Why Rude, Moody or Silent Kids Need Us Most in These Moments
You’re trying your best to be a kind, calm, emotionally available parent—and yet your child is still shutting down, being rude, or melting down for no apparent reason. It’s frustrating, confusing, and sometimes heartbreaking.This episode will help you decode what’s really going on beneath the surface when your child acts out—and give you simple ways to stay emotionally connected, even when your child says “Nothing” and shuts you out.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why children often show us their feelings instead of telling usA relatable story from Camilla’s own parenting life that will shift the way you see defiant or rude behaviourWhat to do when your child won’t open up, and how to gently help them share what’s going on5 powerful strategies to build connection and create emotional safety💬 Question of the Week: “When I see my 6-year-old son is upset and I ask him what’s the matter, he just says ‘Nothing’ — what am I supposed to do then?”You’ll get practical ideas to handle this kind of emotional shutdown without pressure, shame, or trying to force a conversation.👩🏫 Hosted by Camilla McGill Parenting coach and mum of four, Camilla helps parents build calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children—using love, empathy, and healthy boundaries.💬 Ready for more personalised support? Book a free 60-minute discovery call with Camilla and find out how her support can help you decode your child’s behaviour and feel more confident as a parent: 👉 https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT 🎙️ Subscribe or follow the podcast to get weekly parenting tools and inspiration 📩 Send Camilla a message or question for a future episode camilla@myparentingsolutions.comWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
27/5/2025
15:45
How to Handle Sibling Fights Without Having To Take Sides
Sibling rivalry driving you up the wall? From constant squabbles to explosive bath-time battles, it’s hard to know when to step in—and how to do it without always picking a side.Parenting coach Camilla McGill shares 4 clear, practical strategies to help you stay calm, avoid taking sides, and guide your children to work things out for themselves. These tools will help you bring more peace to your home while building empathy, cooperation, and lasting sibling connection.The 4 Key Strategies✅ Shift Your Role – Become the calm coach, not the referee✅ Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair – Guide your children forward without needing to know every detail✅ Set the Stage for Success – Prevent predictable squabbles by planning ahead✅ Spotlight the Good Stuff – Catch the kindness and build more connection🔗 Mentioned in This Episode🎓 Sibling Rivalry Resolved – On-Demand Workshop & Manual Includes real-life examples, scripts, and a 16-page downloadable guide to reduce fighting and build sibling harmony.💬 Let’s ConnectBook a free discovery call to talk to Camilla ⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Handling Sibling Fights: Why this matters so much01:25 Question of the Week: “My daughter is always mean to her little brother…”01:55 Strategy 1: Shift from Referee to Coach04:18 Strategy 2: Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair07:15 Strategy 3: Set the Stage for Success09:38 Strategy 4: Spotlight the Good Stuff11:20 Revisit the Listener Question12:37 Final Thoughts + Recap13:15 Additional Resources & ClosingWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
13/5/2025
14:10
3 Biggest Mistakes we can make as parents and how to avoid them
Why do the simplest moments with kids — like putting on a coat — sometimes explode into shouting, tears, and slammed doors? Why do even the most loving parents find themselves saying things they swore they'd never say?In this powerful conversation, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares the three biggest mistakes parents unknowingly make — and, more importantly, how small shifts can completely transform the connection with a child.Listeners will hear a real-life "messy moment" that every parent will recognise and walk away with practical tools to: ✨ Stay calm under pressure ✨ Guide instead of control ✨ Focus on building long-term resilience — not just short-term obedienceIf anyone has ever walked away from an argument with their child thinking, "Why did it go that way?" — this episode offers the insight and reassurance they need.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries00:04 Why we make mistakes00:51 Introducing the Question of the Week: Handling Frustration02:12 Mistake #1: Controlling Instead of Guiding06:54 Mistake #2: Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Calmly10:37 Mistake #3: Focusing on Short-Term Obedience13:56 Reply to Question of the Week: "How can I get my child to put their coat on?"14:45 Summary and RecapWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
29/4/2025
16:19
