Get Over Divorce

Inside this episode I explore why an increasing number of divorced women are choosing to stay single rather than re-enter the dating world. After years of shouldering disproportionate mental loads, managing households, and people-pleasing in their marriages, these midlife women are experiencing a profound liberation post-divorce.
They're finally putting themselves first, creating lives filled with peace and autonomy, and many have decided that no relationship is worth sacrificing the freedom they've fought so hard to reclaim. From political divisiveness to toxic "bro-caster" culture that diminishes women, the dating landscape has become so exhausting that many women would rather cross paths with a bear in the woods than risk another disappointing encounter with a man.
But this isn't about giving up on love entirely, it's about raising the bar so high that only truly exceptional partners need apply. I share my own journey of finding love again with intention, not luck, and discuss how the women in my program are learning to become so self-secure and empowered that if they do choose to date, they're doing it from a place of power rather than need.
Whether you're one of the liberated women choosing peace over partnership, or someone who still believes in finding that diamond in the rough, this episode validates your choice and offers a path forward on your own terms.

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dianne Harris, author of "Love Bomb: He sold her a dream and delivered a nightmare," to discuss her harrowing journey through a marriage to a narcissist that ultimately led to her standing in handcuffs before noon on what started as an ordinary June morning. Drawing from real-time journal entries she kept as an attempt to maintain her sanity, Dianne shares how she documented years of manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse.
What began as a magical eight-hour first date evolved into a decade-long nightmare where she lived in constant fight-or-flight mode, never knowing which version of her husband she'd encounter.
But this conversation isn't just about survival, it's about reclaiming the very term that nearly destroyed her. Dianne has redefined "love bomb" from a weapon of manipulation into a radical act of self-love so fierce that no one can ever weaponize love against her again. This is essential listening for anyone who's ever questioned their own perception

In this raw and necessary episode, we're confronting the uncomfortable reality of dating after divorce in today's world. We discuss the shocking statistics about violence against women, including a disturbing CNN investigation that uncovered how thousands of men were drugging and assaulting their own wives. But this isn't just about fear, it's about your personal power. We break down exactly how to protect yourself while remaining open to the possibility of real, healthy love.
You'll learn the critical difference between dating with hope versus dating with standards, how to spot red flags before you're in too deep, and what healthy masculine energy actually looks like in action. We cover the specific behavioral patterns that reveal a man's true character, from how he treats service workers to how he handles hearing "no." Plus, discover the five essential steps to vetting for character instead of just chemistry, and why doing your own healing work is non-negotiable before entering the dating world again. Real love is absolutely possible, but only when you have the tools to recognize the "good" guys and the courage to walk away from the rest.

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In this transformative episode, I break down why the popular 50/50 relationship model is actually setting you up for resentment and failure. Inspired by a conversation with my son about how my partner Joe plans our dates (including an incredible birthday trip to Charleston), I reveal the four types of people in relationships: Low Effort, Bare Minimum, true Partners, and Pleasers.
If you've been attracting low-effort partners or find yourself constantly keeping score and feeling depleted, this episode will help you understand the patterns keeping you stuck. Whether you've been settling for bare minimum effort or giving everything and getting nothing back, this episode offers a roadmap for becoming the kind of partner who naturally attracts a 100/100 relationship.
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In this episode, I sit down with Amber Abila, a food freedom coach who empowers women to heal their relationship with food and break free from the binge-restrict cycle. Amber shares her personal journey of overcoming disordered eating and how she now helps others become natural, intuitive eaters without relying on willpower or restrictive diets. We discuss the psychology of food, the impact of stress on eating habits, and how to rewire your brain for lasting change. Amber’s practical and psychology-based tools offer a sustainable approach to stopping binge eating for good.
We also explore how life-altering events, like divorce, can affect our relationship with food. Amber explains the connection between stress, emotional numbing, and overeating, and how to regain control over your eating habits in a healthy, empowering way. From managing urges to celebrating small wins, this conversation is packed with actionable tips and relatable insights to help you prioritize your well-being—whether you're healing from a breakup, navigating stress, or simply looking to build a healthier relationship with food.
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