The Awake With Jake Show

Most men believe being "nice" makes them a good partner. But over time, many relationships lose attraction, polarity, and respect — not because women change, but because leadership quietly disappears. In this episode, I break down how being a "nice guy" often turns into conflict-avoidance, approval-seeking, and over-accommodating behavior, and how that creates a leadership vacuum inside a relationship. When a man doesn't hold direction, emotional stability, and clear boundaries, someone else has to. That's when women step into roles they never wanted: decision-maker, planner, emotional regulator. In this episode, you'll learn: What "nice guy" behavior actually is (and what it isn't) Why avoiding leadership pushes women into masculine roles How polarity naturally collapses when direction is missing The difference between kindness and masculine leadership What restores attraction and respect in long-term relationships If you're a good-hearted man who wants to lead your relationship with clarity and presence — or a woman who wants to understand why polarity disappears — this episode will bring clarity. Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy In Relationships (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

A soft woman doesn't control by force.   She controls through presence, polarity, and emotional intelligence. Most women are taught to lead, chase, explain, or manage men, and then wonder why they feel exhausted, resentful, or unfulfilled.   In this video, I break down: • Why softness is actually **power**, not weakness • How feminine energy naturally inspires masculine devotion • The subtle behaviors that make a man *want* to show up • Why "trying harder" always backfires in relationships   Few women will understand this — because it requires unlearning everything modern dating taught you.   FREE QUIZ: Are You Masculine or Feminine in Your Relationship?   Discover the energy you're actually leading with, and how it's affecting your love life.   👉 Take the quiz here: https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   (This alone has been a wake-up call for thousands of people.)    Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Daily insights on feminine energy, relationships, and emotional mastery.   Like & subscribe if you're ready to shift how you show up in your relationships

Most men think turning a woman on starts with physical attraction...but that's not where true desire begins. If she keeps saying "no," it's not rejection, it's a signal. In this video, you'll learn The STEPUP Method. The real framework to unlock a woman's sexual desire on a deeper level. The STEPUP Method: Safety — Create an environment where her nervous system can relax. Trust — Build consistency through your actions, not just your words. Embodied Leadership — Lead from grounded confidence, not ego. Presence — Be fully there. She feels it when your attention is real. Unwavering Emotions — Hold steady even when she tests you. Providership — Offer direction, stability, and purpose she can lean into. Once you understand this, she will never say "no" again.   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

Keeping intimacy alive in marriage is not always easy, especially when you are raising kids and running a business together. Most couples drift into survival mode where passion fades, connection weakens, and the relationship starts to feel more like a partnership than a romance. In this video my wife Melissa and I share the raw truth about what it actually takes to keep desire, playfulness, and emotional closeness alive in the middle of real life responsibilities. We talk about the masculine and feminine dynamics that make a marriage thrive, how we create space for intimacy even with kids and work pulling at our attention, and the practices that have kept us deeply connected. Whether you are married with kids, building a business, or just preparing for the future, this conversation will show you how to strengthen your bond, avoid the roommate phase, and keep the fire burning for years to come. To join our upcoming Marriage Revival Workshop https://marriagerevivalworkshop.com/   To follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard https://www.instagram.com/_melissawoodard/

Want to unlock deep, lasting sexual attraction with a woman? Most men rely on surface-level tactics, nice dates, flashy looks, or clever lines, but those only get you so far. If you want her to feel that primal pull toward you, you need to speak to her nervous system. In this video, I'm breaking down 5 powerful strategies that bypass her logic and activate her desire on a soul-deep level. Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or married—this will shift how she sees you… and how she responds to you behind closed doors. From reclaiming your masculine edge to leading with emotional presence, these aren't fluffy tips. These are time-tested dynamics that make her crave you and never want to lose you. If you've ever felt her pull away, shut down, or go cold, this video will show you exactly how to flip the script and reignite the passion. Listen now and learn what 95% of men miss when it comes to attraction that actually lasts. Free Training for Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/free-class/ Free Quiz – Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/ Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/ Inspire His Masculine – Mini Course for Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/ Masculine Leadership – Mini Course for Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/ 📱 Connect with Jake: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard The Awake With Jake Podcast: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-awake-with-jake-show/id1390684172 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IihTAjm9LKOi2UOcLrhbz?si=4ba1d55d7fb84b17 Email: [email protected]