In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay delves into the realities of resilience and post-traumatic growth with Dr. H'Sien Hayward, a psychologist who shares her incredible personal journey. Dr. Hayward recounts her experiences growing up on a self-sustained homestead, the life-changing accident just before her 17th birthday, and her inspiring academic and professional achievements. The discussion explores profound topics, such as the hedonic treadmill, the importance of finding meaning and purpose, and the nuanced differences between trauma and growth. Enjoy an engaging and intellectually stimulating conversation on how creating meaning after loss can lead to profound personal and collective growth.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Myth of 'What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger'01:25 Introducing Dr. H'Sien Hayward02:43 H'Sien's Early Life and Accident06:50 The Road to Recovery and Resilience10:53 Delayed Grief and Healing20:07 The Hedonic Treadmill and Finding Meaning27:27 Key Findings from Happiness Research27:46 Hedonic Adaptation and Set Points28:34 Exceptions to Hedonic Adaptation29:19 Cosmetic Surgery and Sustained Happiness31:17 Effort and Sustainable Happiness31:36 Positive Psychology Interventions39:54 The Role of Play and Resilience40:16 The Importance of Meaning Over Money44:09 The Power of Humor and Levity46:24 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsHelpful Links:Dr. H'Sien HaywardDr. H'Sien Hayward LinkedIn
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#289 What to Do About Our Buggy Brains, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD
Understanding and Optimizing the Human BrainIn this solo episode of 'SuperPsyched,' Dr. Adam Dorsay delves into the complexities and shortcomings of the human brain. Highlighting that our brains have remained largely unchanged for the past 35,000 years despite dramatic changes in our environment, Dr. Dorsay explains how our brains are primarily wired for survival and efficiency, often leading to suboptimal decisions. He discusses the distinction between fast and slow thinking as described by Nobel laureate Dr. Daniel Kahneman and introduces methods for cognitive refutation to challenge erroneous beliefs. Using the example of a NBA player's binary thinking, he walks through a process to reconsider and redefine the meaning of success and failure, emphasizing the power of reframing negative thoughts to improve life quality.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Understanding the Human Brain01:01 The Brain's Evolutionary Bugs03:24 Thinking Fast and Slow06:47 Cognitive Biases and Refutation11:44 Creating Meaning from Loss14:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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#288 5 Quotes that Improved My Life, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD
In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay shares five transformative quotes that have significantly impacted his life. These quotes cover diverse topics from maintaining focus and understanding mental health to making decisions and applying knowledge. He highlights wisdom from Stephen Covey, Donald Winnicott, Guy Kawasaki, and others, providing actionable insights for personal growth. Additionally, he emphasizes the importance of discussion for change and the power of repetition in achieving mastery. Listen in for practical advice and inspiration to enhance your life.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Life-Changing Quotes: The Main Thing02:43 Mental Health Insights from Donald Winnicott04:45 Decision-Making Wisdom from Guy Kawasaki08:11 Bridging the Gap Between Knowledge and Action09:14 The Power of Talking and Naming Problems12:26 Bonus Wisdom: Repetition is the Mother of Mastery13:28 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude
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#287 The Power of a Side Hustle | Jed Goldstein, JD
In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay speaks with Jed Goldstein, a legal recruiter and musician, about the importance of having a fulfilling side hustle. Jed shares his journey from being an attorney to rediscovering his passion for guitar, which led him to join a successful Grateful Dead tribute band called Working Man's Jed. Throughout the conversation, they discuss how engaging in a side hustle can provide energy and fulfillment in other areas of life, such as work and family. They also explore the necessity of practice, the joy of playing music, and how empathy can improve individual lives and society.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:31 The Importance of a Side Hustle00:53 Meet Jed Goldstein01:55 Reconnecting with an Old Friend06:07 Jed's Musical Journey Begins08:42 The Joy of Playing in Bands15:13 Balancing Music and Life20:59 Rediscovering the Grateful Dead27:29 Debating the Name Change28:06 A Courageous Career Shift30:19 Finding Fulfillment in Legal Recruiting31:19 The Joy of Music and Family33:10 The Art of Improvisation46:02 Practicing and Perfecting the Craft47:10 The Fountain of Youth51:19 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsHelpful Links:Workingman’s JedJed Goldstein LinkedIn
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#286 Internet Porn & Porn Addiction | Paul Marcille, PhD
Warning: Adult Content! Not for children. In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay explores the complex topic of porn addiction with expert guest Dr. Paul Marcille. They discuss the prevalence of online porn, the potential for addiction, and the various consequences associated with excessive use. Dr. Marcille shares insights from his extensive experience in psychology, emphasizing the importance of normalizing conversations about sex and porn. The episode also touches on the implications of early exposure to porn, the role of consent, and strategies for addressing problematic porn use. This comprehensive discussion offers valuable perspectives for parents, educators, and individuals seeking to understand and manage porn consumption.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:28 Disclaimer and Shocking Porn Stats01:34 Introducing Dr. Paul Marcille03:19 Defining Porn Addiction04:41 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Porn Use07:16 Consequences of Porn Addiction11:06 Addressing Porn Addiction in Therapy11:46 Healthy Sexual Relationships19:32 Early Exposure to Pornography23:45 Talking to Kids About Porn28:57 Advice for Adults with Porn Addiction37:47 Final Thoughts and ConclusionHelpful Links:Dr. Paul MarcilleDr. Paul Marcille LinkedIn
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