In this week’s episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our journey through The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, focusing on Chapter 3: The Indwelling Spirit. Tatum walks through Stanley’s personal experience with imposter syndrome and how it led him to a deeper understanding of the Holy Spirit’s presence and power in his life.This chapter highlights the difference between simply believing in the Holy Spirit and actively living a Spirit-filled life. Tatum discusses how many believers, though saved and sincere, may not be experiencing the fullness of the Holy Spirit because He is not fully activated in their daily lives. Stanley’s transparency about his own struggle brings clarity and hope for those who want to experience more of God but aren’t sure how.Through practical application and biblical insight, this episode challenges listeners to consider their own level of intimacy with the Holy Spirit. It’s not just about having Him present, but about allowing Him to fully take residence and lead. The chapter also touches on being sealed by the Spirit and the confidence we can have in knowing that God has taken up permanent residence within us.Reflection Prompt: Take a moment to meditate on these two truths:The Holy Spirit is God.The Holy Spirit lives in me.What do these truths mean for your daily life? How should they affect your thoughts, decisions, character, relationships, and sense of purpose?Scriptures Mentioned (in order of appearance):1 Corinthians 6:19 1 Corinthians 13:12 Genesis 1:1–3 Colossians 1:13–16 Genesis 1:26 Genesis 1:27 Acts 5:1–4 Hebrews 9:14 John 20:22 Acts 1:8 1 John 3:24 1 Thessalonians 4:8 1 Peter 1:11 Galatians 4:6 1 Corinthians 3:16–17 Romans 8:9 Romans 8:11 2 Timothy 1:14 Jeremiah 31:31–34 Mark 15:38 Ephesians 1:13–14 Matthew 27:66 Revelation 20:3 Revelation 7:4–8 Revelation 14:1–5 Ephesians 4:30Book Featured The Spirit-Filled Life: Discover the Joy of Surrendering to the Holy Spirit by Charles Stanley https://a.co/d/ceKoWk3Share this episode with a friend who is seeking more of God and trying to step into the calling on their life with confidence and clarity.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Rhythm Matters More than Routine
In this powerful and deeply practical conclusion to the Spirit-Led Business Decisions series, Tatum wraps up what organically grew into a four-part journey into how Christian entrepreneurs can walk with God daily in their business—not just in theory, but in practice. In this final installment, she shifts from theological insight to real-world application, answering the question: "How do I make this a lifestyle and not just lip service?"Tatum dives into Galatians 5:25 and unpacks what it truly means to "keep in step with the Spirit." She contrasts rhythm vs. routine, exploring why many believers struggle to remain connected to God in their daily grind, and how reclaiming spiritual rhythm—rooted in abiding, alignment, obedient action, and reflection—can transform not just your business, but your entire life.This episode is for the believer who's tired of burnout, hungry for clarity, and ready to build what God saw before He formed them. If you're ready to stop sprinkling Jesus onto your plans and start submitting to His, this conversation is your blueprint.What You’ll Learn:The difference between routine and rhythm—and why rhythm is more biblical and fruitful.The true meaning of Galatians 5:25 and its call to live Spirit-led daily.Psychological and spiritual reasons we struggle to abide with God consistently.How to build your business from a place of intimacy, not ambition.A practical four-part system: Abide, Align, Act, Assess—for keeping in sync with God in every business season.Key Scriptures:Galatians 5:25 – “Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”John 15:5 – “Apart from Me, you can do nothing.”Luke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary on routine vs. rhythm.Exodus 16 – God’s provision of manna and the daily rhythm of trust.Mark 1:35, John 5:19 – Jesus’ example of ministry led by presence, not pressure.Business + Faith Takeaways:Routines may be efficient, but rhythms anchor you to presence.Strategy should be Spirit-led—not stress-driven.Aligning with God’s timing produces peace, flexibility, and more fruit.Obedience matters more than optics or output.Resources & Related Episodes:How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions – Part 1: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3c5c4d42/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-1Worship, Fasting, and Divine Strategy – Part 2: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1edd3a2b/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-2Mobility + Flexibility in Business – Part 3: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/21747377/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-3How to Have a Business Meeting with God: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/515b3ca9/196-how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-godDigital Detox Episode: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/50e68525/251-take-a-digital-break-sisOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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The Holy Spirit is Not an “It” or a "Ghost"
