Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becoming?
In this episode, join Chidera as she normalises hating men back.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses male sexual violence against women
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WE NEED TO REJECT MEN MORE OFTEN
Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitled to our love.
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BEING THE WOMAN HE CAN AFFORD
What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?!
In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;)
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ATTRACTIVE MEN?
Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man?
In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat!
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MALE-CENTRED WOMEN?
Are desperate women sinking the ship for the rest of us? Can men tell when you're male-centred? Are low-effort dates even worth it in the name of being a 'cool and easy' girl?
In this episode, join Chidera as she highlights the dangers of male-centred women...and what we can all do to redirect the focus to ourselves!
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As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
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