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Navigating Divorce with Neurodivergent Kids pt 1 (S8E05)
Divorce is never easy, and when neurodivergent children are involved, the challenges can be even more complex. In this episode, I open up about my own divorce for the first time and discuss how it has affected me as a parent. My kids will also be sharing their experiences in future episodes because they deserve a voice in this conversation.
Joining me today is Dr. Mikki Lee, a licensed psychologist and certified school psychologist with extensive experience working with neurodivergent children and their families. Together, we explore the unique challenges of co-parenting neurodivergent kids, the importance of routine and consistency, and strategies to help families navigate transitions with less trauma and more stability.
This is Part 1 of a two-part series. Next week, we’ll be answering your questions about co-parenting and divorce in neurodivergent families.
Key Topics in This Episode
• The impact of divorce on neurodivergent kids and why their experience may differ from neurotypical children
• Common co-parenting challenges and why different parenting styles become more apparent post-separation
• Why consistency is key and how small differences like bedtime routines can create stress
• Setting expectations while balancing empathy and structure
• Why parents often overcompensate out of guilt and how this can backfire
• The importance of self-care for parents and why you need to take care of yourself to be the best parent possible
Guest Bio
Dr. Mikki Lee is a licensed psychologist and certified school psychologist based in New York City. She specializes in working with neurodivergent children and their families, offering psychological testing and therapy to help support children with autism, ADHD, and learning disabilities.
Learn more about Dr. Mikki Lee at DrMikkiLee.com.
Resources & Links
• Learn more about Dr. Mikki Lee: DrMikkiLee.com
• Visit The Autism Dad website for more resources: TheAutismDad.com
• Follow me on Instagram: Instagram.com/TheAutismDad
• Like my page on Facebook: Facebook.com/TheAutismDad
• Join my private parent support group: TheAutismDad.com/Support
Listen & Subscribe
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• Official Podcast Website: https://listen.theautismdad.com
Next Week:
In Part 2, we’ll be answering listener questions about co-parenting, communication struggles, legal considerations, and helping kids through the transition. Stay tuned.
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The Unbreakable Boy: A Father’s Journey with Scott LeRette (S8E04)
Episode Summary:
Join Rob Gorski, The Autism Dad, in a heartfelt conversation with Scott LeRette, author of "The Unbreakable Boy" and father to Austin, a young man with autism and osteogenesis imperfecta (OI). Scott shares his family's inspiring journey, discussing the challenges and triumphs of raising a child with unique needs.
General Timeframes:
Beginning: Scott describes his family's early experiences and the challenges of Austin's dual diagnoses.
Mid-episode: Rob and Scott discuss the complexities of the autism community and the importance of acceptance and support.
Towards the end: Rob and Scott share their personal experiences and the importance of finding humor and support in their journeys as autism dads.
About the Guest:
Scott LeRette is an autism dad and the author of "The Unbreakable Boy," a memoir about his family's journey with autism and OI. He's a dedicated advocate for his son, Austin, and has shared his experiences with audiences through his writing and public speaking. Scott's story highlights the power of love, humor, and faith in navigating the challenges of raising a child with unique needs. He's passionate about supporting other families and promoting understanding and acceptance within the autism community.
Special Thanks to Our Sponsors:
Safe Place Bedding: Sleep is a major challenge for many families in our community, and Safe Place Bedding can help. Their sensory-friendly, enclosed beds are perfect for kids with unique needs, and they make it easy to get permanent beds covered by insurance. Plus, their new travel bed ensures better sleep anywhere. Visit safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to save 10% and give your child the gift of better sleep—because every family deserves a good night’s rest.
The Unbreakable Boy: The Unbreakable Boy hits theaters on February 21! From the creators of Jesus Revolution and Wonder, this inspiring true story follows Austin, a boy with autism and brittle bone disease, whose joy and resilience transform his family. The film explores faith, hope, and the power of perspective. Don’t miss it! Get your tickets now at https://tickets.theunbreakableboy.movie
Autism 360: Autism 360 is a neuro-affirming app for parents of autistic children, offering 24/7 expert guidance, personalized plans, and practical support for daily challenges. Trusted by thousands, it provides affordable, real-time help. Visit https://s.mtrbio.com/autism-360-robtheautismdad to learn more.
