Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)

Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging?

Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms.

 

In this Episode:

What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”)

Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment)

The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups

Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label?

Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor)

Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever

Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities”

Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy)

The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend

 
Useful Links from this Episode:
Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/

Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/

Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

 

Sponsors
Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero
Get 10% off, use code Libertine
https://mybls.com/Libertine

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent
Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26
https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26

 

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EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club

What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years?

In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces.

And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe.

In this Episode:

Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want)

MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels

Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options

Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe

A consent violation and how quickly things escalated

What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces

2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans

 

Useful Links from this Episode:
Club Eroxx Review (Belgium):
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/

Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event
https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ 

Wanderlust Swingers Website:
https://wanderlustswingers.com/

Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:
https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:
https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

 

Sponsors

Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine 

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 

 


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EP210 – Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips
What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover?

In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend.

You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event.

Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental cock-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection.

In this Episode:

Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover

Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys

Playrooms vs private rooms

Lingerie catwalk moments

Introverts in the lifestyle

Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments

Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up

Open-door hotel rooms

 
Useful Links from this Episode

Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/

Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/

Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/ 

Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V 

Sponsors

Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine 

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 

 

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EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London

What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Saturday’s couples-heavy chaos, plus a very hot dungeon “wine cellar” soft swap.

We talk club vibes, playroom etiquette, and the not-so-sexy realities (hello BV) that can kill the mood, along with practical tips for getting more out of your swinger club nights.

In this episode:

- Our Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club London, logistics, location, and first impressions.

- Friday single-male night vs Saturday’s more couples-heavy energy.

- Dungeon play: a sensual, soft-swap session in the catacombs and how we navigated boundaries.

- Why dress down rules and playroom etiquette matter more than most people think.

- Dealing with vibe-killers (like BV and fully clothed spectators) without shaming anyone.

- Swinger success tips: dressing down, mingling beyond your friend group, and following up on missed connections.

 

Watch the Le Boudoir YouTube Club Tour  
https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg?si=mtw9QtXS8k4m02x7

 

Useful Links from this Episode
Libertine Events – Lifestyle takeovers & events: https://libertineevents.com/
Patreon – See the Dress Down Lingerie Cate wore: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

 

Sponsors

Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine 

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 

 

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EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties)
Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers

Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy?

In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or just a different lane of fun?

Dirty Vanilla 101: what the term actually means (monogamous couples who love the vibe, flirting, lingerie, but don’t play) and why it’s often used as a slur in the lifestyle.

Marketing or Epidemic? Swinger events advertised as “dance parties” on TikTok/IG and “swinger parties” on dating sites – who’s actually to blame: the crowd, or the promoters?

Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties: Dutch club takeovers, 1200-person Amsterdam “swinger” events with no licensed playrooms, and the fetish / dirty vanilla / swinger mash-up that pleases no one.

Are we the problem? Cate & Darrell realise their expectations were stuck in “old school swinger” mode while the culture has shifted under their feet.

Listener Q – Tim: “We’re exclusive. Can we go to a swingers club just for the vibe?” Cate’s nuanced yes, Darrell’s “please do!” and why intention + contribution matters more than labels.

We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world?


Coming Up Next
EP209 - Halloween weekend in London, MFMs, costumes, and chaos: stories from the playroom and beyond.

 

Useful Links from this Episode
Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France): https://libertineevents.com/
Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/
Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

 

Sponsors

Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine 

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 

 

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