ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

• Emptying Out: A Guide to Emotional Release by Dr David Marcus

  Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes back Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist specializing in families under stress. Dr. Marcus discusses the concept of a 'soothing presence' and the process of 'emptying out' emotions, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional communication with children. He explains the three levels of emotional intensity: the logical here-and-now, the history level, and the tapped-into level, and how these need to be addressed for effective communication. The conversation also touches on the cultural and familial influences on emotional intelligence and the importance of validating feelings in relationships.Keywordsparenting, emotional communication, soothing presence, emptying out, emotional intelligence, family stress, Dr. David Marcus, James Moffitt, podcast, relationshipsTakeawaysA soothing presence is someone who is okay when you're not.Emotional communication involves understanding three levels: logical, history, and tapped-into.Emptying out emotions requires addressing all three levels for effective communication.Cultural and familial influences shape emotional intelligence.Validating feelings is crucial in relationships.Men often struggle with emotional expression due to cultural norms.Parents should avoid trying to 'make' children feel better, instead allowing them to express emotions.Children learn emotional resilience by observing adult interactions.Opposites attract in relationships, allowing partners to soothe each other.Effective communication involves both partners feeling heard and understood.Sound bitesA soothing presence is key.Emptying out emotions is essential.Validate feelings for better relationships.Men struggle with emotional expression.Children learn from adult interactions.Opposites attract in soothing relationships.Cultural norms shape emotional intelligence.Effective communication needs understanding.Parents shouldn't force emotions.Emotional resilience starts young.Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Understanding Soothing Presence00:00:00 Emptying Out Process00:00:00 Cultural and Familial Influences00:00:01 Validating Feelings in Relationships00:00:01 Conclusion and Book PromotionWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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• The Emotional Side of Money: A Conversation with John Hankins

  Send us a textIn this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt talks with John Hankins, a certified financial therapist and licensed social worker. They discuss the importance of financial literacy for young adults, the emotional connections to money, and the challenges parents face when supporting adult children financially. John shares insights on budgeting, saving, and managing credit, while James reflects on his own financial journey and the lessons learned from his parents.Keywordsfinancial literacy, adult children, budgeting, saving, credit management, financial therapy, emotional connections, retirement planning, financial stress, financial educationTakeawaysFinancial literacy is crucial for young adults to manage their future effectively.Parents should lead by example in teaching financial management to their children.Understanding emotional connections to money can improve financial decision-making.Budgeting and saving are foundational skills for financial stability.Credit management is essential to avoid long-term debt issues.Parents often face challenges when financially supporting adult children.Retirement planning requires careful consideration of long-term financial needs.Financial therapy can help individuals and couples manage financial stress.The financial markets' volatility requires a balanced and informed approach.Open communication about money can strengthen family relationships.Sound bites"Financial literacy is crucial for young adults.""Lead by example in financial management.""Emotional connections to money matter.""Budgeting is a foundational skill.""Credit management is essential.""Supporting adult children is challenging.""Plan carefully for retirement needs.""Financial therapy can ease stress.""Market volatility requires balance.""Communication strengthens family ties."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:00 Understanding Financial Therapy00:00:00 Financial Literacy for Young Adults00:00:00 Challenges of Supporting Adult Children00:00:01 Retirement Planning and Market Volatility00:00:01 Emotional Connections to MoneyWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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• Empowering Special Needs: Strategies for Success

  Send us a textKeywordsparenting, adult children, special needs, educational strategies, advocacy, learning disabilities, multi-sensory learning, success stories, self-care, diagnosisSummaryIn this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Emily Levy about the unique challenges and strategies involved in parenting adult children with special needs. They discuss the evolution of educational strategies, the importance of advocacy, and the role of multi-sensory learning techniques. Dr. Levy shares success stories and emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents, as well as the need for proper diagnosis and support for children with learning disabilities.TakeawaysParents are their child's best advocates.Educational strategies for special needs have evolved positively.Multi-sensory learning techniques can significantly aid learning.It's crucial for parents to empower their children towards independence.Success stories can provide hope for parents of special needs children.Self-care is essential for parents of children with special needs.Understanding specific learning disabilities is key to providing support.Advocacy in higher education settings is vital for student success.Parents should seek available resources both in and out of school.Every child has the potential to thrive with the right support.Sound bites"Every child has gifts and strengths.""Taking care of oneself is so important.""Don't just sit back, take action!"Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children02:53 Understanding Special Needs and Educational Strategies05:45 Advocacy in Higher Education for Special Needs08:40 Multi-Sensory Learning Techniques11:42 Navigating Challenges and Success Stories14:53 Identifying Learning Disabilities17:33 Final Thoughts and ResourcesWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildrenSupport the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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• Navigating Disability Advocacy with John Fela and Katy Moffitt