Call to Action:
Subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite podcast listening app. For more information on The Autism Dad Podcast, to share feedback, to be a guest, or inquire about sponsorship opportunities visit https://listen.theautismdad.com
About the Host:
Rob Gorski is The Autism Dad, a passionate advocate for autism awareness and acceptance. He shares his experiences and insights on his podcast and website. Connect with him by visiting
https://theautismdad.com.
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Navigating Grief with Neurodivergent Kids (S8E03)
Join Rob Gorski, The Autism Dad, and grief specialist Sylvia Moore Meyers as they discuss the challenges and strategies for helping neurodivergent kids navigate grief and loss. Sylvia, an autistic mom herself, shares her personal experiences and insights into how we can better support our children during difficult times.
General Timeframes:
Beginning: Rob and Sylvia discuss the challenges neurodivergent kids face with grief.
Mid-episode: Sylvia explains how we can help kids understand and process grief, loss, and trauma.
Towards the end: Rob and Sylvia discuss Sylvia's book, Gold Scars, and how it can help families navigate grief.
About Sylvia Moore Meyers:
Sylvia Moore Meyers is a grief specialist, coach, and author. She is also an autistic mom. She has a Master's degree in human services with a concentration in crisis and trauma and is currently working on her Ph.D.
About "Gold Scars: The Truth About Grief, Loss, and Trauma and How to Beautifully Mend":
"Gold Scars" is a book about Sylvia's personal experiences with grief, loss, and trauma, including the loss of her child and her own journey of healing. The book also explores the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals when navigating grief.
Where to get the book:
You can purchase "Gold Scars" from the following retailers:
Morgan James Publishing: https://www.morgan-james-publishing.com
Books-A-Million: https://www.booksamillion.com/
Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/
Sylvia recommends purchasing from Morgan James Publishing to support her directly.
Special Thanks to Our Sponsors:
Safe Place Bedding: Sleep is a major challenge for many families in our community, and Safe Place Bedding can help. Their sensory-friendly, enclosed beds are perfect for kids with unique needs, and they make it easy to get permanent beds covered by insurance. Plus, their new travel bed ensures better sleep anywhere. Visit safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to save 10% and give your child the gift of better sleep—because every family deserves a good night’s rest.
The Unbreakable Boy: The Unbreakable Boy hits theaters on February 21! From the creators of Jesus Revolution and Wonder, this inspiring true story follows Austin, a boy with autism and brittle bone disease, whose joy and resilience transform his family. Starring Zachary Levi and Meghann Fahy, the film explores faith, hope, and the power of perspective. Don’t miss it! Get your tickets now at https://tickets.theunbreakableboy.movie
Mightier: Mightier helps kids self-regulate emotionally through biofeedback-based video games. Learn more and get a discount at Visit https://www.mightier.com/. Use code "theautismdad22" to save 10%.
Call to Action:
Subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite podcast listening app. For more information on The Autism Dad Podcast, to share feedback, to be a guest, or inquire about sponsorship opportunities visit https://listen.theautismdad.com
About the Host:
Rob Gorski is The Autism Dad, a passionate advocate for autism awareness and acceptance. He shares his experiences and insights on his podcast and website. Connect with him by visiting
https://theautismdad.com.
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The Power of SPARK: How Autism Research is Changing Lives (S8E02)
Join Rob Gorski, The Autism Dad, in a conversation with Dr. Pamela Feliciano, Scientific Director of SPARK for Autism. Dr. Feliciano, an autism mom herself, shares her personal journey and insights into SPARK's groundbreaking research. Discover how SPARK is connecting families with researchers to accelerate breakthroughs in autism understanding and support. Learn how you can get involved and contribute to this vital initiative.
General Timeframes:
Beginning of the episode: In the first 10 minutes, Dr. Feliciano shares her personal journey as an autism mom and discusses her son Dylan's progress.
Mid-episode: Around the 20-minute mark, the conversation shifts to SPARK's mission and goals, exploring how the initiative is advancing autism research.
Towards the end: In the final segment, you'll hear how families can get involved with SPARK and contribute to this important work.
