this episode resonated with you, take 30 minutes today for yourself—and 10 minutes with your family. Then rate and review the podcast, and share it with a fellow dad who could use a reset.   Live legendary.

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