Losing My Bestfriend at 17 - How It Shaped Me
Troy Munson https://www.linkedin.com/in/troymunson and Daniel Berk –https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielberk return with one of the most vulnerable and powerful conversations yet on Two Dads in Tech.For the first time, Troy opens up about the night he lost his best friend in a tragic drunk driving accident at 17 — a story that changed his life forever. From growing up without a father to becoming one himself, Troy reflects on grief, guilt, and how loss shaped the way he sees love, fatherhood, and the value of time.Daniel guides him through memories of a rough childhood, abusive stepfathers, disconnection, resilience, and healing, leading to a brutally honest reflection on fear of death, PTSD, and parenting with empathy.This isn’t just a story about tragedy — it’s about what comes after. How one moment can redefine how you show up as a husband, a father, and a human.If you’ve ever lost someone, struggled with guilt, or wondered how to turn pain into perspective, this episode will stay with you long after it ends.—🕒 Show Notes(0:00) Cold open – new background & office talk(4:30) Daniel’s Co-working dream & podcast studio idea(5:30) Anthony’s episode recap & framing this conversation(6:00) Childhood: no father, tough stepdad, and early struggles(8:00) Family, addiction, and growing up around trauma(10:00) Escaping chaos and learning resilience(14:00) Finding out his biological dad died — 6 months later(17:00) Moving to Connecticut, quitting sports, becoming shy(21:00) Teenage years, first love, rebellion, and risky choices(22:00) The night everything changed — “He died on my lap.”(25:00) Processing trauma, loss, and survivor’s guilt(27:00) PTSD, fear, and learning to trust again(31:00) Premonition — “Don’t get into a black car.”(33:00) Fear of death, parenting, and finding purpose(36:00) College, marriage, and moving forward(41:00) Lessons for his kids — honesty, safety, empathy(44:00) Final reflections — what really matters as a parent—🔗 Links• Daniel Berk’s LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielberk• Troy Munson’s LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/troymunson• Two Dads in Tech Newsletter – https://twodadsintech.com• Shop Two Dads in Tech – https://shop.twodadsintech.com• Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/30GQP8FPJoKpLGpYBahlFP• Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-dads-in-tech/id1785662964• Check out Dimmo – https://www.dimmo.ai
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