Behavioral scientist Leidy Klotz reveals how your home feeds or starves three core psychological needs, why clutter blocks connection, and how to make your spaces actually work for your family.
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In a Good Place by Leidy Klotz: Available wherever you get your books
Subtract by Leidy Klotz
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What if the reason you feel stuck, distracted, or disconnected at home has less to do with your habits and more to do with your spaces?
Leidy Klotz, an engineering professor at the University of Virginia, is the author of Subtract and his brand-new book In a Good Place. He has spent over a decade studying the relationship between our physical environments and our psychological well-being, and today he is breaking it all down for us.
This conversation changed how I think about my home. We are not just talking about decluttering (although we do get into that). We are talking about why our spaces either feed or starve our deepest needs, and what we can do about it.
In this episode you will learn:
The three core psychological needs your home either supports or works against
How clutter literally gets between you and the people you love
Why you use your spaces the same way every day (and a simple research-backed way to break out of it)
The renovation trap: when updating your home actually makes it less meaningful
How to involve your kids in decisions about your home (and why it changes everything)
The beautiful story of Josie's Way and what it teaches us about legacy and space
Content note: Leidy shares openly about his daughter Josie, who passed away unexpectedly at four years old. Her story is woven throughout this conversation and is both heartbreaking and deeply beautiful.
Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction and Leidy's background
05:40 The intersection of environment and behavior
11:24 The three core psychological needs: agency, growth, and connection
17:25 Agency and connection in the home (plus tips for renters)
20:30 How clutter literally blocks connection
26:50 Behavioral changes through environmental cues
32:23 The family that moved dinner outside
36:06 Functional fixedness: why adults are worse at this than kids
40:42 Nostalgia, the renovation trap, and protecting what matters
50:57 Josie's Way: remembering through spaces and stories
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Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com
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