Menopause Mastery

The Menopause Mastery Show | What's Really Making Me Angry About Menopause (And Why It Should Make You Angry Too) | Episode 288 solocast with Dr. Betty Murray
 🌿Welcome to The Menopause Mastery Show! 
 👉 Let's cut to the chase: Menopause is ignored — and that's a big problem. 
In this passionate, informative episode of Menopause Mastery, Dr. Betty Murray tackles the issues in women's health that continue to frustrate me—and why it's time we stop accepting them as "just the way things are."
From the staggering lack of menopause research funding compared to erectile dysfunction, to outdated hormone therapy myths, misinformation on social media, and the growing threats to women's healthcare and autonomy, this episode is an honest conversation about what's really happening.
 In this episode:
🔹 Why menopause research remains dramatically underfunded
🔹 The misinformation surrounding hormone replacement therapy
🔹 Evidence vs. opinion in women's health
🔹 Why outdated medical education is hurting women
🔹 The real health consequences of estrogen loss
🔹 Why menopause affects far more than hot flashes
🔹 Women's autonomy, advocacy, and the future of healthcare
🔹 The hidden burden of the sandwich generation
🔹 Turning frustration into action
Menopause isn't simply a "natural rite of passage." Women deserve evidence-informed healthcare, and the next generation of women can't afford for us to stay silent. If you've ever felt dismissed, confused, or frustrated navigating menopause, this episode is for you. 💫
 
📌 Connect with Dr. Betty Murray: 
Website: https://www.drbettymurray.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbettymurray/
 ✅ Let us know what you think! Like, comment, and subscribe on YouTube:     @drbettymurray  
 🔗 Links: 
The Fierce Female Method for Longevity (Dr. Betty's book): https://fierce.hormoneshelp.com/  
Menrva Telemedicine: https://gethormonesnow.com/  
Living Well Dallas: https://www.livingwelldallas.com/ 
 🎙️ More from the Podcast: 
Subscribe to #MenopauseMastery → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwONPdSvb2-YYY74VhD-XBw 
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/menopause-mastery/id1607369247 
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0tNsjm32CZNXSgSFEwS3uH
 
Thank you for listening to Menopause Mastery. Empowering your health journey, one episode at a time. 
 #menopausemastery #menopausepodcast #drbettymurray #menopause #perimenopause #womenshealth #menopauseresearch #menopausemyths #hormonetherapy #evidencebasedhealthcare

The Menopause Mastery Show | Invisible Abuse, Early Menopause, and the Hidden Stress Women Carry | Episode 287 with Melissa Rymer
🌿Welcome to The Menopause Mastery Show! 
When Menopause Isn't the Whole Story: The Hidden Impact of Narcissistic Abuse
Many women assume hot flashes, anxiety, insomnia, brain fog, and emotional overwhelm are simply part of menopause—but what if there's another factor making those symptoms dramatically worse?
In this powerful episode of Menopause Mastery, we sit down with Melissa Rymer, survivor, author, and founder of the Victim to Warrior Method, to discuss the often-overlooked connection between chronic emotional abuse, prolonged stress, and early menopause.
Melissa shares her deeply personal story of living through years of narcissistic abuse while unknowingly entering menopause. Together we explore how chronic stress affects hormone balance, why emotional abuse is often invisible, and the warning signs every woman should recognize.
If you've ever questioned your instincts, blamed yourself for relationship problems, or wondered why your menopause symptoms feel overwhelming, this conversation offers validation, education, and hope.
👉 In This Episode
* Why chronic stress may contribute to earlier menopause
* How narcissistic abuse affects hormones and overall health
* The hidden signs of gaslighting and coercive control
* Financial abuse and why many women don't recognize it
* The connection between brain fog, anxiety, and emotional manipulation
* How journaling can help rebuild trust in yourself
* Why boundaries are essential for healing
* The Victim-to-Warrior Method
* Learning to heal without carrying resentment
* Finding confidence, purpose, and healthy relationships after abuse
✨Conversations like these help more women recognize that they are not alone—and that healing is possible. Please leave a review, and share this episode with someone who may need to hear it. Subscribe for more from Menopause Mastery.
To connect with Melissa:
Website: https://victimtowarriormethod.com/
00:00 – Introduction: When menopause isn't the whole story
01:18 – Melissa's experience with early menopause during an abusive marriage
05:10 – How chronic stress and trauma can intensify menopause symptoms
08:34 – Understanding invisible abuse, gaslighting, and coercive control
15:02 – Why narcissists are difficult to recognize
20:11 – Everyday red flags that shouldn't be ignored
27:05 – Financial abuse and losing independence
35:14 – Family dynamics, generational trauma, and toxic relationships
43:22 – The Victim-to-Warrior journey: recognizing and accepting the truth
51:40 – Healing after abuse: forgiveness, rebuilding confidence, and finding healthy love
59:18 – Practical first steps for women who think they may be experiencing emotional abuse
01:06:42 – Melissa's resources, final advice, and message of hope
📌 Connect with Dr. Betty Murray: 
Website: https://www.drbettymurray.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbettymurray/
✅ Let us know what you think! Like, comment, and subscribe on YouTube:  ⁨@drbettymurray⁩  
🔗 Links: 
The Fierce Female Method for Longevity (Dr. Betty's book): https://fierce.hormoneshelp.com/  
Menrva Telemedicine: https://gethormonesnow.com/  
Living Well Dallas: https://www.livingwelldallas.com/ 
🎙️ More from the Podcast: 
Subscribe to #MenopauseMastery → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwONPdSvb2-YYY74VhD-XBw 
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/menopause-mastery/id1607369247 
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0tNsjm32CZNXSgSFEwS3uH
Thank you for listening to Menopause Mastery. Empowering your health journey, one episode at a time. 
#menopausemastery #menopausepodcast #drbettymurray #menopause #perimenopause #womenshealth #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissisticabuserecovery

