

Why You're Still Sick: The Victim Trap Destroying Your Health
13/1/2026 | 21 mins.
ποΈ Dr. Pedram Shojai delivers a no-holds-barred wake-up call about victim mentality and its devastating impact on your health. Drawing from real cases of people sabotaging their own healing while blaming everyone else, he breaks down the biological prison that victim consciousness createsβfrom nervous system freeze responses to chronic inflammationβand provides a four-step process to break free, reclaim your power stance, and take radical accountability for your health choices. π― What You'll Learn: The biological cost of victim consciousness: nervous system freeze, cortisol elevation, inflammation, immune dysregulation, and why your body literally believes no solutions are available How victim mentality narrows awareness to one channel ("what's being done to me"), creating loss of internal guidance and making you blind to open doors The Four-Step Breaking Pattern: Witness victim language, feel the physical collapse, reclaim power stance (stand, stack spine, breathe), ask "What is my available move right now?" Why creative power and victim consciousness are mutually exclusiveβevery moment in victimhood is a moment you're not healing Real case: Patient with almond sensitivity keeps eating almonds, blames protocols when they failβthe pattern of making worst choices while blaming others Proprioceptive reprogramming: Your body can't maintain victim state when in power stance π Key Insights: "Victim consciousness and creative power are mutually exclusive states. Every moment in victimhood is a moment you're not healing." "Replace 'Why is this happening to me?' with 'What is my available move right now?' Action breaks the spell of victimhood." "Your body can't be in victim state when in power stance. Stand up, stack your spine, take a full breath. Proprioceptive reprogramming breaks the spell." π‘ Action Steps: Take the 24-Hour Victim Language Challenge: Catch yourself using "they made me feel," "I had no choice," or "this always happens to me" Practice the Four-Step Pattern Break when you notice victim thinking Read The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz for radical accountability Join the 100-Day Gong Practice: Three Qigong sets daily, fasting cardio, weightlifting π§ Perfect for: Anyone stuck in chronic health issues while blaming doctors or circumstances, people who feel righteous in their suffering, or those ready to stop being the victim and become the hero of their own story. π Mentioned Resources: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz The Gene Keys (current book study) Lights On Course (launching Thursday 11am Central) Life Garden Course Daton Pi and Five Dragons Qigong π Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting #VictimMentality #RadicalAccountability #FunctionalMedicine #NervousSystemHealth #SelfHealing #MindBodyConnection #HealthTransformation #PersonalResponsibility #Qigong #ConsciousLiving #UrbanMonk #Wellness

Voice as Medicine: Frankko Vivo's Journey from Basketball Court to Mountain Temple
19/12/2025 | 43 mins.
ποΈ In this intimate conversation, Dr. Pedram Shojai sits down with Frankko Vivo, a musician and ceremony guide who transformed from a basketball player into a guardian of sacred space. Frankko shares how an 82-year-old violinist named Sol changed his life's trajectory with a single gift, leading him to carve a temple into a Brazilian mountainside over 13 years. Through stories of water infiltrations that forced him to listen to the mountain's wisdom and ceremonies where improvisation trumps performance, Frankko reveals how voice activation, deep breathing, and authentic frequency work can reconnect us to our spiritual power. This is about research as a personal practice, music as a living goddess, and the courage to follow an unconventional calling. π― What You'll Learn: Frankko's Transformation Journey: From basketball scholarship and knee surgery ending athletic dreams to seven years backpacking through Africa, learning six languages, and discovering didgeridoo, guitar, and improvisation Building a Temple in the Mountains: Finding land in a Brazilian national park, digging rooms into the mountainside, creating a megaphone cone carved into the mountain for natural amplificationβcrossing rivers and climbing mountains just to reach the site Listening to the Mountain's Wisdom: How watching the sculpture collapse during a 40-day fast taught him about water infiltrations, permaculture principles forcing their way into cave work, and