The Art of Being You: How Authenticity Leads to Success
Episode #1066 Ever feel like you're switching hats all day? One minute you're the leader at work, the next you're the dad, then the husband, then the problem-solver. And somewhere in all that, you start to lose track of who you really are. In this episode, Doug and Chris talk about something most men never admit: how trying to show up differently in every area of life is draining you. Not just physically, but emotionally too. And the worst part? Most of us think we're doing it for the people we love. This conversation cuts through the noise and gets real about why so many men feel disconnected, anxious, or just plain off. You'll hear practical ways to stay grounded, reset your mindset between roles, and stop hiding behind the story that "this is just what it takes." If you've ever told yourself "I'm doing this for my family" but know deep down you're running on empty, listen in. There's a better way to lead without losing yourself in the process. Want to learn how to lead at home the same way you lead at work—without sacrificing your sanity? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It's real, it's practical, and it's where a lot of men start.
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Revisit: Breaking Patterns: Real Talk on Trauma and Personal Growth
Episode #1065 If you've ever felt like you're repeating the same arguments, blowing up or shutting down in your relationship, or avoiding the real conversations that need to happen, this episode will hit home. Doug and Coach Chris talk honestly about how trauma from your past shapes how you show up today. Not in a therapy-session kind of way, but in the real-life stuff—how you react when you're triggered, how you protect yourself, and how easy it is to blame everything on your wife or your situation. They share personal stories about the patterns that used to run their lives and how they started doing the work to shift them. It's not about being perfect or "fixing" yourself—it's about taking responsibility and learning to lead. This is a real conversation about emotional armor, getting triggered, and why most men wait until it's too late. If you're tired of surface-level advice, this is where you start getting honest. If you're ready to stop spinning in circles and start leading at home, go get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It's straightforward, actionable, and where a lot of men begin.
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Revisit: Finding Light in the Darkness: Confronting Male Suicide
Episode #1064 In this powerful and deeply honest revisit, the men open up about a topic that often goes unspoken—suicide. This isn't theory. It's personal. They've been there. Some have stood on the edge. Some have lost people they love. And they're here to talk about what really goes on in those dark moments most men never share out loud. They break down the real weight of shame, isolation, and the pressure to keep it all together. They share what helped them turn things around and why most guys don't reach out until it's almost too late. If you've ever felt like you're supposed to be the strong one, but deep down you're struggling, this episode is for you. It's not polished. It's not perfect. But it's real. And that might just be what someone needs to hear right now. If you're ready to start shifting things—even just one step—get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You're not alone, and there's a way forward.
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Revisit: 50 Shades of Integration: Harmonizing Masculine and Feminine Energies
Episode #1063 In this episode, we revisit a raw and honest conversation about what happens when masculine and feminine energies get out of sync in a relationship. This isn't about old-school gender roles. It's about energy, leadership, trust, and polarity — and what happens when those things go missing. Doug and Coach Chris unpack why so many men are stuck trying to be the "nice guy" and how that often leaves their partner feeling more like a caretaker than a lover. They dive into what women actually want: leadership, decisiveness, and safety. Most men have stepped back from this role without realizing it. They talk through what it looks like to lead from the heart, how to rebuild polarity, and small moves that shift the energy fast. If your relationship feels flat or disconnected, this conversation will hit home. Want to learn how to lead without trying to fix everything? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and take the first step toward real change.
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Revisit: Unmasking Authenticity: The Journey to Your True Self
Episode #1062 We're revisiting one of our most talked-about conversations — and it's still just as relevant today. Most men think they're showing up as their real selves. But the truth? We all wear masks. Whether it's to protect ourselves, gain approval, or just keep the peace, those masks slowly become part of who we think we are. In this episode, we get honest about why the masks go on in the first place, how they show up in everyday life, and what it really takes to start peeling them off. You'll hear stories from our own journeys and learn the steps we took to start showing up with more truth, more clarity, and more confidence. If you're feeling disconnected, lost, or like something's just off — this is worth a listen. Want help figuring out what mask you've been wearing and how to let it go? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and start the shift today.
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