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• My Kid Hits Out! Here's why it's not your fault

  Is Your Toddler (or older child) Hitting, Biting, Snatching or Lashing Out? Here’s How to Handle ItFew things feel as overwhelming as watching your child hit, bite, or lash out—especially in public. The embarrassment, the judgment from other parents, the pressure to make them say sorry… it can leave you feeling lost and frustrated.In this episode, I sit down with Katy, a mum navigating these challenges with her lively three-year-old son, Leo. Together, we unpack why toddlers act out physically, what’s really happening in their little brains, and—most importantly—how to respond in a way that actually helps them learn to manage their emotions.If you've ever worried about your child's aggression or felt unsure how to handle those intense moments, this conversation is for you. You'll walk away with practical, compassionate strategies to guide your child through their big emotions—without punishments or power struggles.🎧 Tune in now and discover how to support your child while staying calm and confident.00:00 Introduction to Today's Topic: Navigating Toddler Emotions01:55 Meet Katy and Leo: Understanding Their Challenges04:09 Addressing Violent Outbursts: Strategies and Insights09:05 The Importance of Emotional Validation11:18 Practical Tips for Managing Toddler Behavior13:52 Building Emotional Regulation Skills17:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts🔗 Need more support? Book a free discovery call here  📌 10 Tried-and-Tested Solutions for Managing Tantrums - Grab my free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/tantrumsDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode resonated with you!When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• I Lost It With My Kids – Now What?

  Have you ever lost it with your kids? Parenting coach Camilla McGill explores these common, intense moments of parental stress through personal anecdotes and expert advice. You’re not alone in this, and losing it doesn’t define you as a parent. Tune in for practical strategies to recover, reconnect, and show your child what handling mistakes with love really looks like.🎧 Listen and don’t forget to subscribe!Covering -✅ Why these moments happen (it’s not just about the kids!)✅ How guilt affects us—and why beating yourself up doesn’t help✅ 3 powerful steps to repair and reset so you can move forward with confidencePlus,she answered a listener’s question: “I screamed at my 4-year-old after nagged for my phone and then hit me—now what?”She dives into the main triggers such as overload, exhaustion, and feeling judged, and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, acknowledging and managing emotions. Camilla shares practical steps for repairing and resetting relationships with children and spouses after these outbursts. This episode provides actionable strategies for parents to improve their emotional resilience and foster a loving and balanced family environment.00:00 Introduction: Losing It as a Parent00:28 A Personal Story of Losing Control01:42 Understanding the Triggers02:25 Key Strategies to Repair and Reset03:06 Why We Lose It: The Underlying Causes05:51 Dealing with Guilt and Shame07:35 Repairing and Resetting After Losing It12:05 Question of the Week: Handling a Child's Tantrum16:22 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• When kids push our buttons and what we can do about it

  Ever feel like your child knows exactly how to push your buttons? You’re not alone! In this episode, I’m joined by parenting expert and author Bonnie Harris, whose groundbreaking book When Kids Push Our Buttons and What We Can Do About It has transformed the way parents understand their emotional triggers.We dive deep into:✅ Why kids' behaviour triggers us—and how it’s often rooted in our own childhood experiences.✅ How to reframe our thoughts and reactions to build connection rather than conflict.✅ The key to handling meltdowns, big emotions, and power struggles without losing your cool.✅ Practical strategies for shifting from blame to understanding—and transforming family dynamics.This conversation is packed with insights that will help you respond to your child with more patience, empathy, and confidence.🎧 Listen now and start breaking free from the button-pushing cycle!🆓 Book a free discovery call with Camilla:https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🔗 Connect with Bonnie: bonnieharris.com00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Special Guest00:09 Bonnie Harris' Background and Influence02:24 Understanding Emotional Triggers10:11 The Emotional Chain Reaction16:38 Reframing Assumptions and Apologies23:47 Problem Solving with Your Child34:05 The Integrity Child and Handling Tantrums38:45 Building Connection with Your Child42:59 Conclusion and Contact InformationWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• Solved: 4-Year-Old Refuses To Dress Herself or Say Sorry (Live Coaching Session)

  In this special coaching-style episode, Camilla sits down with Hannah, a busy doctor and mum of two young girls, to explore some of the daily parenting challenges she faces. From chaotic mornings to sibling struggles and the tricky topic of teaching kids to say sorry, they dive deep into practical solutions that foster cooperation, connection, and independence.You'll hear real-life strategies for:✅ Making mornings smoother when you're solo parenting✅ Encouraging independence in getting dressed✅ Handling sibling rivalry and emotional outbursts✅ Understanding why kids struggle to apologise—and what to do insteadIf you're navigating similar challenges, this episode is packed with insights to help you create a calmer, more connected family dynamic.🔹 Download Camilla’s FREE guide: How to Get Your Kids to Listen🔹 Want to be a guest on the podcast? Emai [email protected]🔹 Book a FREE discovery call: Follow the podcast and share with a friend who needs this! 😊01:08 Meet Hannah: A Parent's Challenges01:52 Morning Routine Struggles and Solutions03:07 Addressing External Stresses and Parenting06:46 Encouraging Independence in Children16:18 The Importance of Apologies and Handling Impulsivity30:22 Promoting Kindness and Positive Behavior32:40 Conclusion and ResourcesWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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• How to talk so kids will listen

  Do you ever feel like your child isn’t listening to you, no matter how many times you ask? In this episode, Camilla  shares transformative strategies to help you talk so your kids want to listen. From managing expectations to adjusting your tone and engaging cooperation, you’ll discover tools that are effective and easy to implement. Why Kids Don’t Listen ImmediatelyUnderstanding their agenda vs. yours and why they’re not being deliberately disrespectful.How managing your expectations can foster empathy and patience.How You Say It MattersThe power of tone, phrasing, and concise instructions to grab your child’s attention.Tips for keeping your message warm, clear, and engaging.Engaging CooperationFun and practical ways to make tasks manageable and enjoyable, like turning clean-up into a game.Using limited choices to give your child a sense of control.Validating Their FeelingsThe importance of acknowledging emotions without dismissing them.How validation helps build connection and paves the way for cooperation.Question of the Week:This week’s question comes from Naomi:"Why does my child completely tune me out when I ask her to get her shoes on? What should I do?"Camilla offers actionable steps to connect before directing, use empathy, and break tasks into manageable steps—all while maintaining calm and connection.Resources Mentioned:Free Guide: “How to Get Kids to Listen Using the GREAT Method”Download hereBook a Discovery Call with Camilla: Click hereTakeaways to Remember:Listening takes practice and understanding—manage your expectations.Your tone and phrasing are powerful tools for connection.Break down tasks and add fun to engage your child’s cooperation.Validating feelings is key to reducing resistance and encouraging compliance.Next Episode:Tune in next week as Camilla coaches Hannah, a mum of two young children, on managing parenting challenges.Don’t Forget:If you found this episode helpful, hit follow or subscribe for more parenting tips and strategies. Let’s raise kids with love and boundaries, together!00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Getting Kids to Listen00:33 Personal Story: A Parenting Coach's Challenge01:42 Principles of Effective Communication03:11 Strategy 1: Understanding Kids' Agendas04:47 Strategy 2: The Importance of Tone08:42 Strategy 3: Engaging Cooperation11:20 Strategy 4: Validating Emotions13:41 Question of the week: How can I get my child to get her shoes on!15:56 Recap and Final ThoughtsWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

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