adapting to the mountain rather than fighting it Music as a Living Divine Entity: Why music is one of Frankko's greatest teachers, recognizing music as a goddess (not just art), understanding why Krishna, Shiva, and Ganesha all carry instruments, and why singing is worth "three times"βexpanding frequency fields Ceremony as Research (Not Performance): Moving beyond drug-centric views of ceremony, using singing and dancing together as pillars, finding your own strength (not just relying on medicine's strength), activating your power through voice and movement The Gift from Sol: Meeting an 82-year-old violinist who said "I have to hand you this, I had a dream"βan angel encounter that handed Frankko his life's mission and taught him to face the unknown with courage Voice Activation for Spiritual Connection: Voice as connection to spirit (not just musical ability), standing in your being through resonant frequency, moving beyond superficial throat breathing to deep air π Key Insights: "I'm not a performer, I'm not a showman. This is improvisationβit's research as a personal practice." "Music is a living goddess. It's one of my greatest teachers. When you recognize music as divine, not just art, everything changes." "The mountain taught me through collapse. Water infiltrations during my 40-day fast showed me I needed to listen, adapt, and create bigger spaces. Permaculture principles forced their way into the work." "Ceremony isn't about the medicineβit's about activating your own power through voice and movement. Finding your strength, not just relying on the medicine's strength." "Sol, an 82-year-old violinist, handed me my life's mission in a dream. She said 'I have to hand you this.' That's how angels workβthey hand you your calling with courage to face the unknown." π‘ Action Steps: Explore voice activation for yourself and your children: Voice connects you to spirit, not just musical abilityβpractice standing in your being through resonant frequency Move beyond superficial throat breathing: Access deep air and authentic frequency to reconnect with spiritual power Consider ceremony as research, not performance: Focus on singing and dancing together, finding your own strength rather than relying solely on external medicine Support the temple work: Help build the recording studio and retreat house at Frankko's mountain temple in Brazil Visit the community: Accept Frankko's invitation to experience the temple space and ceremony work in Brazil's national park π§ Perfect for: Musicians seeking deeper spiritual connection through their art, ceremony participants wanting to move beyond drug-centric experiences, parents looking for voice activation work for their children, anyone called to unconventional spiritual paths, seekers interested in sacred space creation and temple building, or those feeling the pull to bridge high-velocity urban life with slow, intentional mountain work. π Mentioned Resources: Frankko Vivo's temple and recording studio project: https://templovivo.eco.br/support The mountain temple in Brazilian national park (retreat house and ceremony space) Frankko's paintings as "frequency portals" Crowdfunding campaign for personal recording laboratory π Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting Guest: Frankko Vivo - Musician, Ceremony Guide, Temple Builder #VoiceActivation #SacredSpace #CeremonyWork #SpiritualJourney #MusicAsMedicine #TempleBuilding #Permaculture #BrazilianMountains #FrequencyHealing #AuthenticExpression #SpiritualPractice #ConscioussLiving #SacredMusic #VoiceHealing #UnconventionalPath #UrbanMonk #Wellness

The Breathing Crisis: How Modern Life Stole Your Breath and the Ancient Practice That Gets It Back
08/12/2025 | 24 mins.
ποΈ Most people breathe 20,000 times a day, yet modern life has systematically broken this fundamental function. Dr. Pedram Shojai reveals how collapsed posture, chronic stress, mouth breathing, and lost body awareness have created a breathing crisisβleaving us in survival mode with shallow, chest-based breathing that signals constant danger to our nervous systems. In this essential episode, discover the four ways modern life has stolen your breath and why dysfunctional breathing creates cascading physical consequences from chronic anxiety and brain fog to digestive issues, immune dysfunction, and even facial distortions. Dr. Shojai guides you through a practical breathing restoration practice combining postural awareness, nasal breathing, and diaphragmatic techniques that can increase heart rate variability by 