Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships

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Angela never thought anger was her problem. Then she had two little girls, 15 months apart. One morning her three-year-old yelled back and told her to shut up, and that was the moment she decided something had to change.
In this episode, Alastair sits down with Angela, a mum of two who grew up with a short-tempered father. Three weeks into the Complete Anger Management System, she talks honestly about what has already started to shift.
Angela explains how the stress of a new house, a new baby and a toddler who resented her little sister built up until she was snapping over nothing, why her husband and her brother both raised it before she was ready to hear it, and what surprised her most about the course.
You'll hear why she now sees anger as far more than shouting, including the sharp comments she aimed at the people she loves most. Her husband, a quiet man who doesn't say things for the sake of it, has noticed the difference. Most of all, you'll hear why she is doing this for her two girls, who soak up everything they see.
The Anger Secrets Podcast helps men and women master anger management, parent without losing their temper, break the family anger cycle, and create calmer, happier families.
Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.
It wasn't that bad. Everyone gets angry sometimes. That is what most people tell themselves the morning after losing their temper, and it keeps the real question unanswered. In this episode, Alastair gives a straight answer: five clear signs your anger has crossed the line.
If you've ever gone from calm to furious in seconds, held onto anger for days, or said something to your partner or your kids that you regretted the moment it left your mouth, you're not alone. Most people never get a clear way to judge their own anger.
You'll learn why small triggers like a messy kitchen or a missed call are rarely the real cause, why anger that lingers is a warning sign for your physical health as well as your relationships, and why blaming other people for how you feel keeps you stuck.
Alastair also walks through three everyday situations, a criticised idea in a meeting, a spilled drink, and juice on the couch, so you can see what each sign looks like. But the most important point is this: anger issues are not a life sentence. They are a signal that something needs to change.
The Anger Secrets Podcast helps men and women master anger management, recognise the early signs of anger issues, build emotional self-control, and create calmer, happier relationships.
Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.
Your partner tells you how they handled something at work, and before they've finished the story, you've decided they got it wrong. You don't say it out loud. But they can feel it. In this episode, Alastair explains why judgemental thinking is so hard to switch off, and how to trade quiet criticism for something that actually brings you closer.
If you've ever finished your partner's story in your head, corrected them over something small, or dug in to prove you were right about something that barely mattered, you're not alone. Judging the people closest to us is far more common than most people realise. It also quietly erodes the trust and connection in a relationship.
In this episode, you'll learn three simple tools you can use the next time you catch yourself finding fault. You'll discover where judgemental thinking comes from. Through an ancient Buddhist story about a farmer and his horse, you'll see why things are rarely as good or bad as they seem in the moment, and why the "I'm right, you're wrong" approach always leads to the same place.
The Anger Secrets Podcast helps men and women master anger management, improve healthy conflict resolution, strengthen emotional regulation, and create calmer, happier homes.
Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.
Most people believe their boss, workload or difficult colleagues are causing their anger. But what if that's not actually true? In this episode, Alastair explains what's really driving workplace anger - and how to take back control without changing jobs.
If you've ever left work frustrated, snapped at a colleague, dreaded another meeting, or carried workplace stress home to your family, you're not alone. Workplace anger is far more common than most people realise, but it doesn't have to control your day or your relationships.
In this episode, you'll learn three practical anger management strategies you can use immediately at work. You'll discover why taking a simple 10-second pause interrupts emotional reactions before they become outbursts, how reframing your thinking changes the way you respond to difficult colleagues and demanding managers, and why clear communication is one of the most powerful tools for preventing unnecessary workplace conflict.
Alastair also revisits the DESC communication model and explains how using "I" statements can help you express concerns professionally without creating defensiveness or resentment. Through the story of Tom, you'll see how changing your thinking—not your workplace—can dramatically improve your confidence, relationships, and ability to stay calm under pressure.
The Anger Secrets Podcast helps men and women master anger management, improve healthy conflict resolution, strengthen emotional regulation, and build calmer, happier relationships at work and at home.
Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.
Five weeks earlier, Cyrus believed he was beyond help. His wife was afraid of him. His children were living with the effects of his anger. Today, his family life looks completely different. This is his story.
In this special episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, Alastair sits down with Cyrus, a husband, father and farmer who openly shares how uncontrolled anger nearly destroyed his marriage and family. For years, he believed everyone else caused his anger. He thought losing his temper was simply part of who he was. Everything changed when his wife admitted she no longer felt safe in her own home.
During this honest conversation, Cyrus explains why asking for help was the hardest decision he ever made, the biggest breakthroughs he experienced inside the Complete Anger Management System, and how learning to take responsibility completely changed the way he relates to his wife, children and the people around him.
You'll hear how the Tension Scale transformed arguments at home, why he stopped blaming other people for his emotions, and how his children began trusting him again. Most importantly, you'll hear the small moments that prove real change has happened. His wife plays music around the house again. His children now come to him with their problems instead of hiding from him. Arguments no longer end with shouting or slammed doors. If you've ever wondered whether it's really possible to change after years of anger, Cyrus's story is living proof that it is.
The Anger Secrets Podcast helps men and women master anger management, rebuild trust after anger, strengthen relationships and create calmer, happier families.
Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.