She dreamed about spanking parties all her life, but it wasn’t until a chance encounter with a certain podcast (who, us?) that veteran and award-winning little (oops, spoilers!), Hilly, realized her dream could come true! Now this veteran of the leather community, pack member, and littles educator joins us to discuss the littles scene, how welcoming spankos are to littles, and even how to know if you may be a little yourself. Wait, Leather AND Littles? Yes, it can be a thing. And Hilly exemplifies the combination and explains how it can work. And for those who may not be familiar with Leather OR Littles, Hilly explains both! If you don’t understand littles, if you are curious about them, if you have a little in your life, or if you identify as one yourself, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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Episode 0132 - From Bottom To Top
You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who’ve grown to be a Top as well? Perhaps you’re like Karina and you’ve been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. Don’t forget - Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops and remind them how amazing they are! Tops, please be open to feedback - it’s how we grow. So, if you’ve ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more. Â
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Episode 0131 - Kink in Music 2
Do you have a favorite kinky song? We have so many, this is our 2nd episode featuring them! Take a listen to some more of our favorite kink-adjacent tunes, and some recommended by you, our listeners, and we’ll share our thoughts of how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. And some of them inspired some new items on Sky’s spanking bucket list! Are there songs we haven’t covered? Let us know. Maybe we’ll check them out in another future episode. What’s on your kinky playlist? We’ve still barely scratched the surface.  Music Videos from this Episode: John Mellencamp - Hurts So Good Ella Fitzgerald (covering Cole Porter) - Why Can’t You Behave The Righteous Gemstones - Misbehavin’ Akon (ft. Eminem) - Smack That Devo - Whip It Paul Thorn - It’s a Great Day to Whup Somebody’s Ass Liz Anderson - Mama Spank Lords of Acid - Spank My Booty Melanie Martinez - Soap Beyonce - Naughty Girl Kink in Music 1 Â
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Episode 0130 - Detention and School Role Play
Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal’s office, or even British discipline.
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Episode 0129 - Tops Roundtable
At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg. We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion. If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.
Join a group of friends as they explore the world of Adult Consensual Spanking. This unique kink offers much more than many realize. Come join in the fun. There are many lessons to be learned.
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