15-25% in just weeks. π― What You'll Learn: The Four Ways Modern Life Broke Your Breathing: Collapsed posture (8-12 hours hunched compressing diaphragm), accumulated stress (chronic sympathetic dominance), mouth breathing epidemic (reduces oxygen delivery by up to 20%), and lost interoceptive awareness (breathing 15-20 times/minute instead of optimal 6-8) The Devastating Physical Consequences: Chronic hyperventilation leading to alkalosis and anxiety, diaphragmatic dysfunction creating digestive and pelvic floor problems, lymphatic stagnation reducing immune function, fascial restrictions causing chronic pain, and facial distortions requiring orthodontics and cosmetic surgery Why Your Breath is the Master Control Panel: The only part of your autonomic nervous system you can consciously controlβbridging conscious and unconscious mind The Guided Breathing Restoration Practice: Postural setup (stacked spine), nasal breathing technique (engaging nitric oxide production), 4-2-6-2 diaphragmatic pattern (belly β ribs β chest like filling a glass), and expanded multi-awareness practice The Science Behind Restoration: Heart rate variability increases 15-25% in weeks, improved vagal tone for inflammatory control and emotional regulation, increased oxygen delivery for cellular energy, improved CO2 tolerance reducing anxiety Becoming a Breath Researcher: Investigation questions for the weekβwhen do you hold your breath, what situations trigger shallow breathing, how does breath change with posture, what's the quality upon waking or before bed Why Breath is Foundation for Everything: All other practices (qigong, meditation, cold exposure, movement) build upon proper breathingβfix this first π Key Insights: "Modern life has systemically stolen your breath through a perfect storm of posture, stress, and environmental factors. Your nervous system thinks you're being chased by a tiger while you're sitting at your dumb desk." "Your breath is the only part of your autonomic nervous system you can controlβit's the bridge between your conscious and unconscious mind. This isn't woo woo. This is just taking back control." "Mouth breathing bypasses nitric oxide-producing bacteria and reduces oxygen delivery by up to 20%. It's connected to sleep apnea and facial structure changes over time." "Most people breathe using only 10% of lung capacity while breathing 15-20 times per minute instead of the optimal 6-8 times. Your nervous system thinks you're being chased." "If you fix your breathing, you fix the foundation of everything else. Ancient technology we've forgotten to useβbring it back." π‘ Action Steps: Do the Quick Assessment now: Place one hand on chest, one on bellyβwhich moves more when you breathe? Non-judgmental awareness of current pattern Practice the 4-2-6-2 Pattern: Inhale through nose 4 counts (belly β ribs β chest), pause 2 counts, exhale 6 counts (belly draws in), pause 2 countsβdo 5 rounds right now Become a Breath Researcher this week: Notice when you hold your breath, what situations trigger shallow breathing, how posture affects breath, quality upon waking/before bed Set up proper posture throughout your day: Sit forward on chair with stacked spine, crown pulling upward, shoulders relaxed down and back, grounded through sit bones Try the Chinese practice: Keep tongue tip touching roof of mouth while nasal breathing to enhance the practice π§ Perfect for: Anyone experiencing chronic anxiety, brain fog, or muscle tension, people stuck in sympathetic dominance who can't access rest-and-digest mode, those with digestive issues or immune dysfunction that might stem from dysfunctional breathing, anyone who's tried meditation or stress management but struggles with the foundation, or people spending 8-12 hours hunched over screens with collapsed posture. π Mentioned Resources: New 52-module breathing course (launching mid-January) The Urban Monk Academy Temple Grounds (breathing practices, qigong, meditation) Gene Keys book and website (genekeys.com) - ongoing book study through late January CO2 tolerance training and free diving experience in Thailand π Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting #BreathingCrisis #BreathworkHealing #NervousSystemHealth #DiaphragmaticBreathing #HeartRateVariability #VagalTone #FunctionalMedicine #HolisticHealth #MindBodyConnection #InteroceptiveAwareness #StressResilience #AutonomicNervousSystem #AncientWisdom #ModernWellness #HealthOptimization #UrbanMonk #Wellness

Breaking the Sympathetic Spiral of Doom with Dr. Scott Sherr
05/12/2025 | 53 mins.
