Konnected Minds Podcast

From childhood reading to feminist awakening to the brutal truth about why being yourself means refusing to let anyone's opinion control your narrative - and why the books from Madeleine Albright to Roosevelt's memoirs reveal that greats are just human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you proving "why not me?" is the right question, the psychological reality of self-awareness where you insult yourself so harshly that when strangers on social media try to bring you down they become mere mortals because whatever they say you've already said worse to yourself, the Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggering imposter syndrome asking "what does this woman want?" before realizing it's the fourth year of promoting this event so it's not a big deal, and why Ghanaians are not timid - they are overly nice, overly polite, overly respectful to the point where they won't tell you your shirt is hideous to your face but will smile and say "oh yeah feel" while thinking something completely different, while the real question becomes: are you confident enough to disagree with people, to be authentic, to say no when you're exhausted, to tell a crying girl "if you're crying because I don't have time right now then cry more because I don't have the time, but if you're crying because of why you want to talk to me call me tomorrow when my brain works better," because being yourself means knowing when to set boundaries, when to say no, when to protect your energy, and when to give your number to someone who needs help and actually mean it when you say call me tomorrow at 7 a.m. and she does and you invite her over and she takes three hours in traffic from Ashiaman to sit in your living room and gulp down water because today is going to be a long day and this girl is going to unload her story just like Junior did at the first Women of Valor event when she shared how her father's friends defiled her as a child with their "mehri mehri you want to say" red flag behavior and her mother heard that story for the first time and cried and the whole room broke down and one girl in the crowd couldn't speak up because she was going through it right then and came to you after the event needing to talk.

In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality and feminist who dismantles the dangerous "be humble and let people walk over you" mentality that keeps young women from setting boundaries, speaking up, and protecting their energy, revealing the exact moment when reading books from Madeleine Albright and Roosevelt made it clear that greats are human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you so "why not me?" is the only question that matters, when being so self-deprecating and insulting yourself harshly means nobody on social media can bring your spirit down because you've already said worse to yourself making their opinions irrelevant, when a Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggers imposter syndrome and the panicked thought "what does this woman want, maybe somebody told her something about me" before realizing it's the fourth year of this event so it's not a big deal, when people call saying "they're writing about you on social media" and the response is "I haven't even seen what they're saying because I don't pay attention, I don't lose sleep over opinions of people who shouldn't be discussing my life," when Derek and his friends sit around discussing the worst things about Nana Aba thinking it will bring her spirit down but it actually eggs her on because she thrives on it, when the only person who can bring your spirit down is you and nobody else has that power.

When Ghanaians are called timid but the truth is they are overly nice, overly polite, overly respectful - they won't tell you your shirt is hideous to your face, they'll smile and say "oh yeah feel" while thinking something else, when that's not hypocrisy it's just being very nice people who don't want you to look bad or feel bad, when children are taught to start sentences with "please" and end with "thank you" and use magic words and be respectful, when that doesn't mean Ghanaians are timid because if you disrespect a Ghanaian you will see the real Ghanaian.

Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah

Host: Derrick Abaitey

From childhood curiosity to feminist awakening to the brutal truth about why being rewarded with books instead of toys creates a mindset that sees disappointment as a story you've already read - and why the father who refused to let his daughters waste time in the kitchen when they could be reading Larry King interviews was actually building feminists before the word became trendy, the seven-year-old reading Gorbachev and Pilgrim's Progress instead of Lady Bird stories because "I wanted to be serious like my father," the psychological reality of imposter syndrome where good things happen and self-doubt kicks in but curiosity overrides it, the deliberate opportunist who makes friends "because I know there is something you have that I would like" without apology or shame, and why the father who said "if you can read a recipe you can cook the watching - you don't have to stay in the kitchen so many hours" was teaching his daughters that understanding beats conditioning every single time, while the real question becomes: why do parents push their children to be lawyers and pharmacists and doctors because it was their dream they didn't achieve instead of letting the child experience life for themselves, because that's not fair and the days when God was just giving out blessings are over - now you have to work for the manama, and if your character doesn't count for anything don't expect growth, and the ultimate truth is this: being kind is not an option you consider, it's something that comes naturally when you're raised by a man who helped strangers without knowing them and a woman who had to unlearn societal conditioning to understand that her daughters could be liberated, educated, and free to make their own choices instead of being trapped by what society said women should be.