Links:
SPARK for Autism: https://sparkforautism.org/
The Autism Dad Podcast: https://listen.theautismdad.com
Special thanks to our sponsors:
Safe Place Bedding: Sleep is a major challenge for many families in our community, and Safe Place Bedding can help. Their sensory-friendly, enclosed beds are perfect for kids with unique needs, and they make it easy to get permanent beds covered by insurance. Plus, their new travel bed ensures better sleep anywhere. Visit safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to save 10% and give your child the gift of better sleep—because every family deserves a good night’s rest.
Autism 360: Autism 360 is a neuro-affirming app for parents of autistic children, offering 24/7 expert guidance, personalized plans, and practical support for daily challenges. Trusted by thousands, it provides affordable, real-time help. Use the code “theautismdad” to save 10%
Mightier: Mightier helps kids self-regulate emotionally through biofeedback-based video games. Learn more and get a discount at Visit https://www.mightier.com/. Use code “theautismdad22” to save 10%.
Call to Action:
Visit SPARKforAutism.org today to learn more and join the movement!
Subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite podcast listening app. For more information on The Autism Dad Podcast, to share feedback, to be a guest, or inquire about sponsorship opportunities, visit https://listen.theautismdad.com
About the Host:
Rob Gorski is The Autism Dad, a passionate advocate for autism awareness and acceptance. He shares his experiences and insights on his podcast and website. Connect with him by visiting https://theautismdad.com.
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How Telehealth is Changing Autism Evaluations (S8E01)
Episode Summary:
In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Taylor Day, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism evaluations and therapy via telehealth. We dive into the growing accessibility of remote autism evaluations, how telehealth compares to in-person assessments, and how it helps families stuck on long waitlists. Dr. Day shares insights from her personal and professional experiences, the importance of supporting the whole family, and why we must shift the conversation around parental emotions and autism diagnoses.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
• How telehealth is transforming autism evaluations
• Why remote assessments can be just as effective as in-person visits
• The role of parental emotions and why grief and acceptance can coexist
• How parents can navigate diagnosis waitlists and start supporting their child now
• The importance of presuming competence in autistic children
About My Guest:
Dr. Taylor Day is a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism evaluations and therapy. She brings a unique perspective as both a clinician and a sibling of an autistic individual. Through her practice, she helps families across the U.S. access telehealth evaluations and support services without long wait times.
Connect with Dr. Taylor Day:
• Website: DrTaylorDay.com
• Instagram: @the.dr.tay
• Podcast: Evolved with Dr. Tay
Sponsor Message:
This episode is brought to you by:
Safe Place Bedding: Sleep is a major challenge for many families in our community, and Safe Place Bedding can help. Their sensory-friendly, enclosed beds are perfect for kids with unique needs, and they make it easy to get permanent beds covered by insurance. Plus, their new travel bed ensures better sleep anywhere. Visit safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to save 10% and give your child the gift of better sleep—because every family deserves a good night’s rest.
Mightier: Mightier helps kids self-regulate emotionally through biofeedback-based video games. Learn more and get a discount at Visit https://www.mightier.com/. Use code “theautismdad22” to save 10%.
Resources & Links:
• Learn more about autism evaluations via telehealth → DrTaylorDay.com
• Follow me on Instagram → @theautismdad
• Join my private online parenting support group → Join Here
• Subscribe to my podcast for more episodes like this → Listen on Your Favorite Platform
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Welcome to "The Autism Dad" podcast, hosted by Rob Gorski — a single father to three remarkable autistic children and the voice behind a widely-read blog that has been a lifeline for parents since 2010. With over a decade of firsthand experience, Rob's insights have not only impacted families worldwide but have also been featured on platforms like The Tamron Hall Show, ABC News, BBC Worldwide, CNN, and Entrepreneur Magazine. Join us every Tuesday and Thursday for fresh episodes that delve into the complex world of autism and special needs parenting. This podcast serves as a safe haven, offering a blend of personal stories, expert interviews, and actionable advice. Whether you're a parent navigating the nuanced challenges of raising a neurodivergent child or simply someone looking to better understand the realm of autism, "The Autism Dad" podcast provides understanding, support, and education for all. Don't go this journey alone; tune in and become part of a community committed to awareness, acceptance, and growth.