The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1077 *]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:80d55b9b-935b-4f9b-b02a-f68cc4d1bede-7" data-testid= "conversation-turn-12" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> Ever find yourself messing things up just when they're starting to go well? You're not alone. A lot of high-performing men struggle with self sabotage, especially when life starts to feel steady. In this episode, Tim and Bruce dig into the reasons behind it, whether it's a deep-rooted self worth issue, a nervous system that craves chaos, or an old identity that just doesn't fit anymore. They explore how some men unconsciously create problems just to feel a sense of purpose or control. From procrastination and emotional withdrawal to overcommitting and burnout, the patterns are often the same. The good news is, once you see it, you can change it. You'll hear what actually works to break the cycle and how to stop bouncing between highs and lows in your personal and professional life. If you've ever told yourself "I know what to do, I just don't do it," this episode is for you. You'll walk away with a clearer understanding of where self sabotage really comes from and how to start shifting out of it. We also break down the role of unconscious identity and why traditional willpower won't solve the problem. The goal here isn't perfection. It's progress with intention. If you're tired of repeating the same patterns and want a clear path forward, check out the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It'll help you understand what's not working at home and what to do about it.      

Episode #1076 You know your core values at work. You've built a team culture, held people accountable, and led with purpose. But at home? Things feel off. Maybe you're clear and confident at work but second-guess yourself with your family. You say your family comes first, but your calendar tells a different story. In this episode, Tim and Bruce talk about a pattern they've seen in successful men: strong leadership at work, but little direction at home. They unpack why many guys never define values for their family life, and how that lack of clarity leads to drifting, disconnect, and frustration. You'll hear simple ways to bring intentional leadership into your home, starting with a 15-minute exercise that helps you define how you want to show up with your partner and kids. If you've ever felt like you're failing at home without knowing exactly why, this conversation will hit home. It's honest, practical, and focused on helping you get aligned with the man you want to be, especially when you walk through the front door. You'll also learn how misaligned values can quietly create tension in your marriage. And why setting even three simple core values at home can shift the energy with your wife and kids. It's not about being perfect. It's about showing up with more intention and less confusion. If you're leading everywhere except at home, this is the episode to tune into. If you feel like something's missing at home but you don't know how to fix it, get access to the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's a simple way to start making real changes that matter.

Episode #1075 You'd think selling your business for millions would be the happiest moment of your life. But for many men, it brings something they didn't expect: confusion, disconnection, and a deep sense of loss. In this episode, Tim sits down with Bruce to talk about what really happens after the big win. They share real stories from men who've reached the top only to realize the scoreboard at home looks very different from the one at work. We dig into identity, purpose, the emotional cost of achievement, and why many men feel like frauds even after they've made it. You'll hear why the people at home don't care how big the exit was. Why being respected in the boardroom doesn't always mean being seen in your own living room. And why men often retreat back into work instead of leaning into the harder work at home. We talk about the emotional bank account and what to do when it's overdrawn. If you've ever felt like something's off even when everything looks perfect on paper, this one will hit home. If you're feeling stuck at home, like you're winning at work but failing in your relationship, start by getting clear on what's broken and how to fix it. Watch the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1074 What happens when success on paper doesn't match how you feel inside? In this episode, Bruce shares the quiet crisis he faced in his 40s, one that wasn't loud or obvious, but deeply personal. He opens up about the years he spent hiding behind work, accomplishments, and a polished image, while quietly carrying a weight he didn't know how to name. Through honest conversation, Bruce and Tim unpack what shame really is, how it can quietly shape your life, and why so many men struggle to talk about it. This isn't about fixing everything overnight, it's about being honest about where you are and starting to move in a better direction. You'll hear about Bruce's journey from pushing people away to finally letting himself be seen. He talks openly about what it took to stop pretending and start connecting in a real way, especially with other men. If you've ever felt like something's off, even if everything looks fine from the outside, this conversation is for you. It's real, it's grounded, and it might be the nudge you need to start showing up differently. The goal isn't perfection, it's authenticity. You don't have to do this alone. If you're ready to stop carrying it all by yourself, we put together a free training that walks you through the exact steps men are using to get unstuck and take their lives back. No pressure, no fluff. Just a clear next step. Watch the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1073 In this revisit episode, Gary and Heather return to share what it really looks like when a relationship is built on personal growth, shared responsibility, and honest partnership. If you're tired of going through the motions, feeling stuck in your marriage, or wondering if it's too late to turn things around, this one is worth your time. Heather speaks candidly about what makes a man attractive to her. Not in theory, but in real life. Spoiler alert, it's not flowers or fancy vacations. It's a man who's grounded, consistent, and doing his own work. Gary opens up about what it took for him to shift from feeling stuck to becoming the kind of man who leads without control and creates trust without force. We dig into what being activated really means in a relationship, how to stop being a liability to your partner, and why most women lose respect when their man doesn't follow through. You'll also hear how doing the inner work translates to practical, real-world shifts, from how you show up at home to how your business runs. If you're serious about creating a relationship that's actually sustainable and full of life, this conversation breaks it down in a way that's real and doable. Get access to the free training for married businessmen who want to fix their marriage without begging, arguing, or dragging their wife to counseling. Watch the training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales