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- Have you ever been so committed to staying positive and manifesting the best possible outcome that you kept carrying a situation long after it stopped feeling aligned?
In today's episode, I'm exploring a pattern I've started recognizing in my own life and in the lives of other high-capacity clients I work with: overcapacitating.
It's what happens when our ability to be patient, resourceful, understanding, and optimistic leads us to compensate for someone else's lack of capacity, motivation, or follow-through.
I'm sharing real life examples of how this has shown up in my life in the past (and even my relationship now) and how I've repeatedly tried to create positive outcomes by carrying more than my share.
And how, eventually, that very effort can become the thing that no longer feels aligned.
My Inner Voice gave me a new perspective on these experiences, and it will help us all evolve our understanding of manifesting and staying aligned when we are in non-reciprocal situations in the future.
And if you're ready to explore how to make aligned decisions with your Inner Voice in the best and highest aligned timing, I'd love to invite you to the Magic Choices Method.
We're gathering for three sessions on November 9, 16, and 23 to explore the different stages of making a choice, including when it's not yet time to act, when the moment is right, and when the window may have passed.
The sessions are included with Welling membership (as low as $55/mo), or you can join the course separately.
Learn more: https://bellalively.com/magicchoicesmethod
May something wonderful happen to you today! ❤️
Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday. - In today's episode, I'm joined by Kelsey Kerslake, a creative entrepreneur (TheAlignedBusiness.com) whose unexpected health challenges led her to completely reimagine how she works, builds businesses, and creates.
From running a successful design agency while working just one hour a month to building her own AI coaching platform (including her own alternative to Zoom!) without a coding background, Kelsey's story is a fascinating look at what's becoming possible in our rapidly changing world.
We explore her journey with chronic illness, how she's using AI to build entirely new kinds of businesses, her adventures in real estate, and the potential for technology to help us become more conscious, creative, and connected to ourselves.
This conversation might just expand your ideas about what you're capable of creating, too! Kelsey will be guesting in Welling on November 5th, helping us all learn how to also create anything we want in our own AI journey as well.
Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday. - What if making the best choices in your life isn't just about knowing WHAT to do… but also knowing WHEN to do it?
In today's episode of The Lively Show, I'm sharing something I've developed from years of working with clients on some of the biggest choices of their lives: The Magic Choices Method! ✨
So often, we try to figure everything out with our minds, weighing the pros and cons, asking for advice (from friends or AI), and trying to make the most responsible decision possible.
But what if your Inner Voice has a much bigger perspective on what's possible for you?
And what if the timing of your choices is just as important as the choices themselves?
Want to get better at making Magic Choices in your own life? Here are two ways to explore this work:
💕 Inner Voice Essentials — $97
Join me for three live classes on October 26, 28 & 30, where we'll practice hearing our Inner Voices more clearly, telling them apart from our minds, and clearing the emotional beanbags that can cloud our answers.
Learn more: bellalively.com/innervoiceessentials
🍌 Magic Choices Decision-Making Sessions — $97
Have a particular choice you're navigating? My newly certified Inner Voice Facilitator Training (IVFT) graduates are offering $97 private, one-hour sessions to help you work directly with your Inner Voice on your specific situation.
To request a session, find the Google form through the link in my Instagram bio: @bella.rose.lively.
You can choose either experience (or both)! See what feels aligned for you right now.
May something wonderful happen to you today! 💕
Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday. - Today, on my birthday, I started reflecting on what happened after I stopped over-capacitating for others... giving more of my time, energy, and support than felt truly aligned.
Over the last year and a half, I've stepped back from relationships that no longer felt reciprocal (as directed by my inner voice). And while that created space for something beautiful to enter my life, like G(!), it also left some... emptiness.
Today I'm sharing my realization about boundaries, reciprocity, and what happens when we feel ready to welcome new connections into the space we've created.
Plus, join me for a free Alignment Session to enjoy the high vibes or get direction in any area you're feeling "stuck" on October 21 at bellalively.com/alignmentsessions.
Let's go to the show!
Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday. - In today's Flow Diaries, I'm sharing a little epiphany I've had over the last 24 hours about Welling, Inner Voice, and what happened when I thought I was moving on... only to realize something different was actually happening.
I'm sharing how this realization is changing the direction of Welling, what it has to do with TLS, and how sometimes we need to step back from something to discover how it reemerges in our lives in a new way.
Feeling stuck in your life too? Join me for a free Inner Voice Alignment Session on October 9th or 21st: bellalively.com/alignmentsessions
Let's go to the show!
Join us in Welling, the online members club for Modern Spirituality with 230+ inspired souls growing, sharing, and creating more beautiful lives everyday.
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About The Lively Show
The Lively Show is here to uplift, inspire, and bring a little more presence, ease, and joy to your everyday life.Join Bella Lively, who longtime listeners may remember as Jess Lively, as she explores intuition, consciousness, and what it means to follow your own inner guidance.Across 500+ episodes, you’ll find conversations with thought leaders like Elizabeth Gilbert, Gary Vaynerchuk, and Brené Brown; explorations of the Law of Attraction and ideas from quantum mechanics; and deep dives into inner voice work. You can also follow Bella’s personal adventures and discoveries along the way in her “Flow Diaries.”Whether you’re discovering your inner voice or deepening your relationship with it, welcome to the show.Explore more at https://bellalively.com.
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