149. Overcoming Shame as a Parent w/ Louis Weinstock
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we talk with Louis Weinstock, a seasoned child psychotherapist and author. This discussion centers on overcoming shame and guilt in parenting, the importance of parental healing, and the impact of unresolved traumas on children. Louis shares personal experiences and professional insights on being a present and effective parent. We also delve into the roles of fathers, the concept of divine masculinity, and the importance of congruence and presence for children's psychological well-being. The episode concludes with a focus on daily acts of love and practical advice for parents to be more present with their children.00:00 Introduction00:41 Introduction to Bridging Connections01:32 Meet Louis: Child Psychotherapist and Author02:52 The Journey of Fatherhood03:36 Navigating Grief and Loss07:07 The Protector Role in Parenting16:49 Healing and Emotional Presence33:25 Emotional Breakthrough in a Singing Workshop34:16 The Last Barrier for Men: Fear35:04 Expressing Emotions: Anger, Fear, and Sadness37:20 The Role of Fathers and the Impact of Guilt39:05 Boys' Sensitivity and Cultural Conditioning40:19 Defining Positive Masculinity49:48 Bridging Connections Between Parents59:56 The Importance of Presence in Parenting01:02:35 ConclusionConnect with Louis:• Website: https://louisweinstock.com/Connect with Bryan & Tait:• Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
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148. Rising Woman: From Trauma to Transformation w/ Sheleana Aiyana
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman. Sheleana takes on her journey from tumultuous upbringing and traumatic relationships to her spiritual and healing path. Sheleana shares profound experiences from ayahuasca ceremonies and the importance of working through personal wounds to foster healthy relationships. We touch on the challenges men and women face in understanding each other's experiences and the significance of mutual vulnerability and support in partnerships. Sheleana dives into the need for self-healing and becoming 'the one' rather than seeking someone to complete us. 00:00 Introduction to Episode00:34 Welcome to Bridging Connections01:17 Rebranding the Podcast02:27 Introducing Sheleana04:40 Men and Relationship Anxiety06:59 Challenges in Male-Female Dynamics11:59 Founding Struggles of Rising Woman18:02 Spiritual Path vs. Healing Path24:31 Becoming the One29:18 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships29:41 The Importance of Healing Work30:49 The 10-Year Relationship Journey34:40 Understanding Safety in Relationships35:49 Ayahuasca and Profound Healing42:15 Building Trust and Healing with Men52:43 Steps to Self-Discovery and Healing54:28 Final ThoughtsConnect with Sheleana:• Website: https://risingwoman.com/ / https://sheleanaaiyana.com/• Instagram: @sheleanaaiyanaConnect with Bryan & Tait:• Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
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147. The 5 Stages of Male Growth (and How They Impact Women) w/ Alison Armstrong
In this episode, we welcome back relationship expert Alison Armstrong. We explore the profound journey of male development, the transition from knights to princes and eventually kings. We delve into the concept of 'the tunnel,' a challenging phase between princehood and kingship marked by self-awareness, shame, and the necessity of personal responsibility and forgiveness. Alison also touches on the deeply complex and often interconnected dynamics of male ambition, fulfillment, and the need for adventure. We extend to the rare shift some men make from kings to elders, highlighting significant changes in ambition and responsibility. Today on Bridging Connections:00:00 Introduction: Self-Betrayal and Shame00:38 Welcome to Bridging Connections01:10 Reintroducing Alison Armstrong01:55 Understanding the Tunnel03:03 Stages of Men's Development03:49 Navigating the Tunnel23:29 The Importance of Adventure31:15 The Prince Stage38:07 Anticipation and Initial Reflections38:56 Navigating Personal Loss and Challenges40:35 Understanding the Tunnel of Transformation41:11 Self-Betrayal and Awareness49:07 The Role of Shame and Anger49:51 Ownership and Forgiveness55:28 Emerging from the Tunnel58:18 Grieving and Moving Forward01:00:54 Transitioning to Elderhood01:11:21 Final Thoughts and ResourcesResources:Alison Armstrong: Chemistry and Connection Series - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3kRxLdJODq54hzbmGHKz5VhTQun5bQuy&feature=sharedConnect with Alison:• Website: alisonarmstrong.com• Youtube Channel: AlisonArmstrongVideos• Resources: Sample Understanding WomenConnect with Bryan & Tait:• Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