  Send us a textIn this episode of ADC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt is joined by John Fela and Katy Moffitt to discuss the challenges and experiences of parenting children with disabilities. John shares his journey as a parent of a nonverbal autistic son, highlighting the fears and realities of finding suitable care and community for his child. Katy, with her extensive experience in special education, adds insights into the educational needs and social dynamics of children with disabilities. The conversation delves into the importance of community support, the role of churches in disability ministry, and the need for awareness and acceptance in society.Keywordsparenting, disability advocacy, autism, special education, community support, church ministry, awareness, acceptance, nonverbal communication, special needsTakeawaysJohn Fela describes himself as the 'Swiss Army knife of disability advocacy.'John's son, Chris, is nonverbal and autistic, requiring specialized care.Katy has over 25 years of experience in special education.The importance of finding a supportive community for families with disabilities.Challenges in finding suitable educational and living environments for children with disabilities.The role of churches in providing support and inclusion for families with disabilities.John emphasizes the need for awareness and acceptance in society.The fear of the future and loneliness as a parent of a child with disabilities.The significance of communication tools like TouchChat for nonverbal individuals.John's advocacy work includes writing, speaking, and creating support groups for fathers.Title OptionsNavigating Disability Advocacy with John FelaParenting Challenges: A Journey with John and KatyBuilding Community Support for Special Needs FamiliesThe Role of Churches in Disability MinistryJohn Fela: A Voice for Disability AdvocacyUnderstanding Autism: Insights from John FelaSpecial Education and Parenting: Katy's PerspectiveCreating Inclusive Communities for DisabilitiesJohn Fela's Advocacy JourneySupporting Nonverbal Communication in AutismSound bitesSwiss Army knife of disability advocacyFear of the future and lonelinessImportance of community supportRole of churches in inclusionAwareness and acceptance in societyNonverbal communication toolsChallenges in special educationBuilding support groups for fathersNavigating disability advocacyCreating inclusive communitiesChapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions00:00:00 John Fela's Advocacy Journey00:00:00 Parenting a Nonverbal Autistic Child00:00:01 Educational and Living Challenges Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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• Lessons from 'Girl in the Spotlight' with Angie Mizzell

  Send us a textIn this episode of the Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes guest Angie Mizzell, an author and former television journalist. They discuss Angie's journey from a successful career in TV journalism to becoming a storyteller and podcaster, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and personal growth. The conversation touches on parenting challenges, the need for self-care, and the evolving dynamics of parent-child relationships. Angie shares insights from her memoir, "Girl in the Spotlight," and the lessons learned from her own parenting experiences.KeywordsParenting, Adult Children, Authenticity, Personal Growth, Self-Care, Memoir, Storytelling, TV Journalism, Angie Mizzell, James MoffittTakeawaysAuthenticity is key to personal growth.Parenting requires constant adaptation.Self-care is essential for parents.Storytelling can inspire and connect people.External validation should not define self-worth.Parent-child relationships evolve over time.Leaving a career can lead to new opportunities.Personal experiences shape our parenting style.Listening is crucial in relationships.Safe spaces foster open conversations.Title OptionsNavigating Parenthood with Angie MizzellFrom TV Journalist to StorytellerThe Journey of Authentic ParentingBalancing Career and Family LifeLessons from 'Girl in the Spotlight'Embracing Change and GrowthThe Power of Storytelling in ParentingFinding Your True SelfCreating Safe Spaces for DialogueThe Evolving Parent-Child DynamicSound bites"Authenticity is key to growth." "Parenting requires adaptation." "Self-care is essential for parents." "Storytelling inspires and connects." "Validation shouldn't define self-worth." "Relationships evolve over time." "Leaving a career opens doors." "Experiences shape parenting style." "Listening is crucial in relationships." "Safe spaces foster open conversations."Chapters00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:00:00 Angie's Career Transition00:00:00 Parenting Challenges and Insights00:00:01 The Role of Storytelling00:00:01 Memoir and Personal Growth00:00:01 Conclusion and ReflectionsWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren Listen here for our sponsors list. Many thanks to them for helping to underwrite the costs of producing this podcast. Support the showSocial Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@JamesMoffitt https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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