SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

"You're not lost. You're simply outgrowing the life that no longer fits who you're becoming."
What do you do when your life looks fine on the outside  but something inside you knows it no longer fits?
There are moments in life where nothing is obviously "wrong," yet everything feels slightly off. The things that once excited you no longer move you. The roles you've been playing feel heavier. And a quiet voice within begins to ask deeper questions you can't ignore. In this episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson explores one of the most misunderstood phases of growth the space between who you've been and who you're becoming.
This isn't a breakdown. It's a transition. And yet, it can feel confusing, isolating, and even unsettling. You may find yourself questioning your path, your relationships, or your sense of purpose without having clear answers about what comes next. Kute unpacks why this stage feels the way it does, how familiar patterns and internal resistance can keep you stuck, and what's really happening beneath the surface when your old life starts to lose its meaning.
More importantly, this episode offers a grounded, practical roadmap for navigating this in-between space with clarity and trust. Rather than rushing to fix the discomfort or force immediate answers, you'll learn how to recognize the deeper invitation within it and begin taking small, aligned steps toward what is emerging.
If you've been feeling restless, disconnected, or like you no longer fit into your own life, this conversation will help you understand why and show you how to move forward without losing yourself in the process.
Timestamps
(00:00:55) - When your life no longer feels like you
(00:04:08) - The hidden "in-between" phase of transformation
(00:04:54) - The ego's subtle ways of keeping you stuck
(00:05:58) - The roadmap to release and realignment
(00:07:56) - Why this isn't a breakdown; it's your becoming
Some Questions I Ask
What in my life no longer feels aligned with who I am becoming?
Where am I staying out of comfort instead of truth?
What am I pretending not to know right now?
What am I afraid might happen if I let go?
What is one small step I can take toward the life I truly want?
 In This Episode, You'll Learn:
Why feeling "off" can actually be a sign of growth.
The hidden stage between who you were and who you're becoming.
How your ego tries to keep you stuck (and how to recognize it).
The 5-step process to move through this transition with clarity and trust.
Why letting go comes before clarity, not after.
How to take aligned action without blowing up your entire life.
Get in Touch:
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Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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You don't feel free, not because of your life, but because of the patterns you learned to survive it."
What if the reason you don't feel free… has nothing to do with your circumstances?
In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with Nicole LePera to reveal how your inner child is still shaping your sense of safety, control, and freedom.
You may be doing everything right… yet still feel tense, on edge, or unable to fully relax. This conversation uncovers why: part of you is still responding to life from the past.
Through the lens of the inner child, Nicole explains how patterns like overthinking, people-pleasing, and control were learned early on to help you feel safe and how they continue to run your life today.
Those patterns once protected you.
But they may now be limiting you.
If you've ever felt like something inside you won't let you fully feel at ease…
or like you keep repeating the same emotional cycles; this episode will help you see it clearly.
 
Timestamps
(00:02:47) – The real issue: why you don't feel free (beyond circumstances)
(00:04:12) – How your body learned safety through survival
(00:06:05) – Conditioning: how your early environment shaped you
(00:08:30) – Living in subtle anxiety (even when life is "fine")
(00:10:18) – Why you keep looking outside to feel okay
(00:12:41) – Control, hyper-awareness, and nervous system patterns
(00:15:06) – The identity you built to survive
(00:18:22) – Recognizing patterns vs. thinking your way out
(00:22:48) – Awareness as the doorway to real change
(00:27:15) – Reconnecting with safety within (closing insight)
Questions I Ask
What if your lack of freedom has nothing to do with your life?
Are you actually safe… or just used to surviving?
Why does your body stay on edge even when nothing is wrong?
What are you still trying to control just to feel okay?
Who would you be if you didn't need life to go a certain way?
Are you ready to see the pattern that's been running you?
In This Episode, You'll Learn
Why nothing in your life will fix how you feel (and never will)
The real reason you're still anxious, even when everything is "fine"
How your body is addicted to survival mode (and you don't even see it)
Why your need for control is actually keeping you stuck
The hidden pattern running your life on autopilot
What it actually takes to break free (and why most people never do)
 
Get in Touch:
Create a life that is a masterpiece.
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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Nicole lePera
https://theholisticpsychologist.com/

