Beyond the Bump

We kick off this week’s Bumpie Group Chat episode with a petition for mandatory seasonal Mental Load Holidays. Can you imagine!? Sophie is staying with her parents for the school holidays and she’s finding parenting way more manageable. We also chat about…

Is most of the day-to-day of parenting actually made challenging by our mental load, not necessarily the kids themselves?

Jayde wants to know what is the etiquette these days when it comes to giving gifts? If you’re attending an adult’s birthday, what is the protocol!?

Speaking of celebrating, partying in your 30s hits different. No amount of Hydralite made a difference for Jayde over the weekend. Whether it’s a hangover, exhaustion or a babysitter, we discuss how the cost of a night out is high these days. So, is it worth it?

Jayde’s had a UTI and has learned an important lesson

Sophie’s back with an exciting update - Pearl has officially ditched the dummy!

We chat about a contentious AITA - is it okay to discipline a friend’s child? What is okay and what is an overstep?

 

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Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)

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Matrescence. You might have never heard of it or maybe you’ve seen it doing the rounds on social media lately. It’s actually the biggest transition any human will go through in life and it’s reserved specifically for mothers. So, if it’s so massive… why is it so unknown? We speak to Claire Tonti, matrescence activist, filmmaker, singer and songwriter, to learn more. We say it often, but this really is a must-listen for everyone, mother or not! 

We discuss…

What actually is matrescence? And why haven’t we heard about it until recently (if ever!?)

The neurological and hormonal changes women experience when they become a mother

When did it become a ‘badge of honour’ to try and not change when becoming a mum?

How the fight for gender equality meant we had to dampen the importance of parenting

The beauty and level-up that we go through as a result of matrescence

How educating and empowering women at every stage of life benefits us all

Leaning into creativity as a way to process these changes

Embracing slowness and rest as a radical movement

“The album of queefs” - you’d have to listen there to get it

Do fathers experience something similar?

+ plenty more!

 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Amy Taylor-Kabbaz - matrescence activist

Oscar Serralach’s research

Matrescence by Lucy Jones 

Yoga nidra for deep rest

Nat Bartsch - composer and music designed to help babies sleep

 

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Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)

Come say hey over on
Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast
TikTok @beyondthebumppodcast
Facebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group 

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If you’d love to partner with the podcast, send us an episode idea or find out more, you can over here. 

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As we roll into the long weekend, we are both relieved and overwhelmed. We dive into this episode of the Bumpie Group Chat and vent about the collective anxiousness we are all feeling - from the state of the world right now to the endless Easter to-do list plus the race to the finish line of term 1. It’s a LOT! We also chat about…

What am I and who am I? Society’s obsession with labelling people and why we can’t do it all 

Leaning into your school community and how wholesome it can feel

“Do you have capacity to chat about my feelings?” Harry’s back and Jayde missed him, but did he miss her? 

Play! We remind ourselves how important play is, not just for our kids but for us 

Why does the kids having cavities make us feel like a total failure!?!

Bumpies shared their granny habits they’ve taken on in their 30s and it was the laugh we needed

 

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Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)

Come say hey over on
Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast
TikTok @beyondthebumppodcast
Facebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group 

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If you’d love to partner with the podcast, send us an episode idea or find out more, you can over here. 

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Have you written a Will? This episode has been *highly* requested by Bumpies so we spoke to Tessa from Lyden Lane to discuss estate planning and future-proofing for our children after we are gone. Yes, it feels confronting but we know we need to adult-up and get it done for the benefit of our family. We discuss…

What actually is a Will? 

What happens if you pass away without one? And is it just needed when one parent dies or both!?

Does debt get passed down if it’s not paid off?

Boomer wealth, granny flats, intergenerational living and the Bank of Mum and Dad

Divorce - does it impact a Will?

The toughest part - who will care for your kids!? We were both in SHOCK with just how complex this decision is legally

The up front cost of estate planning

How superannuation might be an asset you hadn’t considered

Tessa shares the voice note she’s leaving behind for her kids - we were not okay!

So, where do we begin if we want to set up an estate plan after today? 

If you’d like to, find out more from Tessa at Lyden Lane’s website here.

Whilst there's been so much important information shared in this episode, it is shared as general information for education purposes only. Bumpies should not rely on anything in this podcast without seeking independent legal advice.

This episode is proudly sponsored by Bambi Mini Co. — their Charity Super Socks are available now in Chemist Warehouse stores across Australia and online at bambiminico.com.au.

 

Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)

Come say hey over on
Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast
TikTok @beyondthebumppodcast
Facebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group 

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If you’d love to partner with the podcast, send us an episode idea or find out more, you can over here. 

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Bumpies, today really is a mixed bag, so strap in for this rollercoaster. We discuss everything from vaping to religion, if we actually need yearly birthday parties for kids and the most beautiful ‘just you wait’ moments that had us tearing up. We dive into…

It’s Week 2 of Harry being away - how is Jayde going this week with solo parenting?

The mental load around extra-curricular activities and why it can be anxiety inducing

The classic trap of who has it harder and why we probably need to take that straight to couple’s counselling 😅

Possibly controversial, but should we veto yearly birthday parties for kids…?

Sophie posted a positive ‘just you wait’ moment on Instagram and the comment section definitely passed the vibe check! 

We have a new AITA and it’s a Bumpie wondering if it’s okay to try and sway her teenager’s friendships - is it for the good of your child or does it become dangerous territory?

What do you do when your child wants black and white answers around family values? Sophie’s daughter wants to know about religion and it’s bringing up big discussions in the Pearce household

 

This episode is proudly sponsored by iL Tutto and their Easter Sale with up to 50% off sitewide from March 26 to April 6.

 

Beyond the Bump is hosted by Jayde Couldwell (@londonxboston) and Sophie Pearce (@svpearce)

Come say hey over on
Instagram @beyondthebump.podcast
TikTok @beyondthebumppodcast
Facebook - Beyond the Bump Community Chats group 

Sign up to our monthly newsletter here for BTS, recommendations, outfits and more.

If you’d love to partner with the podcast, send us an episode idea or find out more, you can over here. 

We couldn’t do this without you, Bumpies. If you’re liking what you’re hearing, we’d love it if you could send us to a mama mate or leave a 5 star review.