SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

"Your problems are not in the way. They are the way."
Have you ever done everything you could to make life work out, only to watch things fall apart anyway? A dream that didn't happen. A relationship that ended. A season when you couldn't see how things would ever get better.
What if you're not as far off track as you think?
In this conversation, Mike Dooley shares how one of the lowest points in his life became the beginning of something he couldn't have planned. He reminds us that we don't have to know exactly how our dreams will come true or understand why certain things happen to keep moving toward a life we love.
Sometimes, the thing you're calling a setback is opening a door you can't see yet. Sometimes, the next step is simply to keep going, even when you're scared and unsure.
If life isn't turning out the way you expected, this conversation is a reminder that you may not need to figure everything out today. You just need to stay open to what's still possible.
TIMESTAMPS
(00:03:38)— Why Your Dreams May Not Be Manifesting
(00:09:23) — Do Your Thoughts Really Shape Your Reality?
(00:11:16) — Stop Micromanaging Your Dreams
(00:13:30) — Know Your Wows. Forget the Hows.
(00:22:59) — Fake It Till You Make It: Turning Vision Into Action
(00:26:59) — Why You Must Move Before You Have All the Answers
(00:39:01) — Your Problems Aren't in the Way. They're the Way.
(00:41:33) — When Life Falls Apart: The Beginning of a New Reality
SOME QUESTIONS I ASK
Why do some things fail to manifest even when we do everything we've been taught?
How much influence do our thoughts really have over what happens in our lives?
What does it mean to focus on your "wows" instead of your "hows"?
How do you take action when you feel lost, afraid, or completely unsure of the next step?
What does "fake it till you make it" really mean — especially when you're struggling?
What kept you going when your life fell apart, and how did that dark chapter become the beginning of something extraordinary?
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN
Why your dreams may not be manifesting
The mistake that keeps you stuck
How to identify what you truly want
Why taking action before you feel ready can change everything
How to "fake it till you make it" without denying your reality
What to do when life falls apart
How to stop interpreting setbacks as signs of failure
The surprising shift that can transform your life

GET IN TOUCH:
Mike Dooley
Ready for your daily nudge from the Universe?
https://www.tut.com/ 
Create a life that is a masterpiece
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This is my LAST and FINAL event in Bali.
So if you've been thinking about it, this is your last chance to experience what will be a truly life changing journey.
 My promise is that as a result of this journey you will:
Heal your childhood traumas.
Clear your generational patterns.
Shift your subconscious limiting beliefs.
Let go of the playing small and hiding.
Release old fears.
Build a truly fulfilling life of your dreams.
Discover and live your purpose whilst making an impact in the world. 
The last one is: Starts December 5-16.
 If you are ready, the next step is to watch the video and APPLY for an interview at: www.boundlessblissbali.com
 This is your LAST chance.
 Your time is NOW.

"You are not responsible for everyone else's interpretation of your existence."
Why does someone's silence feel like rejection? Why can a few words make you question your worth? Sometimes, the pain isn't just about what happened; it's about what you've learned to believe about yourself.
In this episode of SoulTalk, Kute explores why we take things personally and how old wounds can keep us trapped in the need to be loved, understood, and approved of.
 He invites you to stop carrying what isn't yours and recognize that other people's reactions do not define your worth.
You can care deeply about others without losing yourself in what they think of you. That's where freedom begins.
 
TIMESTAMPS
(00:03:33) — Why We Take Things Personally
(00:05:31) — The Story Behind Your Emotional Pain
(00:08:18) — Why Your Mind Makes Everything About You
(00:12:16) — The Childhood Roots of Our Triggers
(00:15:07) — When Old Wounds Shape Present Reactions
(00:17:13) — Facts, Interpretations, and Emotional Reactions
(00:20:34) — Choosing a More Liberating Perspective
(00:21:46) — Stop Carrying Other People's Emotions
(00:22:52) — Freedom From Praise and Criticism
(00:23:58) — Reclaiming Your Inner Peace
 
SOME QUESTIONS I ASK
Why do we take other people's behavior so personally?
What if their reaction has nothing to do with you?
How do childhood experiences shape the way we respond to rejection?
Are you reacting to what happened—or what you believe it means?
How much of your energy goes into managing other people's feelings?
What would change if you stopped needing everyone to understand you?
 
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN
Why you turn other people's reactions into judgments about yourself.
How childhood wounds shape your emotional triggers.
The difference between what happened and the story you tell yourself.
Why trying to keep everyone happy costs you your peace.
How to stop making other people's emotions your responsibility.
Why even positive opinions can become a trap.
How to remain openhearted without losing yourself.
What it really means to reclaim your inner freedom.
 
