Sexology

• EP441 - Falling In Love Again: Bringing Erotic to Your Everyday

  Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners. In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may actually undermine deep connection. Dr. Stockwell introduces her approach of Uncompromising Intimacy, which champions full self-expression over self-suppression in partnerships. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability to catalyze immediate and profound shifts in high achieving couples who want it all–genuine emotional connection, sensual passion, and erotic intimacy. A physician coach and Intimate Marriage Expert, Dr. Alexandra is the best-selling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program,  host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, a wife of 28 years and a mother of 4. Couples who work with her discover the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship is juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding The Concept Of Uncompromising Intimacy·      Why Compromise May Hinder Erotic Connection·      Recognizing Early Signs Of A Sexless Marriage·      Emotional Safety As A Foundation For Sexual Intimacy·      How Curiosity Revives Connection Outside—and Inside—the Bedroom·      Practical Tips For Couples Who Feel Like Roommates Or Siblings·      The Power Of Slowing Down And Tuning Into Arousal·      How To Rebuild Sexual Connection After Years Of Disconnection·      Navigating Past Hurts, Affairs, And Emotional Wounds In Intimacy Work·      Why Ongoing Communication About Sex Is Essential For Lasting Passion Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Book an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo Productions Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• EP440 - Sexual Power: Go All Night Long

  Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it.In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of stigma, shame, and misinformation that surrounds early ejaculation. We discuss the difference between perceived and clinically defined PE, the real physiological roots beyond just anxiety or lack of willpower, and the often-overlooked arousal gap between partners.Once retired, Jeff found his encore career in the sexual wellness space, bringing sharp business instincts, integrity, and a bold sense of mission to Promescent.Originally from a struggling town in Pennsylvania, Jeff built a successful recruiting career in Silicon Valley, placing top engineers at tech giants like AMD, Motorola, and Lam Research. During his career, he was instructed by a major car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color in the hiring process, an order he refused to follow. Instead, Jeff took a stand and filed an anti-discrimination lawsuit against the company. Against the odds, he won, driven by a core belief in doing the right thing.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding The Root Causes Of Premature Ejaculation·      Why Most PE Cases Are Physiological, Not Psychological·      How Porn Skews Our Expectations Of Sexual Performance·      Defining PE: Clinical Criteria Vs. Subjective Experience·      Closing The Arousal Gap For Mutual Satisfaction·      Why Communication Is Crucial For Sexual Confidence·      How Promescent’s Patented Formula Avoids Numbing Your Partner·      Tips For Introducing Delay Sprays Without Hurting Feelings·      The Psychological Boost Of Feeling In Control During Intimacy·      Why Quality Sex Toys And Lubes Are Investments In Your Wellbeing Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Book an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• EP439 – The Number One Mistake People Make in the Bedroom

  Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to Dr. Emily Jamea, Ariel Anderssen, Dr. Lori Bisbey, Catherine Auman, Candia Raquel, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, Dr. Avrum Weiss, and Elliot Katz.In this episode, we explore the habits that often go unnoticed but can have a lasting impact on sexual satisfaction and emotional connection. You'll hear a variety of insights, from the importance of non-verbal communication and slowing down intimacy, to the roles of sensuality, presence, and emotional security. Each expert brings their unique lens, offering practical tips and surprising truths drawn from decades of experience.Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking to deepen your sexual self-awareness, this episode offers honest, shame-free advice. From addressing awkward moments with humor to reframing masculinity and creating space for meaningful conversation, this is an invitation to rethink how we approach pleasure, intimacy, and connection.In this episode, you will hear:·      Importance Of Reading Non-Verbal Cues·      How Sincere Appreciation Boosts Intimacy·      The Need To Prioritize Presence Over Performance·      Why Slowing Down Can Deepen Pleasure·      Connection Between Excitement And Blocked Orgasms·      How Playfulness Can Ease Bedroom Awkwardness·      The Role Of Masculinity In Creating Safety·      Why Scheduling A Sexy Talk Matters·      How Porn Has Shaped Misleading Expectations·      Using Sensuality To Awaken The Body’s Reflexes Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order. Free Erotica Checklist Book an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Upgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• EP438 - Sex and Conflict: The 4-Minute Exercise

  Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement.In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnect in their marriage, which eventually led them on a lifelong quest for answers. Married since 1982, they recount decades of feeling lost and misunderstood, highlighting how a lack of emotional education contributed to sexual dissatisfaction and relational distance.Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation that he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes- a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4-minute exercise. In this episode, you will hear:·      The Hills’ Personal Journey·      Why Emotional Education is Critical for a Healthy Sex Life·      The Impact of Emotional Wounding on Physical Intimacy·      How Emotional Dysregulation Disrupts Sexual Desire and Connection·      The “Four-Minute Tool” for Tuning Into Core Emotions·      Co-Regulation and Building Emotional Safety With Your Partner·      The Power of Naming Emotions Like Sadness, Hurt, and Joy·      How Sexual Banter Can Foster Intimacy Outside the Bedroom·      Practical Advice for Communicating Emotional Overwhelm Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.Free Erotica ChecklistBook an Appointment with Dr. Moali  Connection CodesUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex

  Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication. In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to initiate sex, redefining what “counts” as sex, and how understanding each other’s intentions can greatly enhance intimacy. Brittany Steffen is the owner and founder of Steffen Counseling Services. She earned her graduate degree in marriage and family therapy from Seattle Pacific University in 2012 and has worked as a therapist in the Seattle area for over a decade. In 2018, she began the process of becoming an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist to meet the growing demand for specialized sex therapy services.In this episode, you will hear:·      Top Three Conversations Every Couple Should Have About Sex·      How To Navigate Desire Discrepancy Without Blame·      Shifting From Yes/No Sex to a Menu of Possibilities·      Why Defining “Sex” Broadly Can Improve Intimacy·      Understanding the Emotional Weight of Sexual Rejection·      How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure or Shame·      Requests vs. Demands: A Key Distinction in Sexual Communication·      Common Traps That Lead to Sexual Conflict in Long-Term Relationships·      How Self-Reflection Can Improve Your Sex Life Thanks to our sponsor Promescent! Enhance your confidence and elevate your partner's pleasure. Go HERE to save 15% off your first order.Free Erotica ChecklistUpgrade Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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