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323: Healing from Betrayal: Inner Child Work and Rediscovering Strength with Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS, CPCS
Unlock the secret to healing from betrayal as Eddie Caparucci, a seasoned counselor, guides us through the transformative power of inner child work. Gain insights from Eddie as he unravels the intricate tapestry of trauma, betrayal, and recovery. Eddie’s latest book offers a lifeline to those grappling with the pain of infidelity, drawing connections between unresolved childhood wounds and present-day struggles. Together with his wife, Teri, they illuminate a path towards reclaiming one's sense of self and emotional resilience.
Join us as we explore the profound impact of childhood experiences on our responses to betrayal. Eddie shares his expertise on identifying core emotional triggers and how these can magnify the hurt of infidelity. By acknowledging the inner child, betrayed partners can begin the journey of healing and learn to separate raw emotions from rational thoughts. With compassion and understanding, this episode shines a light on the complex journey of recovery, empowering listeners to manage emotional distress more effectively.
In this episode, you will hear:
Eddie Capparucci discusses healing from betrayal using inner child work, linking unresolved childhood trauma to current emotional issues.
Exploration of betrayal and trauma intersection, offering insights on separating emotions from thoughts for recovery.
Strategies for finding inner strength and resilience after betrayal, focusing on self-empowerment and understanding pain.
The importance of community support and therapy for managing distress and rebuilding trust.
Discussion on identifying emotional triggers and addressing past wounds for recovery and better relationship decisions.
Insights on maintaining healthy relationships by understanding childhood impact on adult emotions and behavior.
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TAM Ep 58: Beyond Values: How Meaning Making Creates Lasting Change
What drives you forward when recovery gets tough? In this powerful follow-up to their episode on values, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive into the concept of "meaning making" – the essential fuel that powers your journey toward your most important goals.
Have you ever achieved something you thought would make you happy, only to feel empty afterward? Or felt stuck in life despite doing everything "right"? This episode explores why so many people – even successful ones – struggle with feeling unfulfilled and disconnected from what truly matters to them.
Using the framework developed by Thomas Mara, the hosts break down how meaning isn't something external that happens to you – it's something you actively create. If values are your North Star showing you direction, meaning is the engine that moves your boat forward.
Duane and Eric explain how distorted meaning-making contributes to anxiety disorders, depression, addiction, and eating disorders – and how reconnecting with authentic meaning can transform recovery. They introduce the concept of "supreme concerns" – the things that matter most to you – and provide practical strategies for identifying them and building your daily life around them.
Whether you're struggling with addiction, mental health challenges, or simply feeling disconnected from purpose, this episode offers a roadmap for creating a more authentic, fulfilling life aligned with what truly matters to you. The hosts remind us that meaning-making isn't just a nice addition to recovery – it's essential for building resilience against life's challenges and creating genuine happiness.
Don't miss the downloadable worksheet mentioned in the show notes to help you identify your own supreme concerns and start creating more meaning in your life today
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Key Topics
• The relationship between values and meaning in recovery
• Understanding meaning as a perspective rather than inherent in objects
• How distorted meaning contributes to mental health disorders
• The concept of "supreme concerns" as guideposts for meaningful living
• Practical strategies for embedding meaning into everyday life
• Overcoming obstacles to meaning making like fear and powerlessness
• How alignment with meaning creates resilience and authentic relationships
Timestamp
[00:01:30] Eric's analogy: Values as North Star, meaning as the motor
[00:03:00] Defining meaning and why it's personal to each individual
[00:05:49] How anxiety and depression distort meaning
[00:07:52] The challenge of misalignment even in successful people
[00:09:13] Exploring the concept of "supreme concerns"
[00:11:43] Overcoming obstacles to meaning making
[00:14:00] How meaning making enhances recovery and relationships
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322: A Journey to Authenticity and Empowerment with Dwayne Barnes
Growing up amidst the chaos of a turbulent family life in Detroit, Dwayne Barnes discovered a lifeline in the form of creative expression. His journey from a tumultuous childhood to the bright lights of Hollywood is nothing short of remarkable. During our conversation, Dwayne opens up about how acting became his sanctuary, a place where he could channel the dysfunction of his upbringing into something beautiful and transformative. His debut book, "Their Eyes Were Never on Me," is a raw exploration of self-addiction and limiting beliefs, offering a beacon of hope for those eager to break free from their own chains.