ποΈ Dr. Pedram Shojai sits down with integrative medicine physician Dr. Scott Sherr to unpack one of the most overlooked health crises of our time: the sympathetic spiral of doom. When your nervous system gets stuck in fight-or-flight mode, your mitochondria desperately try to produce more energy but lack the resources to sustain it. The result? Plummeting energy, skyrocketing stress, and a body that can't heal itself. Dr. Sherr explains the intricate dance between sympathetic nervous system activation and mitochondrial dysfunction, revealing how this vicious cycle begins and, more importantly, how to break it. π― What You'll Learn: The Sympathetic-Mitochondrial Connection: How chronic fight-or-flight forces mitochondria to produce excessive energy, creating reactive oxygen species (free radicals) until cells trigger "cell danger response" and shut down to protect themselves The GABA System as the Unsung Hero: Why depression is more likely a GABA deficiency than serotonin deficiency, and how GABA controls the sensory gate (anxious brains: 70,000 thoughts/day becomes 120,000 with anxiety) The Six Major Drivers of Mitochondrial Dysfunction: Insulin resistance (75% of US adults), chronic sympathetic activation, environmental toxins, infections (COVID, mold, Lyme), medications (birth control, PPIs, metformin), and lack of stimulation Why GABA supplements often indicate a leaky blood-brain barrierβand how healing gut permeability affects efficacy The Caffeine Trap: How caffeine blocks adenosine receptors creating the "adenosine crush" and inevitable crash, tolerance, dependence, and the morning headache cycle Strategic Supplement Support: Nicotinamide GABA (B3-GABA) crosses blood-brain barrier effectively, muscimol from Amanita muscaria for sleep, natural GABA receptor support (CBD, CBG, CBN, kava) Advanced Interventions Timing: Why hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) can make things WORSE during sympathetic spiralβoptimal timing is 3-6 months after baseline optimization The shocking statistic: 94% of US adults have mitochondrial dysfunction; only 6% are metabolically healthy π Key Insights: "The sympathetic spiral of doom is a vicious cycle where stress damages mitochondria, which triggers more stress. It's like revving your car engine in a closed garageβpushing harder just makes things worse." "GABA deficiency symptoms include anxiety, depression, insomnia, and tremors. Depression is more likely a GABA deficiency than the serotonin deficiency theory we've relied on despite lack of evidence." "The productivity paradox: doing less with a calmer nervous system produces better results. You can't supplement your way out when you're clamped down in fight-or-flight." "Sleep is the most leveraged cornerstone habit because it forces brutal awareness in the quiet night. It's where detoxification happens via the glymphatic system." "Don't believe everything you thinkβthe survival-focused mind lies. The goal is creating an ecosystem of health, not finding a magic bullet." π‘ Action Steps: Test your GABA system: If GABA supplements help you sleep or reduce anxiety, that's diagnostic information suggesting leaky blood-brain barrierβaddress gut permeability first Implement cornerstone sleep habits: Consistent sleep-wake timing (even weekends), dark room, wind-down routine without alcohol, separate beds if needed for quality sleep Convert glutamate to GABA naturally: Ensure adequate magnesium and B6 (both commonly deficient)βthe glutamine-glutamate-GABA pathway requires these co-factors Use caffeine tactically, not habitually: Recognize the adenosine crush and morning headache trap as signs of tolerance and dependence Wait 3-6 months after baseline optimization before advanced therapies: Hyperbaric oxygen, methylene blue, red light, and sauna work best AFTER stabilizing sympathetic activation π§ Perfect for: Anyone who's "wired but tired," doing more but accomplishing less, stuck in chronic stress with declining energy, struggling with anxiety or insomnia despite trying multiple interventions, experiencing brain fog or mental health issues that might be mitochondrial dysfunction, or dealing with the aftermath of COVID, mold, or Lyme infections. π Mentioned Resources: Dr. Scott Sherr's website: DrScottSherr.com Health Optimization Medicine and Practice: HOPEhope.org Troscriptions products: TRO Calm, TRO Zzz, Just Blue (methylene blue), Blue Canine OneBase Health (technology and software integration) Book: "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg Methylene blue dosing: 4-25mg range for mitochondrial support Natural GABA support: CBD, CBG, CBN, kava, nicotinamide GABA, muscimol π Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting Guest: Dr. Scott Sherr - Integrative Medicine Physician, Health Optimization Medicine and Practice (HOMP) #SympatheticNervousSystem #MitochondrialHealth #ChronicStress #GABASystem #FunctionalMedicine #HealthOptimization #MitochondrialDysfunction #StressManagement #IntegrativeMedicine #BrainHealth #MentalHealth #CellDangerResponse #SleepOptimization #HyperbaricOxygen #MethyleneBlue #GutBrainConnection #LeakyGut #UrbanMonk #Wellness

The Exhaustion Medicine Can't Find
02/12/2025 | 31 mins.
