Everyone's Talkin' Money

Most money advice tells you to try harder, be more disciplined, or find a better system. But if that actually worked, you wouldn’t still feel stuck. In this episode, Shari breaks down why so many of your money habits have nothing to do with math and everything to do with stress, identity, and survival.

You’ll learn the four behavioral patterns that quietly drive how you spend, save, avoid, and overthink money—and why none of them mean you’re bad with money.

This conversation connects the dots between your nervous system and your financial behavior, so you can stop judging your outcomes and start understanding your patterns.

By the end, you’ll have simple, practical ways to interrupt money habits without shame, perfectionism, or white-knuckling your way to change.

If you ever overthink money decisions or avoid conversations you know you need to have, The Money Conversations Guide can help. It’s designed to help you slow the moment down, get grounded, and separate money choices from pressure or shame. Download the Money Conversation Guide Here.

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Setting financial goals is the easy part. Maintaining them when life gets busy is where most people get stuck.

In this episode, Shari breaks down why motivation and discipline aren’t the problem—and why most money plans fall apart by March.

You’ll learn how to shift from relying on willpower to building simple maintenance routines that keep you connected to your money without requiring constant attention.

Shari walks through a realistic 10-minute weekly check-in, a 30-minute monthly review, and a quarterly reset that allows your goals and systems to adjust with your life. Download your Money Maintenance Map here.

This episode is about visibility without stress, progress without burnout, and learning how to reset without shame when you fall off.

If you want money routines that actually survive busy weeks, low-energy seasons, and real life, this episode shows you how to build them.

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Most money advice is either extreme restriction or delusional optimism.

The truth is that real change happens in the middle, where you build systems that work with your actual lifestyle instead of the one you wish you had.

This week, I’m joined by Jen and Jill from the Frugal Friends podcast to talk about why we overcomplicate money resets, how to spend based on what we truly value, and what “frugal” really means in 2026.

We dig into the psychological reason we over-complicate New Year money goals, how values-based spending creates direction without deprivation, what the “radical middle” looks like in real life, the difference between being frugal and being restricted, and why paid-off debt and pretty spreadsheets aren’t a personality.

If you’ve ever set a financial resolution in January and rage-bought something by February, this episode is for you.

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If you’re tired of setting money goals that quietly die somewhere between Valentine’s Day and tax season, this episode is your intervention.

We’re talking about why traditional goal setting backfires, how shame-based goals sabotage progress, and what it really takes to set financial targets that fit your season of life—whether you’re growing, stabilizing, repairing, maintaining, or just trying to get through a major transition without losing your mind.

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You’ll learn the difference between aspirational goals (“max out my 401(k)”) and supportive goals (“increase my 401(k) by 1% each quarter”), why willpower is the least reliable financial strategy on earth, and how the One-Goal Rule keeps your cash flow focused long enough for you to actually win.

By the end, you’ll walk away with money goals that are realistic, emotionally grounded, system-supported, and—most importantly—still alive in March.

Because you don’t need more aggressive goals… you need goals that match your systems, your season, and your capacity.

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You can make great money and still feel like you’re constantly playing catch-up. You can hit a savings goal one month and have to pull it back out the next. You can earn a six-figure salary and still check your account before you swipe your card. That doesn’t mean you’re bad with money — it usually means your cash flow is broken.

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In this episode, Shari breaks down why cash flow matters more than budgets, why financial goals fall apart even when you’re motivated, and the quiet structural issues that make high earners feel stressed, behind, or confused. She explains the five biggest cash flow killers (like income timing mismatch, floating lifestyle expenses, and savings without automation) and the simple framework for stabilizing cash flow so goals actually work in real life.

This isn’t about cutting spending, skipping coffee, or trying harder. This is about fixing the foundation so your money moves in rhythm with your life instead of against it. If you’ve ever wondered where your money goes even though you’re not overspending, or why your goals never stick, this episode will make everything click.

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