GET IN TOUCH:
Create a life that is a masterpiece.
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
Website: www.kuteblackson.com

"Our greatest privilege in this world is to be able to communicate with the higher power."
What if some of what you've been carrying emotionally never truly left you?
We often think that because an experience is over, we've moved on. But what happens to the grief, anger, fear, heartbreak, or pain we never fully processed?
In this fascinating episode of SoulTalk, I sit down with Dr. Bradley Nelson, creator of The Emotion Code, to explore what he calls "emotional baggage": Emotional energy from past experiences that he believes can remain trapped within us and continue influencing how we feel, react, and experience life.
Bradley shares the experiences that led him into healing work, why he learned to look beyond symptoms and search for what might be underneath them, and how prayer became an unexpected part of his journey.
But this conversation goes deeper than releasing emotions. We talk about listening to the subtle ways God may guide us, what it means to surrender rather than control, and why unconditional love may be one of the greatest lessons we are here to learn.
If you've ever felt that you've "moved on" from something yet a part of you is still carrying it, this conversation may invite you to ask a different question:
What are you ready to finally let go of?
TIMESTAMPS
(00:01:41) — Dr. Bradley Nelson's Journey Into Healing
(00:06:28) — What Is Your Body Trying to Tell You?
(00:09:27) — The Emotional Baggage We Carry
(00:11:48) — When Emotions Become Trapped
(00:19:23) — The Connection Between Emotions and the Body
(00:25:15) — Prayer, Healing, and Divine Guidance
(00:29:06) — How to Recognize Guidance From God
(00:32:19) — Can Everyone Heal?
(00:41:27) — How to Begin Releasing Trapped Emotions
(00:43:21) — The Life Lessons That Matter Most
SOME QUESTIONS I ASK
What first led you into the world of healing?
Could our symptoms be trying to communicate something deeper?
How can past emotions continue affecting us years later?
Are certain emotions connected to specific areas of the body?
How do you recognize guidance from God when it comes?
Can everyone heal, or are some experiences part of our life path?
How can someone begin releasing emotional baggage on their own?
What are the most important lessons you would pass on to the next generation?
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN
Why unresolved emotions may stay with us longer than we realize.
What Dr. Nelson means by a "trapped emotion."
Why he believes symptoms can sometimes point to deeper imbalances.
How emotional baggage may influence the way we respond to life.
Why divine guidance is often quieter than we expect.
How to become more aware of God's presence in everyday life.
Why surrender can be more powerful than trying to control everything.
How unconditional love can change the way we experience life.
GET IN TOUCH:
Dr. Bradley Nelson
Release the emotional baggage that stands between you
and the health, love, and abundance you're meant for.
https://drbradleynelson.com/
Create a life that is a masterpiece
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
Website: www.kuteblackson.com

"If praise defines you, then criticism will destroy you."
Who are you still trying to prove yourself to?
Maybe you've achieved, worked hard, helped others, and done everything you thought would make you worthy. Yet beneath it all, there may still be a quiet voice asking: Am I enough now?
In this deeply personal episode of SoulTalk, I unpack one of the most subtle addictions we carry: the need for approval.
Often, it begins early, when we learn which versions of ourselves receive love, attention, and belonging. So we adapt. We perform. And eventually, we can become so focused on being accepted that we lose touch with who we truly are.
But approval comes at a cost. Every time you silence your truth, betray a boundary, or choose what others expect over what feels true, you abandon a part of yourself.
This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your worth and start choosing yourself.
Because real freedom begins when you no longer need the world's permission to know:
You are already enough. You have nothing left to prove.
 
TIMESTAMPS
(00:00:54) — Who Are You Trying to Prove Yourself To?
(00:04:35) — The Hidden Addiction to Approval
(00:07:06) — How Approval Seeking Begins
(00:09:46) — The Identity You Learned to Perform
(00:12:56) — Breaking Free From Praise and Criticism
(00:14:20) — Choosing Your Truth Over Their Expectations
(00:17:08) — The Power of Radical Self-Acceptance
(00:20:00) — Nothing Left to Prove
SOME QUESTIONS I ASK
Who are you still trying to prove yourself to?
Who did you learn to become in order to be loved?
Where are you choosing approval over your truth?
Would you still want it if nobody knew?
What is your need to be liked costing you?
Who could you become if you stopped performing?
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN
Why approval seeking can become a hidden addiction.
How childhood belonging shapes who you become.
When adapting for love turns into abandoning yourself.
Why praise and criticism can both keep you trapped.
How the "invisible audience" quietly runs your life.
The real price you pay for being accepted.
Why self-acceptance restores your inner freedom.
What changes when you have nothing left to prove.
GET IN TOUCH:
Create a life that is a masterpiece.
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
Website: www.kuteblackson.com