In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nana Aba Anamoah - a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "stay in the kitchen and learn to cook" mentality that conditions girls to serve instead of lead.

when meeting people for the first time and they say "oh Nana I like you so much" triggers curiosity about what they do and how they ended up there, and when finding out they have challenges her mind immediately races asking "how do I help, how do I help" because that's what she learned from watching her father.

This isn't motivational empowerment talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why being rewarded with books instead of toys creates a mindset that sees curiosity as survival and disappointment as just another story you've already read, why a father who refused to let his daughters stay in the kitchen washing dishes when they could be reading adult books and watching Larry King Live was building feminists before the word became trendy, why reading Gorbachev and Pilgrim's Progress at age seven instead of colorful children's stories teaches you to be serious and understand the world like adults do, why the father who said "if you can read a recipe you can cook the watching without spending hours in the kitchen" was teaching his daughters that understanding beats conditioning every single time, why having a psychological condition called imposter syndrome means always doubting yourself when good things happen but pushing through with curiosity anyway, why being "a big opportunist" who makes friends because "I know there is something you have that I would like" is strategic not shameful when you're deliberate about what you want, why parents who push their children to be lawyers and pharmacists and doctors because it was their unfulfilled dream are being unfair - let the child experience life for themselves, why the days when God was just giving out blessings are over and now you have to work , and why being kind is not something you sit down and consider - it comes naturally when you're raised by a proper human being who helped strangers without hesitation and made kindness the foundation of everything you do.

Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah

Host: Derrick Abaitey

From childhood neglect to 800K+ in sales - and the brutal truth about why starting messy, pricing for sustainability, and giving value instead of just posting products is the only way to build a business that lasts.

In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Charity Boateng - a social selling powerhouse who built a six-figure feminine hygiene business from scratch using Snapchat and TikTok, revealing the exact moment when she got 100+ orders in the first 24 hours by posting one product on Snapchat and paying one influencer.

Guest: Charity Boating

Company: FemLux - https://shopfemlux.com/

Host: Derrick Abaitey

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From ingratiation to opportunity to the brutal truth about self-imposed pressure - and why being an opportunist in friendships means knowing exactly what you want and serving with blood and energy to get it, the deliberate plan to get skin-to-skin close to Emma Morrison the best TV news anchor in Ghana by constantly asking "what are you having for lunch, have you eaten, let me get your water" until she realized this girl wants to be close to me and brought her along, the strategic move of studying Emma's weaknesses without telling her and perfecting them as personal strengths so that when the prime time opportunity came the answer was "yes put her on" because that's exactly what was wanted all along, and why people are so addicted to the successes of others thinking "partner mia mia nisi kanibi" instead of charting their own authentic path, while the real question becomes: why are 28-year-old women pressured into marriage when they're not ready and 35-year-old men taking loans for weddings they'll spend two years paying off when the pressure is mostly self-imposed from watching what others post on social media, because the girl wearing that dress on Instagram didn't buy it - designers made it and gave it to her - so don't go looking for money to buy what you see someone else wearing, and the ultimate truth is this: you cannot allow people to control your narrative, you cannot sit in a meeting for hours waiting because someone thinks they're big, and if you need a favor but the 9am meeting starts at 9:15 and by 9:30 they're still not there - you walk out, because refusing to be put in a box is the only way to protect your potential and your power.

In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nanaaba, a powerhouse media personality who dismantles the dangerous "wait your turn and be humble" mentality that keeps ambitious women locked out of opportunities they could seize with strategic action, revealing the exact moment when entering the TV newsroom and meeting Emma Morrison - the best TV news anchor in Ghana - triggered the deliberate plan to get skin-to-skin close to her because she had what was needed: expertise, and even though "I am not a very serviceable person, I don't know how to serve," the decision was made to serve Emma with blood and energy by constantly being in her face asking "what are you having for lunch, have you eaten, let me get your water" until Emma realized this girl wants to be close to me and instead of pushing away she brought her along, when Emma would say "this bulletin I wouldn't be available but not the prime time" but the hidden objective was always to share the prime time spot with her - if Emma does Monday to Friday then the goal was to get Thursday and Friday, when studying Emma's weaknesses and not telling her "oh Ms. Mollue I think if you do this it would be good" but instead making those weaknesses personal strengths and perfecting them so that on the day of going on TV Emma said "oh the thing you should put her on the road that's well for the prime time" and the response was "yes I did it, got what you wanted, that's what I wanted," when people would say "oh Nanaaba was washing Emma's feet, she was being an opportunist" and the response is simple: "yes that's what I call negotiation, it was deliberate because I knew what I wanted at the end of the day and I don't care what you say," when a father always said "you're an opportunist" and it's true because "if I'm not getting anything from the friendship trust me it's useless to me, I make friends because I know there is something you have that I would like," when Emma understood the assignment and when she became in charge of the newsroom her recruitments showed it - she was recruiting more women and giving more women opportunities for bigger assignments not just to people she liked but to people she hadn't even engaged with, just giving the opportunity to see what you can do.

