Retreats, Rules & Real Love: A 15-Year Journey Beyond Monogamy
What happens when a longtime marriage says “yes” to curiosity? In this candid convo, Freddy and Andi share how a flirt turned into a slow, consent-first path to non-monogamy and how they “accidentally” became poly. We dig into the real stuff: jealousy and the fear of being replaced, what “check-ins” actually mean (hint: eye contact isn’t enough), and why emotional regulation beats willpower when the feelings get loud. They open up about past secrecy, rebuilding trust, discovering compersion, and why retreats (hello, Expansive Connection) gave them tools that parties never could. Expect practical takeaways on requests vs. mind-reading, setting pace without pressure, navigating separate dates, and creating love that expands, without losing “my person.”Featuring:Freddy & Andy’s 15-year journey from “big no” to sustainable polyThe exact check-in framework that stopped spiralsLessons from men’s/women’s circles, real-time coaching, and a regulation breakthroughHot-wife dynamics, long-term girlfriend logistics, and staying special while sharingIf you’re opening up, curious about poly, or healing after a breach, this episode is your field guide to honest rules, softer landings, and deeper love.Naughty Gym Info-Website: https://www.naughtygym.com/Events: https://www.naughtygym.com/ng-eventsDevious Dragonfly:https://www.deviousdragonfly.com/Expansive Connection:https://www.expansiveconnection.com/
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Celibate Swingers: Why Some People Need More Than Sex
In this playful and thought-provoking episode, Scott and April explore one of the most surprising dynamics in the lifestyle: choosing connection over sex. With their friends Dave and Andi, hosts of Tales of The Lastborns, they discuss topics as varied as “blue-ball moments” at full resort takeovers to the deeper reasons why some swingers deliberately opt for fewer play sessions, at least for a season. This conversation is equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. They share details about upcoming Naughty Gym events (Jamaica takeover, El Salvador retreat, and even a Barcelona adventure) while reflecting on the tension between sexual freedom and the power of saying “not tonight.” This one will make you laugh, think, and maybe rethink what intimacy really means. Naughty Gym Info-Website: https://www.naughtygym.com/ Events: https://www.naughtygym.com/ng-events Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/naughty-gym-show-intersection-of-non-monogamy-wellness/id1701360007 Tales Of The Lastborns- Website: https://talesofthelastborns.com/ Podcast: https://talesofthelastborns.buzzsprout.com/follow
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Love On The Spectrum: Neurodivergence in Non-Monogamy
In this raw and hilarious episode, April and Scott sit down with their dear friend Roderick — filmmaker of Open: A Journey Through Love — to explore the intersections of neurodivergence and non-monogamy. From awkward flirting misfires to the surprising superpowers of direct communication, the three share personal stories about autism, sensory overwhelm, compersion, and why neurodivergent lovers might just be the best in bed. If you’ve ever wondered how differently-wired brains navigate open relationships, this one will open your eyes, your heart, and maybe even your bedroom.Learn about Roderick's documentary, Open: A Journey Through LoveLearn about Naughty Gym Come Party & Travel with us!
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Naughty Gym Goes To Portland: Recapping Our First Lifestyle Meetup at Sauvie Island & Club Privata
What happens when Naughty Gym hands over the reins for the very first time? In this episode, Scott (“The Coyote Whisperer”) and April sit down with coaches Matt & Cara to unpack the very first PNW Naughty Gym meetup in Portland, Oregon.The day started at Sauvie Island’s clothing optional beach and ended with a packed Naughty Gym takeover at Club Pravada — one of Portland’s most iconic lifestyle clubs. Nearly 300 people showed up, proving that connection-focused events are exactly what the sex-positive community is craving.You’ll hear:The nerves (and pride) of letting others host a Naughty Gym eventWhy connection-first events change the lifestyle experienceBehind-the-scenes of hosting at Club Pravada PortlandThe magic of Sauvie Island and authentic community buildingWhy friendships make the lifestyle more fun (and more meaningful)👉 Want the After Chat with the spicier details? Join us inside the Naughty Gym Lounge at https://www.naughtygym.com.🏝️ Come travel with us! See your entire event schedule: https://www.naughtygym.com/ng-events
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Who Do You Think You Aren't - Boundaries, Self-Trust, & The Power Of The Non-Monogamous Pause
In this powerful episode, April and Scott open up about two months of unexpected personal chaos—and the tools that got them through it. From setting firm family boundaries to rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, they explore how to protect your peace without shutting down or giving up. April shares the story behind a life-changing letter she wrote to her brothers, the surprising fallout, and why pausing—even in non-monogamy—can be the healthiest move. They dive into the struggle of being the family fixer, the trap of overgiving, and the question at the heart of it all: Who do you think you aren’t… to deserve peace, trust, and space to be yourself? You’ll also hear: • How to nurture yourself when you’re always the nurturer • Why intuition matters (and how to listen without self-doubt) • The real impact of setting boundaries in open relationships • What to do when the people you love disappoint you Whether you’re juggling relationships, caregiving, or just trying to find your center again—this episode offers raw honesty, laughter, and some hard-earned wisdom. 📍 Join the community at naughtygym.com 📅 See upcoming events, meetups & retreats Men's & Women's Retreat Details: 📍 November 13–16 | Smoky Mountains: - 👯♀️ For women at any stage: peri, post, or somewhere in between 🙋🏻♂️ For men: Mancation Mountain JOIN NAUGHTY GYM'S COMMUNITYUPCOMING EVENTS
About NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, and Living Well
We are April and Scott, creators of NaughtyGym.com and this is the Naughty Gym Show.
For years we’ve been fitness and nutrition coaches to thousands of people through our commercial gyms and online platform. We’ve also spent nearly a decade in an ever-evolving, open relationship.
This show brings together our two biggest passions, fitness and sex positivity. Our mission is to maximize the physical, emotional, and sexual health of the sex positive community.
We have demolished our old ways of thinking about relationships and from that rubble built a life full of happiness, adventure, and vitality. And now we want to help you do the same.
So hop on the treadmill, start the show, and let us teach you how to Never Stop Playing.
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