The Power of Femininity: Connection and Trust in Relationships
Episode #1060 In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin for a real, honest conversation about what happens when women feel like they have to carry everything and what shifts when they start softening back into their natural feminine energy. Erin opens up about her journey from being the "Angry Wife" to creating real connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationship. They talk about the difference between leadership and control, why so many couples get stuck in power struggles, and what actually works to bring the spark back. If you're constantly walking on eggshells or feeling like roommates, this conversation will hit home. You'll hear practical examples of what small changes look like. Things like planning the date night, opening the car door, or even just saying "Come sit with me" can shift the whole dynamic when done from a place of care instead of control. This isn't about playing outdated roles. It's about learning to create a relationship where both people feel safe, seen, and connected. Want to know how to fix your marriage without begging, chasing, or dragging your wife to therapy? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll learn the real reason things feel stuck and how to turn things around step by step. No guesswork, no games. Just clarity and a plan that works.
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Revisit: Breaking Free from Validation: The Power of Self-Acceptance
Episode #1059 This revisit episode dives into a conversation that hits home for a lot of men. Doug and Master Coach Mark Smith break down the quiet trap of needing validation from women. Whether it's constantly checking in to see if your partner is happy, overthinking every interaction, or looking for approval at work, this pattern often runs in the background without being noticed. They walk through where it comes from, why it shows up in relationships, and most importantly, how to break free from it. You'll hear about what it means to be grounded as a man, how to stop giving your power away, and how to build confidence that isn't based on what others think of you. If you're tired of questioning yourself and want to stop chasing approval, this episode offers real tools and a clear path forward. Want help getting started? Check out the free training for married businessmen ready to lead again without trying harder or fixing everything: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
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Revisit: Growing Together: The Art of Relationship Accountability
Episode #1058 We're revisiting this conversation because it's one of the biggest sticking points for men in relationships. You want to lead, you want clarity, and you want a stronger connectionābut when it comes to setting real agreements and holding your partner accountable, things get messy. In this episode, Tim and the team break down how to create accountability in your relationship without turning it into a business meeting or a fight. It starts with you getting clear on what you actually want. If you're not clear, there's no way to communicate it, let alone follow through. They share how to bring up needs in a way that invites conversation instead of conflict, how to assume the best without being walked over, and why most men skip the emotional prep that makes these conversations go smoother. You'll also hear why the energy behind the ask matters more than the words you use. If you've ever struggled with resentment, unmet expectations, or just feeling like your partner isn't on the same page, this is a conversation worth coming back to. If you're ready to lead at home with calm, clarity, and confidence, start with the free training that's helping married businessmen do just that. Watch it here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
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Revisit: Beyond the Ceiling: Understanding and Overcoming Upper Limits
Episode #1057 We're bringing this one back because it's a topic that keeps showing up. You start making progress, in your marriage, your business, your health and then out of nowhere, you slide back. It's frustrating, and it's more common than you think. In this episode, Tim sits down with Arthur, Andrew, and Austin to dig into the real reason why that keeps happening. It's called upper limiting. Whether it shows up as self-sabotage, complacency, or just falling off the path, there's usually something deeper underneath it. They talk through how identity, validation, nervous system wiring, and past patterns can all work against you when you're on the edge of growth. The guys also share how they've learned to spot the signs early and what you can do to stay on track instead of resetting every few months. If it feels like you're doing the work but something still keeps pulling you back, give this one a listen. And if you want help staying consistent and leading from a solid place, check out the free training that's helping married businessmen break the cycle and create lasting change. Watch it here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
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Revisit: Woman's POV: What To Do When Your Wife Says She Needs Space
Episode #1056 Your wife tells you she needs space, and you're left wondering what that actually means and what you're supposed to do next. Do you back off completely? Do you hold her close? How do you know the difference? In this episode, Doug brings in his wife Erin, a coach who works with married women, to break it all down from her side of the relationship. They talk openly about what's really going on when a woman says she needs space, why those words usually have more emotion behind them than logic, and how to handle it without losing yourself or making things worse. You'll hear how to stay grounded, how to lead with calm strength, and how to know when to give her breathing room and when to pull her back in with love. This one's honest, direct, and full of the kind of insight most men never get. If you've ever felt stuck trying to read her signals or unsure how to show up in these moments, this conversation will give you a solid place to start. Want more clarity on how to lead in your relationship without chasing or shutting down? Get the free training that's helping married businessmen create real connection again. Go here to watch it: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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