"The moment you stop chasing control… you start experiencing peace."
What if peace isn't something you find… but something you return to?
In this eye-opening episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson challenges the way you've been chasing calm in a world built on noise, speed, and constant stimulation.
Most people aren't truly at peace, they're distracted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from themselves. And the more they try to control life, the further peace seems to slip away.
Kute reveals a powerful truth: peace isn't the absence of chaos; it's your ability to stay rooted within it.
Through simple, practical shifts like breathing, slowing down, and observing your thoughts, you'll learn how to reconnect with the one place peace has always lived: within you.
If life feels like "too much" lately, this episode will help you reset, refocus, and come back to center.
Timestamps
(00:00:58) –  A question that stops you in your tracks: When did you last feel real peace?
(00:04:08) –  Why most people are living in constant low-grade anxiety
(00:05:30) –  The hidden habit that disconnects you every single morning
(00:08:45) –  The biggest lie about peace (and what it actually is)
(00:14:02) –  The shift: stop searching outside, start returning within
(00:15:05) –  The fastest way to calm your mind in the middle of chaos
(00:30:41) –  The truth about your thoughts and why they're exhausting you
Questions I Ask
Are you truly at peace… or just constantly distracted?
Is your need for control actually creating more anxiety?
When was the last time you fully experienced the present moment?
What if the stress you feel isn't from life but from disconnection?
Are you observing your thoughts… or being controlled by them? 
In This Episode, You'll Learn
How to access peace immediately; no matter what's happening around you
The subtle daily patterns that keep you stuck in stress and overwhelm
A simple breathing reset that can shift your entire state in minutes
How to create space between you and your thoughts (without fighting them)
Why slowing down is the ultimate advantage in a fast, chaotic world
Get in Touch:
Create a life that is a masterpiece.
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.kuteblackson.com
Get your free gift on: www.eightlevelsofgratitude.com

"The pain you're trying to escape might be the purpose you're meant to live."
In this powerful Soultalk episode, Kute sits down with  the visionary, entrepreneur, philanthropist, Co-founder of Paul Mithcell Sytems, John Paul DeJoria. He doesn't just talk about purpose like a slogan, he talks about it like a man who earned it. In this Soul talk episode, he shares the real story behind sleeping in his car, getting fired multiple times, and building Paul Mitchell into a global empire without losing his humanity, his faith, or his heart.
What makes this conversation different is how practical it is. JP breaks down how purpose often reveals itself through rejection, how to keep moving when everything collapses, and why your "worst moments" may be the exact training ground you'll someday use to lift others. This isn't motivational fluff, it's a lived philosophy forged in hardship.
If you've ever felt lost, behind, rejected, or afraid to start because you don't have a perfect plan… this is the reset you didn't know you needed. JP's message is simple: your purpose isn't to avoid failure, it's to learn, rise, and give back with what you've lived.
TIMESTAMPS
(00:00:00) – The moment everything fell apart… and why it changed everything.
(00:02:18) – Homeless and sleeping in his car: the decision that kept him going.
(00:05:40) – Fired again and again; why rejection became his greatest advantage,
(00:09:05) – The mindset shift that turns rock bottom into momentum.
(00:12:30) – The "rejection formula" that builds unstoppable resilience.
(00:16:10) – Why most people stay stuck (and the habit you need to drop today).
(00:19:45) – How to move forward fast without carrying your past.
(00:23:20) – Where the real opportunities are right now (and how to see them).
(00:27:05 – What success really means and why most people get it wrong.
(00:31:10) – The final message: why your story is bigger than you think
Some Questions I Ask:
What if the worst thing that ever happened to you is actually preparing you for your life's work?
How do you keep going when every door keeps closing and nothing seems to work?
Are you holding onto a past that's silently blocking your future?
What if rejection isn't stopping you… but trying to redirect you?
Where are the real opportunities right now and why are most people missing them?
What would change if success wasn't about what you get… but who you become?
In this episode, you will learn:
How purpose evolves over time and why not knowing your purpose yet doesn't mean you're behind
The "rejection mindset" that builds unstoppable resilience (and how to stay enthusiastic on the next "door")
How to move forward fast by dropping the past and the one mental habit that keeps people stuck
​Where the real opportunities are right now for entrepreneurs
​JP's definition of success that changes everything
Get in Touch:
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Create a life that is a masterpiece.

Join me on a life-changing journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
 
What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU



Email: [email protected]
Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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