Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST

Does winter make you crave intimacy more?


Does cold weather make sex hotter… or loneliness louder?


Do partnered guys feel pressure to perform romance?


Do single guys feel invisible?

Have you ever scheduled a hookup on Valentine’s Day on purpose?
Valentine’s Day can amplify:


Body image insecurity


Couple envy


“Why am I still single?”


Fear of aging alone

Hot Topic: Removal of the the Pride flag at the Stonewall Monument by the Trump administration will be restored today at 4PM ET on Thursday February 12, 2026.

Hot Topic: Sean Cody Model Eddie Burke as well as others arrested for drug trafficking on a recent gay cruise...

Hot Topic: Florida backtracks on HIV funding cuts for now...

Hot Topic: From Boyfriend to Betrayal....calling ICE on his boyfriend after 20 years of being together...

Hot Topic: One gay content creator tells us his least favorite spots to travel and why and we're celebrating 50 Years of Island House!

Advice: Is it too much to bring flowers to someone you've been Facetiming with for your first date?

Thirst Trap: Which 13 NSFW performers took the hottest pic of the week?

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How Pillion has reignited curiosity about the leather daddy archetype — and what that reveals about visibility, stereotypes, and lived experience in the broader leather and kink communities.

We're talking about the premise of the Dom/Sub storyline as well as talking about the history of the leather community

The hosts share personal stories of their involvement in the BDSM community and what it means to them

Mainstream audiences are encountering leather/BDSM dynamics very openly — in a rom-com-ish, kink-positive story.

How narratives around power, identity, sexuality, and aging intersect in queer spaces.

Hot Topic: We break down the Super Bowl halftime show!

Hot Topic: We're talking the Winter Olympics and 'penis gate' and Gus Kenworthy pees on ice to protest ICE

Hot Topic: The controversy of a leaked email to instructors at Barry's Boot Camp about how to deal with ICE...

Advice: Not feeling enough and having the feeling to compete with other body types we see on social media...

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What used to turn you on that now feels toxic?


How do you define healthy desire now?


Have your patterns in love changed?

What does ‘hot’ feel like when you’re fully present?

What does sex feel like when it’s no longer about validation?

Hot Topic: $350 per month for the new Edge tier on Grindr???

Hot Topic: 16k Floridians expected to lose HIV meds?

Hot Topic: New data shows gay and bi people don't live as long as our counterparts...

Hot Topic: Not everyone wants kids...we discuss

Advice to listener: Listener has MS and recently broke up with partner and isn't interested in being friends...

Advice: Only interested in hooking up after spending some time with the person first...

Thirst Trap: First of the year and we're picking who took the hottest NSFW image this wee!

Visit: Feb 5 - Feb. 17 Get 20% Off Steve V's new app - Studio.com/stevev for the website version and visit the app version: Studio.com/stevev/connect
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Outgrowing Your Sexual Persona

Who were you when you first came out sexually? The hosts discuss...

What labels did you grow into that no longer feel true?

What parts of your sexuality have evolved with age?

What messages did you internalize about aging as a gay man?

What does sexy look like now vs 10 years ago?

Sex Work, Power & Self-Expression

Hot Topic: The Grammy's! We breakdown from the performances to who wore what...

Hot Topic: Would you choose an app that organizes dinner parties with queer strangers?

Hot Topic: The tale of the lesbian who drove 10 miles to spend a week with someone they met online...

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What are some default settings gay men are taught?


Chase validation


Separate sex from emotion


Confuse chaos with chemistry


Avoid vulnerability


Use apps for distraction instead of connection


Treat intimacy as weakness


Perform confidence instead of build it

When our internal system needs a reboot

The hosts share how they are rebooting both sexually and in their relationships...

Hot Topic: Potential lawsuit for OF?

Hot Topic: Ashton Kutcher on being called 'too fat' by Tom Ford...

Hot Topic: Deviant Events isn't allowed to promote events on Meta...

Hot Topic: Opinion on Karamo Brown and his choice not to show up...

Hot Topic: Nicki Minaj is Team Trump!

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