490 - Your Vision Might Be a Lie: Here’s How to Know
This might be the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.
What if the vision you're chasing isn't even real? What if you're frustrated, not because you're behind… but because you're living in delusion?
In this episode, the guys go all the way in — breaking down the dangerous difference between perception and reality, and how most people sabotage their future by refusing to expose themselves to the truth.
You'll hear:
Why your vision might be built on lies
The hidden traps of tipping culture, insurance, and "they" systems designed to keep you in the dark
How exposure shatters delusion and provides the clarity you need to move forward
Real talk on homeownership, money moves, and why most people never get wealthy
Delusion feels good — until it doesn’t.
Reality stings, but it leads to real progress. If you’re ready to stop pretending and start building a life that actually works… this episode is for you.
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489 - Delusion Is Costing You Everything
You’re not stuck because of your job, your past, or your partner…
You’re stuck because of the lies you believe about yourself.
In this episode, the S2S crew unpacks the real reason most people never elevate: self-deception. You’re grinding, praying, and planning—but you’re out of alignment with the truth.
We’re calling it out—and giving you the mindset shift to finally move forward.
No more delusion. No more excuses. It’s time to get free.
💡 The awareness you’ve been avoiding? It’s the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.
👇 Tap in and take back control of your life.
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488 - 💥 The Awkward Talk Every Couple MUST Have (Before It’s Too Late!)
This week on the Secret to Success Podcast, the crew dives into a raw, awkward, but absolutely necessary conversation: what happens when your partner stops trying? One listener asks, “Do I tell my wife she never dresses up anymore… or stay quiet to keep the peace?”
CJ, ET, Karl, and Jemal open up the uncomfortable truth about relationship expectations, unmet needs, and why most couples are too scared to say what they really want. From misaligned visions to silent resentment, they break down why failing to communicate can slowly destroy even the best marriages.
If you’re married, dating, or want a healthy relationship, this episode will challenge you hard and give you real steps to fix things — before you lose what you’ve built.
🚨 Don’t miss this one — your relationship might depend on it.
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487 - Secondhand Divorce: How Other People's Marriages Are Wrecking Yours
You ever wonder why your healthy marriage still feels heavy?
In this episode, the guys get real about the weight of being the “strong couple” in your circle — the ones everyone runs to when their relationship is falling apart. But what if constantly being surrounded by broken marriages is secretly impacting your own?
From secondhand smoke to secondhand divorce, CJ, ET, Karl, and Jemal unpack why healthy couples need spaces to recharge, reset, and be celebrated — not just drained. They introduce a bold new vision: Forever Forward Marriage — an exclusive retreat for healthy marriages only.
▶️ Why healthy marriages need protection
▶️ How Camille nursed Jemal through two surgeries — twice
▶️ The danger of dimming your light for broken couples
▶️ Creating a marriage Olympics — the All-Star Game for couples in bliss
▶️ What real investment in your spouse actually looks like
This isn’t a marriage conference for broken people — it’s a celebration for couples in bliss.
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Visit ForeverForwardMarriage.com to join the movement.
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486 - Stop Saving People Who Don’t Want to Be Saved
🔊 Episode Description:
This week on the Secret to Success Podcast, Eric Thomas and CJ go all the way in. If you’ve ever been the person holding it all together while everyone around you falls apart, this episode is your wake-up call.
ET opens up about what it really means to be fully responsible—and the emotional, financial, and physical toll it takes when you constantly pour into people who don’t take ownership for themselves. From family to friends to business partners, this conversation exposes the difference between helping and enabling.
CJ shares powerful insights on how to protect your peace, what it looks like to set boundaries with love, and why walking away isn’t quitting—it’s maturity.
This episode is raw, practical, and guaranteed to shift the way you approach relationships.
💥 You’ll learn:
Why partial responsibility is more dangerous than none
How to spot takers (even when they’re close to you)
What “generosity wars” look like when done right
Why you should stop playing the hero and start protecting your purpose
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About The Secret To Success with CJ, Karl, Jemal & Eric Thomas
In this episode of the "Secret to Success" podcast, CJ hosts an engaging conversation featuring co-host Karl Wesley Phillips, Dr. King, ET and special guest Gersh King. The episode kicks off with the hosts catching up, sharing a light-hearted and humorous dialogue that sets the tone for an inspiring discussion.
Gersh King, a physical therapist known for his exceptional skills and dedication, shares his journey of personal and professional growth. He discusses his experiences with challenges such as homelessness, ADHD, and anxiety, and how he overcame them through intense dedication to his craft and personal development. Gersh emphasizes the importance of impact over monetary gain, explaining how he discovered fulfillment through service and honing his skills. He also delves into his rigorous routine, including his practice of lunges and a disciplined workout regimen inspired by figures like Bruce Lee.
The hosts touch on topics like the power of breathing techniques to manage anxiety and enhance focus. Gersh leads a brief breathing exercise to demonstrate how proper breathing can ground you and activate the parasympathetic system for relaxation. The conversation further explores philosophies from Bruce Lee, the significance of being authentic, and how to harness one's energy and skills to become a master in their field.
This episode is a deep dive into the mindset and practices required to achieve personal and professional mastery, offering listeners practical tips and inspiration to pursue their own paths to success.
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