The Menopause Mastery Show | PMOS Explained: How to Read the Patterns (and What You Have Missed) | Episode 286 Solocast with Dr. Betty Murray
🌿Welcome to The Menopause Mastery Show! 
Could you have been living with polyendocrine metabolic ovarian syndrome (PMOS) for decades without knowing it?  In this episode of Menopause Mastery, Dr. Betty Murray shares her personal journey—from puberty and birth control to unexplained weight gain, insulin resistance, hormone therapy, and the frustrating search for answers.
In this episode, we cover:
🔹PMOS isn't just "cysts on ovaries." It's a metabolic + endocrine syndrome with different phenotypes.
🔹In perimenopause/menopause, PMOS can be harder to "see" unless you understand patterns.
🔹If you've been told your labs are "normal," you may still have meaningful insulin resistance or androgen activity—especially if SHBG, fasting insulin, and a fuller androgen panel weren't assessed.
🔹The generic advice ("eat less, exercise more") is often insufficient without phenotype-driven strategy.
You'll learn why so many women were never diagnosed under the traditional PCOS model, how metabolic dysfunction often hides behind "normal" hormone tests, and which laboratory markers may reveal what's really happening. If you've struggled with weight, irregular cycles, low energy, or hormone imbalance despite doing everything right, this episode may help connect the dots.   
✨ To take the phenotype quiz:
https://quiz.gethormonesnow.com  
00:00 – Could You Have Had PMOS Your Entire Life?
01:20 – My Early Signs at Puberty
03:10 – How Birth Control Hid the Symptoms
05:00 – Insulin Resistance Before Anyone Knew
07:15 – Coming Off the Pill: Everything Changed
09:15 – Why I Was Told It Was "Estrogen Dominance"
11:05 – My Experience with Testosterone Therapy
12:50 – Why I Never Fit the PCOS Diagnosis
14:20 – The Lab Tests That Matter for PMOS
16:00 – Hidden Markers Most Providers Don't Check
17:45 – How to Start Putting the Pieces Together
1:03:00 — Product mentions and the "supplements can't replace lifestyle" message
1:07:10– Key takeaways + next steps for listeners
📌 Connect with Dr. Betty Murray: 
Website: https://www.drbettymurray.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbettymurray/
✅ Let us know what you think! Like, comment, and subscribe on YouTube:  @drbettymurray  
🔗 Links: 
The Fierce Female Method for Longevity (Dr. Betty's book): https://fierce.hormoneshelp.com/  
Menrva Telemedicine: https://gethormonesnow.com/  
Living Well Dallas: https://www.livingwelldallas.com/ 
🎙️ More from the Podcast: 
Subscribe to #MenopauseMastery → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwONPdSvb2-YYY74VhD-XBw 
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/menopause-mastery/id1607369247 
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0tNsjm32CZNXSgSFEwS3uH
Thank you for listening to Menopause Mastery. Empowering your health journey, one episode at a time. 
#menopausemastery #menopausepodcast #drbettymurray #menopause #perimenopause #womenshealth #pmos #pcos #hormonehealth #hormonechanges #menopauseweightloss

