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The Secure Husband

M. Bruce Abbott, M.A, CPC
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  • Understanding Your Wife's Desire: Why It Changed
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  • If I Stop Chasing Her, Am I Giving Up on Sex and Affection?
    You’re tired of chasing your wife.Tired of being the one who always reaches out first.Tired of feeling unwanted, unheard, and unseen.So you’re asking the question:“If I stop trying, am I giving up on intimacy?”This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast gives you the answer — in clear, honest, simple language.You’re not giving up.You’re giving up the pressure.And that is what gives intimacy a chance to grow again.▶️ In this episode, you’ll learn:Why chasing creates distance, not desireWhat your neediness is really trying to fixHow to stop looking to your wife to feel like a manWhy emotional safety (not pressure) invites intimacyHow to rebuild connection from calm strength, not fearWe walk through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step path to shift your energy, stop chasing, and become a safe, grounded man your wife can feel again.🛑 Stop begging.🌱 Start becoming.If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.
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  • It’s Not Love — It’s Neediness
    Do you feel like you're being loving, but she feels smothered?  It's neediness, not love.This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast will challenge what you think love looks like. If you find yourself giving affection but getting distance in return, this is for you.Here’s what we cover:✅ Why your “love” might actually be emotional neediness✅ How insecurity from childhood can show up in marriage✅ Why pressure, jealousy, and clinginess push her away✅ How to stop chasing and start loving from strength✅ How to give affection from fullness, not fearYou don’t need to try harder. You need to get honest about where your love is coming from.In this episode, you’ll walk through The Secure Husband Process — a 6-step path that helps you stop acting from emotional survival and start leading from inner peace, strength, and spiritual connection.Stop reacting. Start leading.👇 Watch now and learn how to stop smothering and start loving with confidence.📌 Need help becoming that man? Check the show notes for coaching, courses, and a brotherhood of men doing this work.💬 Let us know in the comments if this hit home.🔔 Subscribe for more weekly tools to become a Secure Husband.If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.
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  • Why You Feel Lonely in Your Marriage (And What It’s Really About)
    Do you feel lonely in your marriage — like you live with your wife, but you feel invisible?You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not crazy.But the truth is, the loneliness isn’t just about her pulling away…It’s about a part of you that you’ve left behind.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we show you why you feel disconnected — and how healing your inner boy is the first step to bringing real connection, safety, and love back into your life.You’ll learn how to:✅ Understand the real reason you feel so alone✅ Reconnect with the part of you that’s been ignored for years✅ Stop looking to your wife to fill the emptiness✅ Create connection from fullness, not need✅ Lead your marriage from strength, not survivalThis is not about getting her back.It’s about getting you back — the man you were made to be.We walk step-by-step through The Secure Husband Process, a proven path that helps men become emotionally grounded, spiritually anchored, and safe to connect with — again or for the first time.👇 Start watching now and learn how to go from loneliness to love.📌 Need help on this journey? Coaching, resources, and a brotherhood of men are linked in the show notes.💬 Drop a comment if this hit home.🔔 Subscribe for weekly tools to become the Secure Husband.If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.
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  • How Do I Reconnect With My Wife Without Chasing?
    You love your wife. You still want to hold her. You want to feel close again — but every time you reach for her, she pulls away.If you’ve asked yourself,“How do I reconnect without chasing or pressuring her?”this episode is for you.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we walk through a clear, step-by-step process to help you reconnect with your wife — not by begging, but by healing.You’ll learn how to:✅ Offer love without needing a response✅ Heal the part of you that feels rejected when she pulls away✅ Stop using affection as a way to get something back✅ Build real safety in the relationship again✅ Become a calm, strong man who leads with peace — not pressureWe use The Secure Husband Process — a six-step path to help you reconnect to your strength, stop chasing validation, and offer connection from overflow, not emptiness.This episode is about more than getting close again. It’s about becoming the kind of man your wife can trust, feel safe around, and slowly reconnect with on her own terms.👇 Listen now and learn how to rebuild connection — without chasing.📌 Find coaching and community at SecureHusband.com💬 Share your story or insight in the comments🔔 Subscribe for more tools and weekly episodesIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.#deadbedroom #marriage #sexlessmarriage#MarriageHelp#SaveYourMarriage#SecureHusband#MarriageAdvice#RelationshipHealing#SelfWorth#InnerChildHealing#MensMentalHealth#SelfLoveJourney#EmotionalHealing#OvercomeRejection#HealthyMasculinity#MarriageCoaching#StopPeoplePleasing#SelfGrowthFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever. This includes all digital content, including but not exhaustive of, email, blog, podcasts, events, any and all social media (inclusive of: Facebook, YouTube, TikTok and Instagram), webinars and other content whether or not they are available for purchase, as resources or education and information only. All content mentioned does not constitute professional legal or medical advice and is not guaranteed to be accurate, complete, reliable, current or error-free. By using this site, you accept and agree that following any information or recommendations provided therein and all digital content channels is at your own risk.
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A Secure Husband no longer seeks validation from his wife—he stands strong in self-worth, meets his own emotional needs, and leads with confidence and clarity. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help you break free from old patterns, reclaim your strength, and transform your marriage from the inside out.
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