ποΈ Dr. Pedram Shojai addresses one of the most common yet dismissed complaints in modern medicine: chronic fatigue that conventional doctors can't diagnose or explain. He reveals why standard medical tests fail to identify this multi-system breakdown and presents a comprehensive, phased recovery approach spanning 6-24 months. Drawing from his experience treating thousands of patients, Dr. Shojai explains the seven interconnected systems involved in energy productionβfrom mitochondrial function to gut health to nervous system regulationβand why treating just one piece never works. If you've been told "everything looks fine" while feeling bone-deep exhaustion, this roadmap offers the answers conventional medicine can't provide. π― What You'll Learn: The Seven Systems of Energy Production: Mitochondrial function (cellular ATP), HPA axis (stress response), thyroid (metabolic regulation), gut (nutrient absorption), sleep architecture (restoration), inflammation (master disruptor), and nervous system regulation Why standard medical tests miss the real problem: Testing the wrong things, "normal" lab values (bottom 10% of normal still feels terrible), and conventional medicine's single-system focus The Four-Phase Recovery Framework with realistic timelines: Phase 1 Stabilization (10-20% improvement by week 4), Phase 2 Foundation Building (30-50% by week 12), Phase 3 Building Capacity (60-80% by week 24), Phase 4 Optimization (months 6-24+) The Cascade Effect: How chronic stress triggers cortisol dysregulation β poor sleep β inflammation β gut dysfunction β nutrient malabsorption β mitochondrial breakdown β profound fatigue (completing the vicious cycle) Urban Monk Awareness Training: Using interoception, proprioception, and exteroception to read your energy state with sophistication Phase 1 Priority Actions: Sleep architecture stabilization, blood sugar regulation (eat within 1 hour of waking, protein every 3-4 hours), inflammatory load reduction, and nervous system support Critical testing recommendations: Comprehensive thyroid panel (TSH, free T3, free T4, reverse T3), 4-point salivary cortisol, GI Map, food sensitivity testing, RBC magnesium, vitamin D, B12, organic acid tests π Key Insights: "Just because standard tests can't find it doesn't mean it's not real. Chronic fatigue is a multi-system breakdown that conventional medicine isn't designed to see or treat." "Your body is like a child that's been abusedβit's waiting for the next thing to crash it. It doesn't trust you yet after 50 years of being run ragged. Build slowly. Capacity builds at 10% at a time, not 100%." "Nothing heals without sleep. Sleep architecture is the critical foundationβeverything else fails without it." "Your body knows what's wrong; the question is whether you're listening with enough sophistication." "The magic word is lifestyle. You cannot rush this processβrushing causes relapse. Recovery requires 6-24 months of systematic work across all seven systems." π‘ Action Steps: Track daily metrics starting today: Morning energy (1-10), afternoon energy (1-10), sleep quality, digestive function (gas/bloating), brain fog, stress resilience Implement Phase 1 Priority 1: Stabilize sleep architecture with same sleep-wake time (even weekends), magnesium glycinate 300-400mg before bed, no screens one hour before bed Phase 1 Priority 2: Blood sugar regulationβeat within one hour of waking (include protein), never go 3-4 hours without eating, protein with every meal Phase 1 Priority 3: Remove inflammatory triggersβeliminate refined sugar, processed foods, seed oils; trial removal of gluten and dairy for two weeks Get functional medicine testing: Comprehensive thyroid panel, 4-point salivary cortisol, GI Map, food sensitivity testing (like FIT 176 that revealed Gina's bloating causes) π§ Perfect for: Anyone who's been told "everything looks fine" while experiencing bone-deep exhaustion, people who wake up more tired than they went to bed, those dismissed by conventional doctors with normal lab results, anyone experiencing post-exertional malaise or exercise intolerance, or people stuck in the "wired but tired" cycle with cortisol dysregulation. π Mentioned Resources: FIT 176 (Food Inflammation Test) - revealed Gina's bloating causes Testing: Comprehensive thyroid panel, 4-point salivary cortisol, GI Map, Oral Biome analysis, gut permeability, organic acid tests Supplements: Magnesium glycinate (300-400mg), CoQ10 (200-400mg), B-complex (methylated), Alpha lipoic acid (300mg), L-carnitine (500-1000mg), L-glutamine, adaptogens Recent podcast: Mitochondrial function with Dr. Sherr Gene Keys book reading (end of January) - information under "monthly book readings" Documentaries: Interconnected, Gut Check, Gateway to Health π Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting #ChronicFatigue #FunctionalMedicine #EnergyRecovery #GutHealth #MitochondrialHealth #HolisticHealth #RootCause #Fatigue #HealthOptimization #ThyroidHealth #InflammationReduction #SleepOptimization #HPAAxis #StressManagement #FoodSensitivities #LeakyGut #Microbiome #VagusNerve #ChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #UrbanMonk #Wellness



The Urban Monk podcast with Dr. Pedram Shojai