The Business of Pleasure

Featuring Chris aka @big_black_supervillain

What really gets people off once a relationship evolves?

In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection.

This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.”

Chris opens up about the first time he discovered masturbation as a young man, how it helped him learn his body, his preferences, and the importance of understanding sensation as a man. Together, Kash and Chris discuss how masturbation changes inside relationships, the stigma around mutual masturbation, and why emotional intelligence plays such a major role in pleasure.

The couple also dives into:
✨ Mutual masturbation and intimacy as a couple
✨ Learning your body before teaching someone else
✨ Men and self-pleasure conversations rarely being discussed honestly
✨ Sensitivity, lubrication, grip, and sensation preferences
✨ Why “too wet” can sometimes decrease sensation for some men
✨ Being physically attracted but mentally not in the mood
✨ Emotional safety and connection as arousal factors
✨ The evolution of desire in long-term relationships
✨ What gets people off outside of sex

This episode is vulnerable, educational, hilarious, and incredibly real… exactly what happens when The Soft and The Strong sit down together.

Featured Bedroom Kandi products discussed in this episode include:
💋 Sidekick
💋 Your Highness
💋 Head to Toe
💋 Heart Desires Paddle
💋 And more

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POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley

Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May

Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off.

Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically.

In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway to pleasure… power.

Because for some women, it’s not just touch…
It’s control.
It’s confidence.
It’s knowing who you are and owning it fully.

Together, they unpack:

• What it looks like to step into power at a young age
• Building confidence before you fully feel it
• The connection between dominance, control, and pleasure
• First experiences with self-exploration and masturbation
• Why self-touch is more than physical… it’s self-awareness
• How mental and emotional stimulation can be just as powerful as physical touch
• Expanding the conversation around what pleasure can look like for women

This episode challenges the idea that pleasure has one path.

Because sometimes…
Power gets you off.

✨ Masturbation May Reminder:
This month is about celebrating your pleasure, your curiosity, and your connection to self… however that shows up for you.

✨ Featured Products:
• Groove Panty Vibe
• Butter Me Up
• Seduce Me Perfume

Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… where pleasure is power.

POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley

Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May

Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off.

Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically.

In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway to pleasure… power.

Because for some women, it’s not just touch…
It’s control.
It’s confidence.
It’s knowing who you are and owning it fully.

Together, they unpack:

• What it looks like to step into power at a young age
• Building confidence before you fully feel it
• The connection between dominance, control, and pleasure
• First experiences with self-exploration and masturbation
• Why self-touch is more than physical… it’s self-awareness
• How mental and emotional stimulation can be just as powerful as physical touch
• Expanding the conversation around what pleasure can look like for women

This episode challenges the idea that pleasure has one path.

Because sometimes…
Power gets you off.

✨ Masturbation May Reminder:
This month is about celebrating your pleasure, your curiosity, and your connection to self… however that shows up for you.

✨ Featured Products:
• Groove Panty Vibe
• Butter Me Up
• Seduce Me Perfume

Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… where pleasure is power.

For the first time ever, we’re bringing you a LIVE recording from the Bedroom Kandi 2023 Social Affair… hosted by Your Sexologist Bestie Kash.

This wasn’t just an event… it was an experience.

With hundreds in attendance, the Social Affair brought together community, conversation, and connection around pleasure, intimacy, and empowerment. Guests had the opportunity to explore Bedroom Kandi products, connect with vendors, meet Kandi Burruss, and tap into expert-led discussions that blended education with real, unfiltered dialogue.

This featured panel is where sex ed meets edutainment.

On stage:
• Kandi Burruss – Founder of Bedroom Kandi
• Suki Dunham – Co-Founder
• Your Sexologist Bestie Kash – Host & Moderator
• Sex with Ashley – Guest Expert

Together, they break down pleasure, intimacy, and product education in a way that’s engaging, honest, and informative. From exploring different ways to connect with your body to understanding how to enhance partnered experiences, this conversation delivers insight with personality.

This event also highlighted the launch of our Splash Collection, featuring Bedroom Kandi’s signature Pleasure Pro technology, designed to elevate stimulation and create a more dynamic, immersive experience.

If you’ve ever wanted to see what a Bedroom Kandi experience feels like in real life… this is it.

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✨ Shop the Experience:
Explore toys, wellness, and more at
BedroomKandi.com/shop

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⚠️ Disclaimer:
This content was recorded in 2023. Some featured products may no longer be available or may have been updated.

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Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… LIVE.

In the continuation of this episode, Kash sits down with two BK consultants Jchemela Holmes IBCLC and Dr. Perquida Payne for a real conversation about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, through both professional expertise and lived experience.

From navigating a rare pregnancy experience with superfetation, to laboring during COVID, to advocating for her body and her choices, Kash shares what it really looks like when motherhood doesn’t go as planned… and how the right support can change everything.

This episode dives into the realities of maternal care, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, mental health, relationship shifts, and what it takes for a woman to reconnect with herself, her body, and her pleasure after birth.

Because motherhood changes everything… but it shouldn’t cost you yourself.

✨ Featured Products Mentioned:
• Warm Me Up (Reusable Heating Pad)
• Belly Love Moisturizer
• Make Me Over
• Pheromones Collection
• Bath, Body & Wellness Products
• Play With Me Straps

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BedroomKandi.com