So many of us are coping — getting through the day, holding it together, ticking boxes, but feeling quietly stretched to the limit or just empty.The world keeps telling us to “be resilient,” which often translates to “keep pushing no matter what.” That’s a recipe for burnout!It’s not what serves us, and it’s not real resilience.In this episode, Eimear offers a new understanding:That resilience isn’t about white-knuckling through, but cultivating the inner resources that protect you from burnout and help you recover from life’s inevitable challenges and setbacks with grace.You’ll learn:→ What true resilience actually means — and how it’s been hijacked by hustle culture.→ The difference between the “Red Zone” and the “Green Zone” — and how to know when you’ve crossed the line.→ Why we often suffer from the “second arrow” — and how to stop adding pain to pain.→ How unmet needs for safety, satisfaction, and connection quietly drain our energy.→ Practical ways to resource yourself and communicate your needs — including a simple NVC-inspired tool for speaking up at work when you’re overloaded.This episode is your invitation to build a steadier, kinder relationship with yourself — one where resilience doesn’t mean hardening up, but coming home to calm, courage, and care.Share Your ThoughtsCONNECT WITH EIMEAR  Explore Working With Eimear:  Book a Call: https://eimearzone.as.me/breakthrough 📱 Instagram: @eimearzonecoach  💻 Website: eimearzone.com 📧  Email: 
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