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- Some days, nothing is dramatically wrong, but your brain feels full, your mood is lower, your body feels different and suddenly you start questioning things that were working perfectly well a few days ago.
That’s where I found myself this week.
In this episode, I’m talking about the hormonal pattern I’ve started noticing, alongside all the smaller things quietly taking up space in my brain, and why that combination can make it so tempting to think we need to fix something or push harder.
I talk about decision fatigue, unfinished tasks and attention residue, social media comparison, why data like pace, steps or the scales isn’t always helpful when you’re already feeling rubbish, and how getting thoughts out of your head can make things feel much more manageable.
I also talk about why being able to push harder doesn’t automatically mean that you want the trade-off that comes with it, and why sometimes maintaining what you’re already doing is exactly the right thing to do.
Reflection questions mentioned in this episode:
What’s one small thing I can do now that will mean I’ve had a good day?
How can I make this more enjoyable? What will make it feel better?
What advice would I give to a friend in this situation?
What would not doing it look like?
Were my expectations of today realistic?
What’s something I’ve done today that I’m proud of?
Why am I feeling like this today?
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04/09/2026 | 48 mins.There’s something about September that makes us want to start again. New routines, new goals, a fresh notebook and suddenly we’re ready to sort our lives out.
In this episode, I’m talking about a different way to use that fresh-start feeling. I’m sharing some of the small habits and conditions I use in my own life to make the things I want to do feel easier, from journaling and protecting my time to movement, sleep, food, alcohol and doing more things simply because they make me feel good.
This isn’t a list of things you need to start doing. Pick what resonates, keep it small and start from where you are now.
Ruth MacFit membership is currently open, but doors close on the evening of Monday 7th September.
Join us as we focus on Consistency with the Method throughout September and October.
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Questions? Email ruth@ruthmacfit.com- What if the problem isn’t that you’re inconsistent, but that your definition of consistency is making it almost impossible to succeed?
In this episode, I’m looking at what consistency actually means, why habits can take far longer to build than we expect, and how our circumstances, all-or-nothing thinking and the rules we’ve created about what “counts” can make us feel as though we’re failing when we’re not.
We’ll also talk about the small habits that can have a surprisingly big ripple effect, how to make the things you want to do feel easier, and why getting good at coming back might be one of the most important parts of consistency.
Ruth Mac Fit membership
Doors open to the public on Monday 31st August and close again at 8pm on Monday 7th September.
Throughout September and October, our focus inside the membership is Consistency with the Method, learning how to keep working on your nutrition, movement, strength, mindset and recovery in a way that adapts to real life, rather than expecting every week to look the same.
Find out more and join us:
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www.instagram.com/ruthmacfit - September has a bit of January about it, doesn't it?The kids go back to school, routines start returning and you might find yourself thinking, right, now I'm going to sort myself out.If fat loss is one of your goals, it can be incredibly easy to go from “I'd like to lose some weight” to having a goal weight, a weekly target and a date you're supposed to reach it by. So it's a great time to ask ourselves if it's actually the most useful way to approach it?In this episode, I'm taking a closer look at goal setting, including SMART goals, where they actually came from and what the research tells us about goal setting. More importantly, I'm looking at what this means when your goal is fat loss, fitness or getting stronger and you're trying to make those changes fit into an actual life.We'll talk about why being specific can be really useful when it comes to your actions, why an outcome can give you direction without becoming the only measure of success, and why changing the plan when life changes isn't the same as giving up.I'm also bringing in some of the ideas I've been thinking about while listening to Happy by Derren Brown, The Antidote by Oliver Burkeman and Do Hard Things by Steve Magness, including whether the goals you're pursuing are actually still yours, and why feeling good while you're making changes might matter more than you think. Because ultimately, you can absolutely want to lose weight. It's just that rather than putting all your attention on where you think you should be by a certain date, I want to help you focus on what you can actually do now, how you can make those things easier to keep doing, and how you can adapt and adjust as life happens. Links mentioned in this episode:🍂 Join the Ruth MacFit autumn intake waitlist🥞 Blackberry Crumble Pancake Bowl📱 Find me on InstagramThe autumn intake opens early to the waitlist at the end of August, with 20% off your first month, before we kick off together on 7th September.
- Have you ever felt stuck between being "all in" on a diet and completely giving up?
In this episode, I'm talking about why so many women end up trapped in that cycle, and why the answer isn't another restrictive plan. Instead, we'll explore how to lose fat while still enjoying holidays, social occasions, family meals and real life.
We'll look at:
Why eating less isn't always the answer
The difference between healthy eating and fat loss
Why flexible habits beat rigid rules
What the research tells us about people who lose weight and keep it off
How to build routines that actually fit your life, rather than putting your life on hold
If you're tired of starting again every Monday and want an approach that feels sustainable, realistic and enjoyable, this episode is for you.
For Those of You Who'd Like to Join Us...
If you've been thinking about joining the Ruth MacFit Membership, today is the last day you can join before the doors close for August.
We'll be reopening with our Autumn intake in September, and everyone on the waitlist will receive priority access before places are opened more widely.
🌐 Website: www.ruthmacfit.com
🍂 September Waitlist: https://ruth-mac-fit.myklpages.com/l/Tf5ygk
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📘 Facebook: www.facebook.com/ruthmacfit
Listen to the episode about the habits noticed in the National Weight Control Registry here.
If you've got any questions at all, just send me a message. I'm always happy to help.
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