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The Dismissive Avoidant's Idea of a Healthy Relationship
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Understanding dismissive avoidant attachment can transform your approach to relationships. In this episode, Thais Gibson explores what a healthy relationship looks like for a dismissive avoidant, highlighting their core needs—such as autonomy, consistency, and feeling unconditionally accepted.
She also breaks down common misunderstandings, how to communicate effectively with a dismissive avoidant partner, and strategies for fostering deeper connection while respecting their boundaries. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or want to understand yourself better, this episode offers powerful insights for navigating love and intimacy.
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How The Fearful Avoidant Reacts To Breakups (& How To Win Them Back!)
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Breakups can be incredibly challenging, especially for those with a fearful avoidant attachment style. In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, breaks down how fearful avoidants react to breakups, why they initially withdraw, and how they process emotions over time.
She also offers insights into whether reconciliation is possible and the key steps needed for a healthy reunion. If you're navigating a breakup or seeking a deeper understanding of attachment styles, this episode provides powerful strategies to foster healing and personal growth.
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5 Signs A Fearful Avoidant Misses You But Won't Say It
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Do you wonder if your fearful avoidant partner misses you but is too afraid to say it? Discover the five subtle signs and learn how to bridge the gap for better understanding and connection.
In today’s episode, Thais Gibson reveals five subtle but powerful signs that a fearful avoidant partner may miss you, even if they don’t say it outright. Learn how behaviors like pushing you away, seeking quality time, or showing negative framing can indicate their desire to reconnect. Listen now for insights into decoding their actions and fostering better communication in your relationship.
Timestamps
00:00:00 – Introduction: Does the Fearful Avoidant Miss You?
00:01:04 – Sign #1: Pushing You Away to Test Your Response
00:02:00 – The Role of Validation in Their Behavior
00:04:02 – Sign #2: Asking About Small Details of Your Life
00:05:32 – Hypervigilance as a Coping Mechanism
00:06:39 – Sign #3: Inviting You to Novel Experiences
00:08:01 – Why New Experiences Help Them Bond
00:08:50 – Sign #4: Planning Quality Alone Time
00:10:30 – Sign #5: Negative Framing Instead of Direct Expression
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5 Shocking Protest Behaviors of the Dismissive Avoidant
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In this insightful episode, we delve into the five common protest behaviors displayed by dismissive avoidant attachment styles, offering listeners practical strategies for healthier communication and deeper understanding.
Join us as we break down stonewalling, emotional withdrawal, flaw-finding, numbing out, and relationship-threatening behaviors, exploring their root causes and effective ways to address them.
Whether you're a dismissive avoidant, in a relationship with one, or simply curious about attachment theory, this episode provides essential tools to navigate and improve these dynamics.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
01:14 - 1 — Stonewalling
01:55 - Why Do DA’s Stonewall?
05:56 - Core Themes in DA's and Stonewalling
11:07 - How to Communicate Healthily
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15:37 - 2 — Threatening to End the Relationship
16:53 - Changing Your Persona vs Adjusting a Behavior
18:12 - Do They Actually Want to Leave the Relationship?
20:40 - If You're on the Receiving End
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30:09 - 3 — Withdrawing When Emotionally Overwhelmed
36:05 - DAs and Co-Regulation
40:54 - 4 — Blaming, Deflecting, and Flaw-Finding
43:31 - Flaw-Finding Stories
53:35 - 5 — Numbing Out and Soothing Through External Comforts
59:31 - Conclusion
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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!