This isn't motivational empowerment talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why being an opportunist and ingratiating yourself into someone's life to learn from them is strategic not shameful when you know what you want and you're willing to serve to get it, why studying someone's weaknesses and perfecting them as your strengths without telling them is how you position yourself to take the prime time spot when the opportunity comes, why some societal pressure on young girls and women is self-imposed because people are so addicted to the successes of others instead of charting their own authentic path, " and why the ultimate power move is knowing exactly what you want, being deliberate about getting it, and refusing to let anyone - society, friends, or bosses - control your narrative or your time.

Guest: Nana Aba Anamoah

Host: Derrick Abaitey

From teenage pregnancy to imposter syndrome to unstoppable self-awareness - and the brutal truth about why parents must have uncomfortable conversations with their children before the world teaches them the hard way, the 18-year-old girl who called crying because she thought she was pregnant and had never been taught about protection or boys because her parents never had that conversation with her, the psychological reality of imposter syndrome where good things happen and the first reaction is "why me?" followed by arrogance of "if not me then who?" and finally settling into humanity, and why reading books from Magdalene Albright to Roosevelt's memoirs reveals that greats are just human beings with the same 24 hours and the same organs as you - so why not you, while the real question becomes: are you self-deprecating enough to insult yourself so harshly that when strangers on social media try to bring you down they become mere mortals because whatever they say you've already said worse to yourself, because the only person who can bring your spirit down is you, and if Derek and his friends sit around discussing the worst things about you thinking it will break you - you actually thrive because you don't lose sleep over the opinions of people who shouldn't be discussing your life anyway.

In this raw episode of Konnected Minds, host Derrick Abaitey sits down with a powerhouse guest who dismantles the dangerous silence parents keep with their children about relationships, sex, and consequences - revealing the exact moment when an 18-year-old girl called her crying and scared because she thought she was pregnant, when the girl begged "please don't tell my mom I'm coming to see you" but the call was made anyway to check if everything was okay, when the mother said "yeah she's at home watching TV" having no idea her daughter had left to seek help, when the conversation revealed this young woman had never been taught about boys or protection because her parents never had that conversation with her, when getting pregnant at a very young age herself meant knowing the only person who would have a problem was her mother because her father was deeply religious and spiritual, when her father's response was calm and empowering: "the fact that you're pregnant now doesn't mean your life comes to an end - when you deliver you go back to whatever you want to do," when that support made it possible to sacrifice hanging out and having fun in the 19s and 20s to be a mother instead, when the lesson became clear: every action has a consequence and young people must know this early.

This isn't motivational self-help talk from Instagram influencers - it's a systematic breakdown of why children in their 18s, 19s, 20s should be comfortable telling their parents "there's this guy I'm talking to" or "there's this girl I'm talking to" because if they can't have that conversation they'll make life-altering mistakes without guidance, why an 18-year-old girl called crying thinking she was pregnant because her parents never taught her about protection or boys, why getting pregnant at a young age was not planned and should never be the inspiration for anybody because it meant sacrificing youth and exploration to be a mother, why imposter syndrome is real and happens in three stages: self-doubt asking "why me?", arrogance saying "if not me then who?", and finally humanity, why reading books from greats like Magdalene Albright and Roosevelt reveals they are human beings with the same 24 hours and same organs as you proving "why not me?" is the right question, why being self-deprecating and insulting yourself harshly means nobody on social media can bring you down because you've already said worse to yourself, why strangers discussing your life are mere mortals whose opinions don't deserve sleep or attention, why a Rwandan minister reaching out about Women of Valor triggers imposter syndrome first before realizing it's the fourth year of promoting this event so it's not a big deal, and why the only person who can bring your spirit down is you - making self-awareness, brutal honesty, and refusing to care about nonsense the foundation of unstoppable confidence that thrives on criticism instead of crumbling under it.

Host: Derrick Abaitey