"My Kid Is So Rude!"; 3 powerful ways to respond without shame or punishment
“You’re stupid!” “I hate you!” “Give me it – NOW!” If your child says things like this, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong. But the truth is, hearing those words can be heartbreaking, especially when you’re trying to raise a kind and respectful human with good manners.In this powerful episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares why rudeness shows up so often — particularly with the people our children feel safest with — and what we can do to guide them without shouting, shaming or punishment.You’ll learn:Why kids are rude (hint: it’s rarely personal)How to stay calm and hold your boundaryThe gentle replay technique that helps children practise respectful communicationWhat to do when they’re rude to a nanny or grandparentAnd how to handle those painful words: “I hate you.”Time Stamps00:00 - Introduction and personal anecdotes about rude behavior in children01:00 - Overview of the episode's structure03:00 - Explanation of why children are rude05:00 - First strategy – Staying calm and not reacting07:00 - Second strategy – Recognizing emotions without shaming09:00 - Third strategy – Asking for a polite 'replay'11:00 - Handling rudeness towards nannies or grandparents13:00 - Question of the week – Responding to 'I hate you'15:00 - Final thoughts and resourcesThis is not about raising perfect kids. It’s about helping them express big feelings without hurting others — and giving you the tools to respond with confidence.✨ Ready to shift the tone in your home? Grab Camilla’s free guide: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📩 Or book a free discovery call if you want personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🎧 If this episode helped, please rate it and share it with a friend or your child’s caregiver. Let’s spread the message of love and boundaries!When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
15/4/2025
17:45
Don’t Wrap Your Kids in Cotton Wool: 3 Powerful Reasons to Foster Independence
There’s a common parenting instinct to protect our children at all costs — and whilst that protective impulse is rooted in love, it can unintentionally hold our kids back.Listen to this episode to learn three powerful reasons why we need to raise independent kids and why wrapping our children in cotton wool can prevent them from developing essential life skills like resilience, self-trust and problem-solving. Camilla also offers practical, gentle ways to help your child learn to take ageand developmentally appropriate risks, build confidence, and grow into capable, independent people.Expect lots of empathy, relatable stories from her own parenting journey, and real-life tips you can start using today.🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why over-protecting them actually limits their growthHow to introduce risk in a safe, age-appropriate wayWhat to say when your child faces disappointment or failureThe long-term emotional and developmental benefits of fostering independenceWhy handing over responsibility in small doses builds resilience🔧 Practical Strategies You'll Hear:How to stay calm when your child pushes boundaries — especially near roads or in risky situationsThe power of using natural consequences instead of threats or punishmentWhy involving your child in decision-making fosters independence, cooperation and safety awarenessHow to model learning through your own real-life mistakes🎙️ Question of the Week:“My child refuses to hold my hand near roads or in car parks, and I’m terrified he’ll run off — what should I do?” Camilla shares a beautifully balanced response that addresses both safety and the need to build your child’s decision-making skills and independence.📌 Links and Resources:Want to take things further? Apply for Camilla’s transformational 1:1 coaching package by starting with a free discovery call Grab Camilla's fantastic free guide: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Nagging or Shouting When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call 2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
Raising Kids with Love and BoundariesHosted by Camilla, a seasoned parenting coach with over two decades of experience, "Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries" is your go-to podcast for navigating the challenges and joys of raising children aged 2-12.Drawing from her own journey raising four children and extensive work with parents, Camilla offers practical advice and compassionate guidance. Each episode is crafted to provide actionable insights in a warm, non-judgmental tone, to learn practical, evidence-based tools and tips to raise amazing kids. Episodes address topics like morning routines, sibling conflicts, toddler tantrums, school refusal, and more.Tune in for supportive conversations, expert interviews, and tips to nurture confident, resilient children.Subscribe now for valuable parenting advice!
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