Our discussion with Dwayne shines a light on the intricate balance between family challenges and career aspirations. He shares candid reflections on the sacrifices made by loved ones, including a grandmother's unwavering support amidst addiction struggles. Navigating the pressure of Hollywood, Dwayne faced the daunting task of starring in roles that eerily mirrored his own life’s trials. Despite being surrounded by the glamor and allure of fame, he unveils the real-life personal battles and healing processes that unfolded behind the scenes, including the realization of personal issues, obstacles in therapy, and the unyielding quest for resilience.
In this episode, you will hear:
Dwayne Barnes' transformative journey from a turbulent childhood in Detroit to success in Hollywood
Acting as a sanctuary; channeling his chaotic upbringing into creative expression
Insights from his book "Their Eyes Were Never on Me," exploring self-addiction and breaking limiting beliefs
The role of family dynamics and sacrifices, including the support of his grandmother, in his journey
Navigating the pressures of fame while facing personal challenges and healing processes
Embracing creativity and spirituality as tools for authentic growth and empowerment
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TAM+ Ep 57: The Power of Values: Your Guide to Authentic Recovery
Are you feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or like you're living someone else's life? In this powerful episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind dive deep into how unclear values might be sabotaging your recovery and overall well-being. Like a rudder on a boat, your values guide you through life's challenges and decisions. Yet many people in recovery struggle because they haven't identified what truly matters to them.
The hosts explore how living without clear values can lead to anxiety, depression, and that nagging feeling that something's missing. They share practical insights on how to discover your authentic values across different life areas - from relationships to career choices. Whether you're in recovery or simply seeking a more meaningful life, this episode offers concrete strategies for aligning your actions with what truly matters to you. Plus, listeners get access to a special worksheet to help them define their personal values and start making better decisions today.
Download the worksheet: Building a Life & Recovery Guided by Your Values Worksheet
Key Topics:
The connection between undefined values and recovery struggles
How misaligned values lead to anxiety, depression, and unfulfillment
The importance of differentiating between personal values and "shoulds" from others
How values change throughout different life stages and circumstances
Using values as a decision-making tool in relationships and career choices
The role of emotion regulation in living according to your values
Practical strategies for defining values in different life domains
Timestamps:
[00:01:14] Values as a rudder: The importance of guidance in life
[00:02:37] Why values need regular review and refinement
[00:04:31] How undefined values impact mental health and recovery
[00:06:00] Using values to make better decisions [00:09:35] Breaking down values into specific life categories
[00:11:18] Practical examples of applying values to relationships
[00:13:21] Access to free values worksheet and resources
Episode Credits
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321: Building Hope and Community for Addiction Recovery with Caitlin Morrison
When Caitlin Morrison found herself facing the bittersweet task of continuing her brother Matthew Perry's legacy, she embraced it with a deep sense of purpose and resilience. On this episode of the Addicted Mind Podcast, Caitlin joins us to share her poignant journey of supporting a loved one through addiction and how it shaped her work at the Matthew Perry Foundation of Canada. Through her story, we unravel the layers of hope, frustration, and the powerful drive to reduce the stigma surrounding addiction.
We explore the intricate world of addiction treatment, emphasizing the necessity for extended care and the brain's lengthy healing process. We challenge the misconceptions around addiction by advocating for a perspective that treats it as a chronic disease, akin to diabetes or heart disease. With insights from Caitlin's experiences and Matthew's courageous openness about his struggles, we highlight the importance of long-term support and the role of compassion in recovery.
In this episode, you will hear:
Caitlin Morrison's journey continuing her brother Matthew Perry's legacy in addiction support.
The role of the Matthew Perry Foundation of Canada in advocating for long-term recovery.
Addressing addiction as a chronic disease, similar to diabetes or heart disease.
Importance of reducing stigma and embracing compassion in addiction recovery.
The transformative impact of community-centric facilities like the Matthew Perry House in Ottawa.
Matthew Perry's courageous openness about his struggles inspiring others to seek help.
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Instagram: @mpfcanada
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