Curiosity Chronicle

A few weeks ago, I shared a piece on my ​Anti-To-Do List​ and the general merits of using inversion to improve your life.

The idea was straightforward:
Write down what you want to avoid doing.
Avoid doing those things.
I've gotten a lot of value from using inversion like this as a tool to provide clarity on my actions and avoid painful mistakes.

As the late Charlie Munger famously said, "All I want to know is where I'm going to die, so I'll never go there."

But a few readers replied with an interesting question:

Doesn't focusing on what you don't want make you more likely to get it?

This raises an important point that I've never addressed directly...

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A few years ago, I came across a beautiful story written by a woman named Pam Kearney in a local newspaper.

I set a calendar reminder to re-read it every single year.

Take 6 minutes and give this a listen. Trust me, it's worth your time...
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For the last decade, I've had a recurring nightmare that I can trace back to my days as a Division 1 baseball player at Stanford...

I'm on the mound in a critical situation. All eyes are on me. The entire stadium waits for my pitch.

But as I start my motion, I realize I've completely forgotten how to throw the ball. My body moves like it's stuck in mud. Completely paralyzed.

Inevitably, I wake up in a cold sweat—thankful that it was just a dream.

While specific to my prior endeavors, as it turns out, this type of dream is a rather common one.

In fact, I'd be willing to bet that most of you have experienced some variation of it in the last few months.

All eyes on you in a big moment. And suddenly, you're completely paralyzed. Unable to perform.

It's the byproduct of a very common (and damning!) psychological phenomenon—one that has a tangible impact on the way we show up in every area of life.

It's called The Spotlight Effect...

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It's hard to believe that we’re already 25% of the way through 2026.

This is an important time of year. The excitement and motivation of your new year planning has likely worn off. You’ve faced the realities of life, probably encountered a few challenges and storms, and developed in your thinking.

The ultimate life hack is the ability to reset and adjust.

You have new data. New experiences. New insights. New evidence. New constraints.
So, it’s time to do just that:
Reflect on what happened
Reset current priorities and systems
Adjust as needed to realign and accelerate growth
I call this process my Personal Quarterly Review...

Note: You can download a printable PDF of the review template ​here​.

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The 85% Rule says that you can achieve more by pushing less.

Carl Lewis won nine Olympic gold medals with this strategy.

And as it turns out, the general principle here is one that has been recognized throughout history...

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