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146. The Way of the Satisfied Woman w/ Alanna Kaivalya
"Satisfaction is the pleasure derived from the fulfillment of wishes and needs".- Alanna KaivalyaToday on Bridging Connections:00:00 Welcome & Co-host Introduction01:14 Introducing Guest Dr. Alana Cavalia03:12 Discussing "The Way of the Satisfied Woman"04:16 Exploring Redefined Masculinity05:11 The Need to Reclaim Femininity06:13 Cultural Teachings on Feminine Power08:11 Addressing Repression of Feminine Qualities10:22 Importance of Intuition11:59 Feminine Power and Societal Impact14:55 Success versus Satisfaction17:07 Definition and Discussion of Satisfaction20:12 Critique of Success Drive21:25 Feminine Approach to Life and Satisfaction22:11 Enhancing Comfort and Feminine Questions23:09 Mother's Happiness and Family Dynamics24:13 Jungian Psychology and Feminine Energy28:10 Safety, Trust, and Feminine Expression29:01 Masculine World Challenges for Feminine Expression30:56 Importance of Community and Empathy31:22 Insights on Relationship Longevity32:31 Challenges in Articulating Needs33:19 Advice for Men on Emotional Support33:58 The Role of Intuition in Personal Growth36:51 Importance of Trusting Intuition37:15 Intuition in Relationships38:12 Leveraging Intuition in Adverse Environments40:21 Self-Intimacy and External Validation41:13 Masculine and Feminine Energy Collaboration41:48 Trust in Partner’s Intuition42:27 Burnout in High-Performance Roles43:39 Women as Nurturing Sources and the Need for Reciprocity45:02 Personal Story of Maternal Dedication46:28 Empowering Women to Say No47:58 Childhood Wounds and Feminine Healing49:02 Devaluation of Feminine Qualities49:41 Training and Conditioning of Young Girls50:14 Men’s Role in Supporting Feminine Reclamation51:58 The Importance of Community for Women53:04 Overcoming Narrative of Competition Among Women54:24 Historical Undermining of Family Systems55:56 Closing Thoughts and Final QuestionsConnect with Alanna:Website: www.thesatisfiedwoman.com Order: The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming The Feminine PowerFree resources: www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme Download the App: The Satisfied WomanSubscribe to: @TheSatisfiedWomanConnect with Bryan & Tait:Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
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145. What Women Don’t Get About Men (But Should) w/ Alison Armstrong
"Men often use 'safe' to describe someone they can openly talk to, showing their deep but often hidden need for trust and vulnerability." Alison ArmstrongToday on Bridging Connections:00:00 Welcome & Introduction01:00 Alison Armstrong's Impact on Bryan's Relationship Journey01:54 Longing for Elder Wisdom03:39 How Alison’s Journey with Men Began05:07 Becoming a "Frog Farmer" – Transforming Men09:44 The Power of Listening and Understanding Men13:33 The Well of Men's Emotional Responses14:14 Men and Congruency: Understanding Commitment17:09 Differences in Male and Female Communication Styles19:10 The Attention Women Crave from Men21:52 Safety, Security, and Connection in Relationships25:46 The Emotional Depth of Men: What It Means to Be “Safe”29:28 Asking for Connection and Attention in Relationships31:48 Men Are Like Icebergs: Emotions and Depth Below the Surface34:12 Women’s Desire for Men to Feel Desired43:18 The Problem with Labeling in Relationships47:16 Rethinking Relationships: The Instance of Being Related54:16 How to Be in the Moment: Being, Listening, and Speaking58:35 Women's Instinct to Speak for Safety01:02:26 Alison's Resources and Final ThoughtsConnect with Alison:Website: alisonarmstrong.comResources: Sample Understanding Women Subscribe to: alisonarmstrongvideosConnect with Bryan & Tait:Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
Welcome to Bridging Connections, formerly known as "Men This Way." Join your host Bryan Reeves —former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author and professional coach to men, women, and couples; along with his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend. Together, they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to engage in about relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into discussions that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.
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