In this powerful and transparent episode, we continue our journey through the book The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley, focusing on Chapter 2: “My First Encounter.” Tatum dives into Dr. Stanley’s personal reflections, her own early confusion around the Holy Spirit, and the deeply transformative truths revealed through Scripture about who the Holy Spirit really is.From church traditions and misinformation to real encounters with the Spirit of God, this episode breaks down misconceptions and invites you into a deeper awareness and relationship with the Holy Spirit—not as an “it,” but as the living, active, thinking, and feeling person He is.If you've ever felt confused, intimidated, or even unsure about who the Holy Spirit is and how He operates in your life, this episode will meet you with truth, grace, and clarity. You’ll walk away equipped to recognize the fingerprints of the Spirit in your day-to-day life and encouraged to surrender to the divine guidance available to you.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:The biblical identity of the Holy Spirit as a person—not a force or an “it”Why speaking in tongues is not the only evidence of being Spirit-filledThe key tasks of the Holy Spirit (with Scripture references)How to discern between conviction and condemnationPersonal stories of early confusion and real encounters with the Holy SpiritPractical steps to develop greater awareness and relationship with the Holy SpiritSCRIPTURES MENTIONED:John 16:8–11 – ConvictionJohn 16:12–15 – Illumination and TeachingRomans 8:14 – GuidanceRomans 8:16 – AssuranceRomans 8:26 – IntercessionActs 20:22–23 – Direction and Warnings1 Corinthians 2:11–12, 1 Corinthians 12:11 – Knowledge and Will of the SpiritEphesians 4:30, Romans 15:30 – Emotion of the SpiritCHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK:Reflect on the tasks of the Holy Spirit mentioned in the episode and look for them in your daily life.Ask yourself: Have I been guilty of ignoring the Holy Spirit?Begin to intentionally acknowledge Him as a person and seek to develop a daily awareness of His work in your life.GET THE BOOK:Grab your physical copy of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley and follow along with our Book Club! https://amzn.to/43i0044Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions pt. 3
In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection.If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.Key TakeawaysA closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.Scripture FocusActs 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)Proverbs 16:9Romans 8:14Galatians 5:25This Episode is For You If:You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.Topics CoveredStrategic planning vs. spiritual discernmentWhat to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirectionsThe importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in businessHow over-attachment to your vision can block divine movementThe role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernmentHow obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clientsOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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The Joy You’ve Been Missing Starts with the Holy Spirit
If you're tired of "just doing your best" and still coming up empty — this episode is for you.Tatum opens up about how her passion for business, once ignited by God, slowly became routine... heavy... even burdensome. Sound familiar? Whether it’s your faith, your work, or your purpose — if you've ever wondered why the fire doesn’t feel the same anymore, this episode will meet you where you are.This week kicks off our new Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley, a deeply personal and theologically grounded guide to rediscovering the joy, peace, and power that comes from truly living led by the Holy Spirit.Through honest reflection and raw storytelling, Tatum explores what it means to surrender again — not just your business goals, but your heart, your weariness, your routine, your emotions — all of it. She shares how the Holy Spirit met her right where she was, not in perfection, but in her honesty.This episode is a permission slip to stop striving and start abiding.You’ll Hear About:Why May is a personal turning point for Tatum in faith, family, and entrepreneurshipHow The Spirit-Filled Life meets you in dry, discouraged seasonsThe truth about burnout in faith and business—and how the Holy Spirit revivesWhat makes the Christian walk different from striving in your own strengthPractical ways to assess if you’re truly living Spirit-ledHow to prepare your heart to journey with us through this bookDiscussion Questions (from the book’s “Think About It” section):Is there a vast difference between what you experienced as a new believer and what you're experiencing now?Do you know Christians who just seem to have something or know something that you don't?What makes you different from friends who aren't believers?Peace, joy, and love—are they evident in your life?What can you currently attribute to the power of the Holy Spirit in your life?How would you explain what it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit?Call to Action:Grab a physical copy of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. This one isn’t just for reading—it’s for highlighting, journaling, and letting God speak to you in the margins: https://amzn.to/43ahrnjournal through the questions in this episode. Write honestly. Cry if you need to. The goal is not performance—it’s surrender.🎧 Listen and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you tune in. Share this episode with a friend who feels like they’re running on empty.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
The BBU Podcast is a weekly podcast that teaches purposeful women how to be uncompromising in their faith, business, and total life success with God as the CEO. Get ready to be empowered, emboldened, and receive divine strategy to fulfill God’s plan for your life and business. Your host + sister in Christ and success, Tatum Temia Ayomike, is an award-winning entrepreneur, executive producer, author and devoted Christian who has committed her life to help women bridge the gap between faith and business. Her impact as the CEO of Anchored Media includes a global reach of millions of listeners across 75+ produced podcast shows in just 2 years. Through her personal brand, Tatum has cultivated a community of businesswomen who give God full authority to use their business as a vessel for the Kingdom. Using the word of God as her platform, Tatum's prayer journal and published books offer instrumental guidance to ‘boss up’ in any entrepreneurial venture. Tatum has been featured in several magazines and publications and has been named as a Top 30 under 30 in the Washington, DC area.
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