Deep Listening - Impact beyond words - Oscar Trimboli

Claire Pedrick, Shaney Crawford and Oscar Trimboli explore the nuances and dynamics of workplace listening, including the importance of presence, flexibility, and curiosity.
Key insights include:
Listening is about creating shared meaning, not just exchanging information. Meaning only emerges in a collaborative space.

Second languages and their musicality can provide insights into how we communicate and connect.

Effective listening requires letting go of preconceptions and being willing to have your mind changed.

Observing and sensing beyond just hearing is a critical aspect of workplace listening that is often overlooked.

The process of noticing HOW people listen can be as enlightening as the content being discussed.

A masterclass of the art and science of workplace listening, with valuable lessons for anyone seeking to improve their communication skills.
 
Audio Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday, May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
Video Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday, May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
Podcast Episode 127: how to listen to what emerges in between - Part I of III
Podcast Episode 128: how to listen to what emerges in between - Part II of III
Podcast Episode 129: how to listen to what emerges in between - Part III of III
S3 Episode 06: Listening - with Kathryn Mannix
how to listen – fundamentals – workplace edition

In the previous episode 127, Claire Pedrick and I discussed listening through many dimensions, including the role of pause and silence, the influence of the backstory and its impact on workplace change.
Now we are at Part Two of Three, you're about to hear is the reflections from 16 different listeners who initially emailed Claire with their feedback and were open enough to agree to record their perspectives.
Some were recorded on audio, and some were video. 
I invite you to notice what these 16 listeners heard that was similar and different to you.
What I loved exploring was listening to the wide variety of adjectives and verbs.
They used to describe their insights, how they explained what they saw, and their thoughtful reflections about HOW it was said and WHAT was said.
 
Audio Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
Video Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
how to listen – fundamentals – workplace edition

What emerges in between?
This episode is an 'experiment' between Claire Pedrick and Oscar Trimboli as a result of an introduction by Shaney Crawford from Japan.
They explore the role of second languages, the value of silence, and the importance of understanding the past.
What does a group listening audit sound and look like?
The experiment will continue for the next few episodes as they see what emerges in between episodes.
 
 
Audio Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
Video Format - S4 Episode 21: How to Listen with Oscar Trimboli  Wednesday May 01, 2024 - The Coaching Inn from 3D Coaching
how to listen – fundamentals – workplace edition

This episode delves into the critical role of listening, particularly in the context of debates and the competitive advantage provided to participants.
Sasan Kisravi explains the significance of preparation in debate, especially when preparing both sides of the argument.
When preparing both sides of an argument, you can discover and  anticipate the counterpoints that will help you discover multiple approaches to the same issue.
The concept of "competitive listening" is emphasized, and it is important to understand an opponent's argument and analyze its impact on the judge and audience.
Note-taking is a crucial tool for effective listening, but there is a difference between traditional note-taking and a more strategic approach. The latter involves creating a visual map of arguments, identifying key points, and tracking the flow of the discussion.
This method allows listeners to maintain focus, identify unaddressed points, and ultimately gain a clearer understanding of the debate.
The conversation also touches on the psychological aspects of listening, highlighting the importance of motivation and purpose.
By understanding the nuances of effective listening, individuals can improve their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and achieve greater success at work.
 
Listening is a competitive advantage: Effective Listening is crucial for success in debates and workplace communication.
Preparation is key: Understanding both sides of an argument and anticipating counterpoints is essential for effective listening and responding.
Note-taking is a strategic tool: Creating visual maps of arguments helps maintain focus, identify key points, and analyze the flow of the discussion.
 
 
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Listen like World Memory Champion Dr Boris Konrad
Brooklyn Debate League
01:38:00 - The complete Munk Debate - Mainstream Media featuring Douglas Murray, Matt Taibbi, Malcolm Gladwell, Michelle Goldberg November 30, 2022
00:47:36 The original Phuskin Industries Revisionist History Podcast Episode - Malcolm goes to debate school – complete audio episode April 13, 2023
00:10:10 Douglas Murray on Malcolm Gladwell: "I Still Don't Feel Pity"

The importance of listening at Level II, which is three-dimensional
hear,
see,
and sense 
Noticing nonverbal cues and their congruence with their words is a vital skill toward becoming a deeper listener.
While these cues can be informative, it's crucial to interpret them accurately and consider the context.
During this episode we explore noticing
the face,
posture
and breathing
As we delve into the world of nonverbal cues, we are guided by Susan Constantine, Robin Dreeke, Michael Grinder and Andre Agassi. These four perspectives will create a deeper understanding by noticing, baseline and interpreting a range of non-verbals
Finally, Agassi shares a secret about decoding Boris Becker's non-verbal signals which led to an eight-match winning streak in the 1990s.
 
 066: Listening to body language with Susan Constantine
077: The secrets of listening like a spy with Robin Dreeke
085: Hidden Secrets of how to Listen for non-verbals with Michael Grinder