The Menopause Mastery Show | Fiber: The #1 Nutrient Menopausal Women Are Missing  | Episode 285 Solocast with Dr. Betty Murray
🌿Welcome to The Menopause Mastery Show! 
Protein matters in midlife—but it is not the whole story. In this episode of Menopause Mastery, Dr. Betty Murray explains why fiber may be the missing nutrient behind stubborn menopause weight gain, visceral fat, glucose spikes, hormone detox issues, and gut imbalance. 🍏
✨ You'll learn how soluble fiber, resistant starch, short-chain fatty acids, bile acids, and the estrobolome all influence insulin sensitivity, cholesterol, estrogen clearance, inflammation, and metabolic health. Dr. Betty also breaks down why extreme low-carb or carnivore-style diets can backfire long term when they starve the gut microbiome.
If you've been hitting your protein goals but still feel stuck, this episode will help you rethink carbohydrates, rebuild fiber intake, and support your metabolism from the gut up.
00:00 Why Protein Isn't the Whole Menopause Weight-Loss Story
01:09 The Missing Nutrient: Fiber
02:10 Three Beliefs About Carbs, Protein, and Fiber That Need to Shift
03:48 Why Midlife Women Are Fiber Deficient
05:48 Visceral Fat, Menopause, and the Calorie Myth
07:26 How Fiber Slows Glucose Spikes
08:43 Short-Chain Fatty Acids: How Gut Bacteria Talk to Fat Cells
09:56 What Research Says About Fiber and Metabolic Health
11:00 Fiber as Your Body's Natural GLP-1 Support
13:02 Resistant Starch and Insulin Sensitivity
14:01 The Estrobolome: Your Gut's Role in Estrogen Detox
18:27 What Happens When You Starve Your Good Gut Bacteria
20:36 Testing Hormone Detox and Gut Imbalance
22:31 Fiber, Bile, and Liver Detoxification
25:39 How Soluble Fiber Helps Lower Cholesterol
27:42 The Protein-Fiber Problem
30:25 Why Extreme Diets Can Backfire Long-Term
31:50 The Solution: Pair Protein with Plant Fiber
32:17 Food Fiber vs. Fiber Supplements
34:27 Are You Carb Sensitive—or Fiber Deficient?
36:36 How to Track Your Fiber Intake
38:12 Signs Your Gut May Be Underfed
39:51 How to Increase Fiber Without Feeling Miserable
41:12 Easy High-Fiber Meal Ideas
45:01 Get Your "F" Right: Fiber for Metabolic Health
45:43 Closing: What to Do Next
📌 Connect with Dr. Betty Murray: 
Website: https://www.drbettymurray.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbettymurray/
✅ Let us know what you think! Like, comment, and subscribe on YouTube:      ⁨@drbettymurray⁩   
🔗 Links: 
The Fierce Female Method for Longevity (Dr. Betty's book): https://fierce.hormoneshelp.com/  
Menrva Telemedicine: https://gethormonesnow.com/  
Living Well Dallas: https://www.livingwelldallas.com/ 
🎙️ More from the Podcast: 
Subscribe to #MenopauseMastery → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwONPdSvb2-YYY74VhD-XBw 
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/menopause-mastery/id1607369247 
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0tNsjm32CZNXSgSFEwS3uH
Thank you for listening to Menopause Mastery. Empowering your health journey, one episode at a time. 
#menopausemastery #menopausepodcast #drbettymurray #menopause #perimenopause #womenshealth #hormonehealth #hormonechanges #fiber #protein #menopauseweightloss

The Menopause Mastery Show | PCOS Is Dead: Why PMOS Changes Everything for Midlife Women  | Episode 284 Solocast with Dr. Betty Murray
🌿Welcome to The Menopause Mastery Show! 
PCOS has been renamed PMOS — Polyendocrine Metabolic Ovarian Syndrome — and Dr. Betty Murray explains why this is a major shift for women's health. In this solocast, Dr. Betty breaks down why PCOS was never just an ovarian condition, how insulin resistance, androgen signaling, and brain-based hormone feedback loops shape the condition, and why so many midlife women were missed by outdated diagnostic criteria. She also shares her own PMOS story, discusses hormone testing, GLP-1 medications, perimenopause, menopause, medical dismissal, and why women must become better advocates for their own care. 
Listeners will learn:
🔹Why the PCOS to PMOS rename matters: The new framing positions the condition as more than an ovarian issue and highlights its long-term metabolic impact.
🔹How PMOS can show up in midlife: The episode explains how fluctuating estrogen, progesterone, and androgens can make underlying dysfunction harder to recognize in perimenopause and menopause.
🔹What may be driving symptoms: Dr. Betty discusses the role of the hypothalamus, pituitary, ovaries, insulin signaling, adrenals, and thyroid in this broader hormone-metabolic picture.
🔹What health risks are linked to PMOS: She covers concerns including insulin resistance, prediabetes, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, chronic inflammation, abnormal weight gain, and resistance to weight loss.
🔹What to ask your provider about: The conversation includes suggested testing and possible treatment considerations to support better diagnosis and care.
If you've ever felt like your symptoms were dismissed because you didn't fit the classic PCOS picture, this episode offers a broader lens and a strong reminder that your experience may be rooted in physiology, not personal failure. 💫
📌 Connect with Dr. Betty Murray: 
Website: https://www.drbettymurray.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbettymurray/
✅ Let us know what you think! Like, comment, and subscribe on YouTube:     @drbettymurray  
🔗 Links: 
The Fierce Female Method for Longevity (Dr. Betty's book): https://fierce.hormoneshelp.com/  
Menrva Telemedicine: https://gethormonesnow.com/  
Living Well Dallas: https://www.livingwelldallas.com/ 
🎙️ More from the Podcast: 
Subscribe to #MenopauseMastery → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwONPdSvb2-YYY74VhD-XBw 
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/menopause-mastery/id1607369247 
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0tNsjm32CZNXSgSFEwS3uH
Thank you for listening to Menopause Mastery. Empowering your health journey, one episode at a time. 
#menopausemastery #menopausepodcast #drbettymurray #menopause #perimenopause #womenshealth #hormonehealth #hormonechanges #midlife #PMOS #PCOS