The Midlife Chrysalis

The drive that made you successful may not be meant to lead you forever.

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode of The Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley and Derek Gehl explore the shift from ego to soul, the defining transition of the second half of life. Drawing from his personal journey, his role as a “modern elder” at Airbnb, and insights from Richard Rohr and Connie Zweig, Chip reflects on what happens when achievement stops being enough.

In this conversation, you’ll learn:
Why ego builds the first half of life but can limit the second
How to move from performer to elder
What generativity really means
Why awe and space are essential for soul growth

If you’ve felt a quiet nudge that there’s something deeper beyond success, this episode will resonate.

Tune in and consider who’s driving your life now.

Timestamps:
01:13 Gehl’s Proud Dad Moment
04:17 Enneagram and Early Identity
06:20 Coming Out and Authenticity
09:40 The Ballroom Dance Metaphor
11:47 Richard Rohr and Falling Upward
14:14 Living Stuck in Ego
15:24 Ego, Generativity, and Aging
18:22 From Frontman to Guide
19:30 Reincarnation & Evolving Conciousness
21:32 Where People Get Stuck
25:07 Spirituality & Seeking Awe
26:06 Practices to Soften the Ego
27:26 Richard Rohr Workshop in Santa Fe

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What if the real key to longevity isn’t a biohack but a wake-up call?

In this episode, Dr. Brad Jacobs, longevity expert, integrative medicine pioneer, and former UCSF professor, shares what truly helps us thrive in midlife.

After losing his father to cancer at 27, Brad made it his life’s work to understand how we can live longer and better.

In this episode, we explore:
What actually extends your life (and what’s a distraction)
Why sleep and stress matter more than most supplements
How psychedelics are reshaping emotional healing
What modern masculinity has to do with longevity
Why midlife is a powerful reset, not a decline

If you’re in your second half and ready to live with more vitality, clarity, and purpose, this conversation will challenge and inspire you.

Press play! Your midlife upgrade starts here.

Timestamps:
04:10 Martial arts to longevity medicine
08:58 Rethinking US healthcare
11:26 Integrative health in midlife
14:42 Sleep optimization and wearables
18:02 Longevity myths and overtraining
19:13 Food philosophy and Blue Zones
21:59 Stress overload and chronic disease
25:50 Love, partnership and second chances
29:57 Psychedelic medicine and ketamine
35:11 Ketamine vs. Psilocybin
37:45 Modern masculinity redefined
41:08 Chip on coming out & courage
48:50 Live Longer Age Better workshop
50:28 Wisdom Bumper Sticker

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In this episode of Midlife Chrysalis, poet and philosopher David Whyte explores why midlife often feels like losing your way and why that experience may be exactly what opens the door to deeper meaning.

Drawing on poetry, psychology, and Dante’s famous “dark wood,” David explains how moments of uncertainty can become powerful turning points in our lives.

In this conversation, he shares:
Why midlife can feel like exile from your old life
What Dante’s “dark wood” teaches about transformation
Why silence and the unknown are essential for growth
How vulnerability and grief can lead to wisdom

If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or questioning the direction of your life, this conversation offers a powerful new way to see it.

👉 Watch the full episode and discover why getting lost in midlife might be the beginning of something greater.

Timestamps:
02:29 What “Midlife Chrysalis” Really Means
06:37 Dante and the Exile of Midlife
13:00 Aging, Eldership and the Inner Horizon
17:40 The Power of Silence and Contemplation
22:55 Poetry, Discipline and Inner Transformation
27:01 Why People Turn to Poetry in Midlife
33:13 Masculinity, Friendship, and Emotional Isolation
37:39 Work as a Spiritual Pilgrimage
44:22 The First Step to Deeper Conversations
50:00 Friendship with the Unknown
52:30 Vulnerability, Care, and Asking for Help
55:09 Wisdom Learned Between 50 and 70
58:27 Final Reflections on Caring and Presence

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Midlife isn’t about adding more. It’s about letting go.

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode of The Midlife Chrysalis, Chip Conley joins Derek Gehl to explore The Great Midlife Edit, the courage to release what has quietly run its course.

Drawing from his near-death experience and the sale of his company, Chip shares what it really means to “empty your cup” and create space for what’s next.

In this conversation, you’ll learn:
Why midlife shifts us from accumulation to editing
How to recognize what’s ready to “graduate” from your life
The three stages of transition — endings, the messy middle, and new beginnings
A powerful question to help you begin your own edit

If something in your life feels heavy, outdated, or complete, this episode is your gentle invitation to let go and begin again.

Listen in, reflect, and share it with someone ready for their next chapter.

Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome to Wisdom Wednesday
00:18 Heated Rivalry and Mark Carney
03:29 The Great Midlife Edit
07:10 Empty Your Cup Japanese Story
10:15 Transitional Intelligence and Endings
11:46 Surrender and the Serenity Prayer
15:15 Chip’s Major Life Edits
18:45 Gut Check Practice
20:22 Editing Family Relationships
22:29 Question to Begin Your Own Edit
24:10 Ritualizing Letting Go

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What happens when the world sees a champion… but you’re still figuring out who you are?

In this episode of The Midlife Chrysalis, Olympic legend Greg Louganis opens up about the life behind the gold medals and the deeper journey beyond fame. From childhood wounds and public adoration to living with HIV and facing mortality at 28, Greg shares how his identity has evolved over decades.

You’ll hear:
• How early trauma shaped his drive to perform
• Why love, not medals, fueled his career
• What midlife taught him about letting go of personas
• How meditation, shadow work, and silence helped him heal

This is a conversation about reinvention, mortality, and becoming whole, not despite your past, but because of it.

If you’re navigating midlife, identity shifts, or personal healing, this episode will speak to you.

👉Press play and enter the chrysalis.

Timestamps:
02:50 Welcome to Midlife Chrysalis
03:13 Moving to Panama and new chapter
04:50 First trauma and feeling abandoned
11:20 Performing and early competition
16:01 Olympic journey and first medals
17:14 Fame and public attention
20:40 Coach Ron O’Brien and motivation
24:55 Identity, HIV, and sponsorship struggles
29:28 Living with public persona
33:29 Evolving identity and being content
36:37 Meditation yoga and inner work
42:11 Looking inward for answers
44:39 Life wisdom and 45-year relationship
49:22 Mortality, HIV, and acceptance of death

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